Divorced, single people giving advice on relationships.
I'm married. I would say don't get married to her if you don't truly love her. Marriage is meant to be for life and not to be felt as a "life sentence".
In all honesty, most marriages today are nothing but a contract on the man and his worth, i.e., earning power. Women are often scum. I had three homosexual friends get divorced over the last few years, two are men and the other is a woman.
They lost nearly everything to what they felt was the "love of their life". They fell for the whole "equality to heterosexuals bullshit". This is LOVE...FTN.
Women swing from branch to branch in an effort to steal as much wealth as they can. They will marry fat, fugly piles of shit, sleep with Harvey Weinsteins and worse just to have "more".
If you don't truly love her, you already know that. Don't harm your entire life just because you don't want to "hurt her feeeeeeeeeeeeewings". She'll get over you.
Which when you think about it, is a lot better than her running over you.