im in the same isutioant,,myfriend im 6'6" 295lbs at 6% bodyfat and my wife is is a medical doctor graduated from harvard herself,,I personally stay home and eat and lift while she works,,she cant understand why I lift to get bigger when im already big myself,,,she said that based on her observation from a doctors perspective its ludacrise that im doing it and that by the time im 40 I will be 6'7" 340lbs just too big,,