So, Amy, have you asked him whether he'd agree on you answering questions about his personal life?
And if you ADMIT that it was your fault,because you were STUPID (only people you could blame in that case would be your parents. For genes they gave you, and for the way they raised you up) so how can you justify this shit spilling by the "things he did to you" (once again - if it was YOUR fault mainly, because you stayed with that person.).? Where's a "logic" (not that a female could use one) here?
It's a simple bitterness and a "revenge", at least call it like it is FFS, and don't try to camouflage it with a good samaritan image, that has came here to "answer peoples questions".