I get massages regularly. It's a great way to relieve stress. Certainly, anyone serious about his physique (like Jay Cutler for example) should get them routinely. Massages are usually administered in 60 or 90 minute sessions. I always get the latter because 60 minutes goes by too quickly. I suggest you begin at a spa to introduce yourself to the experience. For example
http://www.burkewilliamsspa.com/Of course, you can skip the frills and go directly to a private massage studio in someone's home/office (in call) or even have the masseur come to your house (an out call). In the latter case, the masseur will bring the massage table, the oils, and everything else needed to provide the massage. Out calls usually cost more than in calls. If you opt for a private massage be aware that they come in three varieties: therapeutic, sensual, and erotic. The first one is legitimate, the other two are what you think they are...
You can get a good massage from a man or a woman though I think most men prefer male masseurs because they assume a guy will have stronger hands and therefore have better technique. This is debatable but obviously, it is your call. I have had great massages from men and women.
At this point, it sounds almost cliché for me to say this, but many bi-curious men like massages and indulge in them as a kind of displaced (sexual) encounter. You get to experience the touch and caress of a man without any of the sexual implications usually associated with man to man contact…. But that’s a whole other subject.
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