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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Dr Dutch on February 02, 2014, 12:23:54 PM
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
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Send a PM to Anabolichalo, he's been through this and handled it very well. Hope this helps.
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Punch her in the stomach.
Push her down some stairs "accidentally".
Suck it up and deal with the kid.
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Congratulations, life changing stuff right there bro!
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Pics of the gf?
and congrats.
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Happened to me 36 years ago. I have had a beautiful daughter ever since.
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Sorry to hear that.
Women and their child wishes, can't we reprogram them? :-\
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
Congratulations....
we were all someone's child,
You'll love your child, will make your life complete.
Many great time's ahead.
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
Abort the mission!
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DO WHATEVER IN YOUR POWER TO MAKE SURE THAT EMBRYO NEVER SEES THE LIGHT OF DAY
or wait i actually think you a douchebag
THIS IS A BLESSING BE THANKFUL AND PREPARE CHILDRENS ROOM FRIEND
CHILDREN ARE THE BEST THING IN THE WORLDS
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Abort the mission!
Agree, once a woman starts talking about children you should realize that she won't change that wish. It's best to know beforehand.
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in theory if you a millionaire it doesnt matter
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in theory if you a millionaire it doesnt matter
No, it fucks with your brain.
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No, it fucks with your brain.
in theory you can live like RC
baby mamas everywhere
living his own life
just give them some handouts here, see kids a few times a year and there call it a day
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Anybody who's found out he will have a baby with his girlfriend would be thrilled or at least happy.
"I knocked her up" and "what do I do now" defines an idiot who's idea about life, relationships and helping a soul experience earthly life is summed up by these two "expressions".
I wonder what exactly was your future's baby sins to be forced to come into life to such illustrious parents :-\
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You need a heir anyways at some point so why not now!
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in theory you can live like RC
baby mamas everywhere
living his own life
just give them some handouts here, see kids a few times a year and there call it a day
That's the thing, I don't even want to think of them.
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Anybody who's found out he will have a baby with his girlfriend would be thrilled or at least happy.
"I knocked her up" and "what do I do now" defines an idiot who's idea about life, relationships and helping a soul experience earthly life is summed up by these two "expressions".
I wonder what exactly was your future's baby sins to be forced to come into life to such illustrious parents :-\
I agree! What an idiot!
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they get better as they get older OP i have two and a third on the way
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
Just like you're a doctor. Another lie coming from a real loser.
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That's the thing, I don't even want to think of them.
a few days a year is not much of a mental strain
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Anybody who's found out he will have a baby with his girlfriend would be thrilled or at least happy.
"I knocked her up" and "what do I do now" defines an idiot who's idea about life, relationships and helping a soul experience earthly life is summed up by these two "expressions".
I wonder what exactly was your future's baby sins to be forced to come into life to such illustrious parents :-\
Srs question? Are there any little sevestase's running around in Romania?
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a few days a year is not much of a mental strain
It would fuck as much with my brain as getting bald to you, and apart from that, I don't want to be a biological dad like that.
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Srs question? Are there any little sevestase's running around in Romania?
No kids so far..that I know of ;D
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
Be a man and take responsibility. You have no choice (unless you have no morals). Congrats, you're a father. Not quite sure what 'WTF now?" means.
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No kids so far..that I know of ;D
You sure?
(http://crasstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/gayparents228x263.jpg)
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Awww man you should be happy bro.
I'd be very happy if I had a girlfriend and baby girl man, fuck I might even forget about bodybuilding and shit if that ever happened.
In the meantime I am gonna start juicing my fucking brains out to console my self of the reality of the situation.
Full beast mode this week, this virgin ass getting test pinned this week.
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Be a man and take responsibility. You have no choice (unless you have no morals). Congrats, you're a father. Not quite sure what 'WTF now?" means.
It means he doesn't want to be a dad... pretty easy to decipher.
I don't blame him.
Kids are a pain in the ass.
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It would fuck as much with my brain as getting bald to you, and apart from that, I don't want to be a biological dad like that.
you do realize it is a natural urge of males to procreate
;D
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It means he doesn't want to be a dad... pretty easy to decipher.
I don't blame him.
Kids are a pain in the ass.
But you know as well as I do it's worth it.
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You sure?
(http://crasstalk.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/gayparents228x263.jpg)
Sev clearly the wife in that photo.
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It's fine as long as the kid is not a girl!
That I couldn't take... knowing all the nasty stuff us guys do to them.
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
This would never have happened to Dave Bourlet:
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you do realize it is a natural urge of males to procreate
;D
Glad I'm not a natural
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But you know as well as I do it's worth it.
I love my kids... No doubt.
Is it "worth it"?
That's a relative question to be honest... My value of my children is my own... other people see things differently. I don't fault anyone for their feelings on the matter.
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This would never have happened to Dave Bourlet:
HAHAHA, what is this? What caused that reaction from Big Dave?
Geez, he got owned. Camera man is half his size. Why not beat him
Love Jay rolling in background 8)
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Awww man you should be happy bro.
I'd be very happy if I had a girlfriend and baby girl man, fuck I might even forget about bodybuilding and shit if that ever happened.
In the meantime I am gonna start juicing my fucking brains out to console my self of the reality of the situation.
Full beast mode this week, this virgin ass getting test pinned this week.
sorry, but there is a lot of homo in that post!
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Be a man and take responsibility. You have no choice (unless you have no morals). Congrats, you're a father. Not quite sure what 'WTF now?" means.
Wobbling Trainer Federation, you should join!
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Kids are a great addition to life just make sure the woman is right.
I made the mistake of having kids with a horrible cu nt of a woman who i wouldnt piss on if she was on fire.
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Remember, you don't choose children, they choose you. I guess at some level everybody agreed. ;D
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you gotta agree busting in a child craving vagina feels very good at the time
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(http://images.politico.com/global/2013/05/01/130501_plan_b_contraceptive_reu_328.jpg)
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Anybody who's found out he will have a baby with his girlfriend would be thrilled or at least happy.
"I knocked her up" and "what do I do now" defines an idiot who's idea about life, relationships and helping a soul experience earthly life is summed up by these two "expressions".
I wonder what exactly was your future's baby sins to be forced to come into life to such illustrious parents :-\
Agree, solid post Sev
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Send a PM to Anabolichalo, he's been through this and handled it very well. Hope this helps.
best advice ever lol
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Here is what you need to do NOW...
Take 50% of the money you are currently earning right now and hide it.
Why?...
Because she's eventually gonna take half of it.
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There's a two year waiting list for families that want to adopt. Remember, anybody can make babies but not everyone is allowed to adopt a child. There are very strict standards for a family to be able to adopt and studies have shown that they on average do better than non adoptive children. Which makes sense.
I just don't understand why the option of adoption is not encourage more as a choice for those that don't want or are not ready to have a child.
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What a nightmare.
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I'm sorry for you.
But you can always graciously opt out and shouldn't feel bad about it.
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I'm sorry for you.
But you can always graciously opt out and shouldn't feel bad about it.
What do you mean by "opt out"?
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I'm sorry for you.
But you can always graciously opt out and shouldn't feel bad about it.
you cant opt out of being a father
too many men think you can
if you have a child you owe that child your love, support
and to create the best possible environment for the child to grow up in
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
from your response.... sure you will run away like your dad...what a fatherless society.
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if she has a job and is not a nutcase
and you are pretty fucking old anyway
so why not ::)
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Congratulatons! Who's the father?
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Congratulatons! Who's the father?
Some black dude. ;D
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Congratulations, make sure the decorations in the nursery go with mullato
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Congratulations, make sure the decorations in the nursery go with mullato
are you saying that the nursery should have a Ugandan theme cyp
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Dr Duch proves to be a mature man who is not afraid to assume responsability.
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Kids are a beautiful we get that, now let's deal with the reality.
the reality is at that at this stage if he didn't want to have he out of luck. He is going to have to pay for the next 18 years even if he didn't want to go through the pregnancy. There is something wrong about that.
I have read stories of very short term relationship that produced a child that they guy didn't but end up giving 30% or more of his check to the mother until the kid turns 20.
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are you saying that the nursery should have a Ugandan theme cyp
No. Just some fishnets, various hooks and inflated colored condoms as balloons.
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are you saying that the nursery should have a Ugandan theme cyp
Yes bigmc, i'm saying that some straw on the floor in honour of the baby fathers culture would not be out of place bro
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You can name him Zwarte Piet.
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
So you really do love her? Then have the kid and spend the rest of your life happy with your new family. There are only two things worth pursuing; love, and happiness. Family brings both. Congratulations!
You say you love her, but aren't ready to commit to her, but do want a child? Have the kid, and be a good father to the kid when you get your moments with them. Do the best you can. A broken home isn't a death sentence for a young child. It's not easy, but we all have our crosses to bear.
You don't really love her, and don't really want a kid either? Talk to her about an abortion or adoption. If that's not in her life plans (i.e. she wants the baby with or without you), then do the right thing and at least contribute financially to pay child support and pray the child's mother finds a good, responsible man to raise your child so he/she will grow up right.
Only you know what's right for you, so please choose wisely. Good luck. Surely, this is a decision that will significantly affect the rest of your life.
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So you really do love her? Then have the kid and spend the rest of your life happy with your new family. There are only two things worth pursuing; love, and happiness. Family brings both. Congratulations!
You say you love her, but aren't ready to commit to her, but do want a child? Have the kid, and be a good father to the kid when you get your moments with them. Do the best you can. A broken home isn't a death sentence for a young child. It's not easy, but we all have our crosses to bear.
You don't really love her, and don't really want a kid either? Talk to her about an abortion or adoption. If that's not in her life plans (i.e. she wants the baby with or without you), then do the right thing and at least contribute financially to pay child support and pray the child's mother finds a good, responsible man to raise your child so he/she will grow up right.
Only you know what's right for you, so please choose wisely. Good luck. Surely, this is a decision that will significantly affect the rest of your life.
Excellent realistic post!
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You should love, nurture, and embrace the subtle joys that is parenthood. You have many things to look forward to.... first words, first steps, first day at school, etc.
EDIT:
Procure metal coat hanger.
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give her a ruffi, when she passes out push her down the stairs and punch her in the gut a few times. When she wakes up wait about 24 hours for the drugs to leave her system and just claim she must have blacked out and tripped.
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
Stress,doc appointments,weight gain,unexpected expenses. Oh yeah kids are great ;D
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What now? Wow, Generation Nothing in all its glory.
You be a fucking man and take responsibility. That, 'Now'.
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ahahahahahahahahahahahah ahahahahahahahahahahahah ahahahahahaha
life will never be the same
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Man up and assume your responsabilities.
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It ended up in a miscarriage, which isn't that weird when a woman is over 30.
Feel relieved and sad at the same time.
Hope you guys can relate to that.
Thanks for the positive posts...
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
that is what happens when a virgin finally gets some pussy so much cum in your balls, how does it feels not to have to jerk off in your fish tank anymore.
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Dodged a bullet.
Don't believe these who proclaim kids are the key to happiness in life ::) then there was not much life to begin with..
And yes, you certainly can opt out and it 's not strange if the pregnancy isn't planned or condoned by you
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that is what happens when a virgin finally gets some pussy so much cum in your balls, how does it feels not to have to jerk off in your fish tank anymore.
Haha that fish tank stuff still gets you aroused, right asswhipe?
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its one thing if your in a relationship. but imagine how bad it would suck if you got some bitch pregnant after you went seperate ways and were fucking other people and had no feelings for one another?
that would suck
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It ended up in a miscarriage, which isn't that weird when a woman is over 30.
Feel relieved and sad at the same time.
Hope you guys can relate to that.
Thanks for the positive posts...
Your feelings are your own, and no matter what anyone here says, you're entitled to feel the way you feel.
It's quite understandable to feel relieved; but now you have to ask yourself, is she really the right woman for you forever? I'm sure you've done some soul searching these past few weeks, and have come to a conclusion on that subject. Now that the idea of a child has gone, you've learned that you either do want to spend the rest of your life with her, or you don't. You had to have figured this out to some degree...all men do when faced with the proposition of a child. So one silver lining here is that you now have more clarity on the relationship with the woman.
And of course, she has done some soul searching of her own, and has evaluated the rest of her life with you, and your potential as a father. Perhaps she feels you are the one for her...and perhaps now she is thinking otherwise. If you care about her, you should talk to her about it...about her long-term vision for you in her life...whether you want to be there or not. If she feels more distant from you, and you from her, then this can be the easier way (albeit still heartbreaking) way out. But if one of you feels differently, it's still a good way to make a break now.
If you both feel stronger and have bonded through the experience, then you've done something most couples haven't. You've suffered through the loss of a child and gotten stronger through it. That's a rare thing, and you have a rock-strong relationship.
You've probably also evaluated your potential as a father. Don't put those feelings away. Think about them more, and come to terms with them. Evaluate if children are in your future. If not, then know that, and act accordingly and develop relationships that further your vision...don't row against it. Finding a woman who shares your vision about children is critical to long term happiness (I think that goes without saying, but I'll say it anyways).
Whatever the next few weeks turn out, you now have a had a golden opportunity to evaluate yourself, and your relationship with this woman. Don't let that go to waste. Now is the time to make the right moves in your life to take you where you want to go. Use this silver lining to your advantage.
And of course, take some time to search your feelings about your lost child. Whether you're pro life or pro choice, it's never easy losing the potential of a child. Even pro-choice people, I believe, don't have abortions without feeling something remarkably strong.
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Punch her in the stomach.
Push her down some stairs "accidentally".
Suck it up and deal with the kid. Buy some guitars.
Not necessarily in that order.
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I adore my Gibson Marauder
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I adore my Gibson Marauder
Guitars don't get colic nor need frequent feedings and diaper changing.
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Guitars don't get colic nor need frequent feedings and diaper changing.
plus they only get better when they grow old...I am very open minded to my older kids but they know from their toddler days: never, I mean NEVER touch daddy's guitars... ;D
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It ended up in a miscarriage, which isn't that weird when a woman is over 30.
Feel relieved and sad at the same time.
Hope you guys can relate to that.
Thanks for the positive posts...
I understand the mixed feelings.
Maybe it's wise to break up with her...
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I understand the mixed feelings.
Maybe it's wise to break up with her...
Yeah, good idea, girls just lost a baby so dump her, should do her the power of good.
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Your feelings are your own, and no matter what anyone here says, you're entitled to feel the way you feel.
It's quite understandable to feel relieved; but now you have to ask yourself, is she really the right woman for you forever? I'm sure you've done some soul searching these past few weeks, and have come to a conclusion on that subject. Now that the idea of a child has gone, you've learned that you either do want to spend the rest of your life with her, or you don't. You had to have figured this out to some degree...all men do when faced with the proposition of a child. So one silver lining here is that you now have more clarity on the relationship with the woman.
And of course, she has done some soul searching of her own, and has evaluated the rest of her life with you, and your potential as a father. Perhaps she feels you are the one for her...and perhaps now she is thinking otherwise. If you care about her, you should talk to her about it...about her long-term vision for you in her life...whether you want to be there or not. If she feels more distant from you, and you from her, then this can be the easier way (albeit still heartbreaking) way out. But if one of you feels differently, it's still a good way to make a break now.
If you both feel stronger and have bonded through the experience, then you've done something most couples haven't. You've suffered through the loss of a child and gotten stronger through it. That's a rare thing, and you have a rock-strong relationship.
You've probably also evaluated your potential as a father. Don't put those feelings away. Think about them more, and come to terms with them. Evaluate if children are in your future. If not, then know that, and act accordingly and develop relationships that further your vision...don't row against it. Finding a woman who shares your vision about children is critical to long term happiness (I think that goes without saying, but I'll say it anyways).
Whatever the next few weeks turn out, you now have a had a golden opportunity to evaluate yourself, and your relationship with this woman. Don't let that go to waste. Now is the time to make the right moves in your life to take you where you want to go. Use this silver lining to your advantage.
And of course, take some time to search your feelings about your lost child. Whether you're pro life or pro choice, it's never easy losing the potential of a child. Even pro-choice people, I believe, don't have abortions without feeling something remarkably strong.
Do you understand that you just left a long serious reply to a turd who's never had a girlfriend in his life? Also lies and says he's a doctor.
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Yeah, good idea, girls just lost a baby so dump her, should do her the power of good.
Not a matter of dumping. In many cases, this is simply a breakpoint, best for both sides.
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Some men should just get a vasectomy, now.
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Most men should just get a vasectomy, now.
Fixed
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Do you understand that you just left a long serious reply to a turd who's never had a girlfriend in his life? Also lies and says he's a doctor.
Probably, you're right.
But I do it because I like to read my own posts. In some strangely surreal macabre narcissistic perversion, I find it interesting to put my thoughts in writing and reflect from time to time on them to see how I really feel from day to day about various subjects. I realize nobody on here could give a shit about my opinion.
Even if he's real, why would he listen to me? For all he knows, I'm one of the motley group of slack jawed mouth breathers out there with an axe to grind lacking a couple of functioning neurons to rub together.
Posting on getbig is like yelling into the wind. It's kind of fun from time to time to say whatever you like, because no one will truly hear you, let alone listen to you. There's a freedom in that.
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man the fuck up..punch her in the gut and act like nothing happened
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man the fuck up..punch her in the gut and act like nothing happened
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Probably, you're right.
But I do it because I like to read my own posts. In some strangely surreal macabre narcissistic perversion, I find it interesting to put my thoughts in writing and reflect from time to time on them to see how I really feel from day to day about various subjects. I realize nobody on here could give a shit about my opinion.
Even if he's real, why would he listen to me? For all he knows, I'm one of the motley group of slack jawed mouth breathers out there with an axe to grind lacking a couple of functioning neurons to rub together.
Posting on getbig is like yelling into the wind. It's kind of fun from time to time to say whatever you like, because no one will truly hear you, let alone listen to you. There's a freedom in that.
I thought it was an excellent post, so consider yourself owned.
search your feelings
This part gave me this tho.
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Do you understand that you just left a long serious reply to a turd who's never had a girlfriend in his life? Also lies and says he's a doctor.
This weekend I cleaned up the filth behind my fridge.....guess which getbigger came to mind ?
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How do you get pregnant in 2014?
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How do you get pregnant in 2014?
You really want me to tell you how it works? You are Amish or what ?
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You really want me to tell you how it works? You are Amish or what ?
No, you egghead.
If you get pregnant in 2014, it means you've been living in a cave. There's no excuse when they have fucking SHOTS that last 6 months, in case the bitch is too incompetent to use a pill, wear a patch, a ring, or get her tubes tied.
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man the fuck up..punch her in the gut and act like nothing happened
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is the op still expecting?
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hand her a pack of cigarettes and a bottle vodka to celebrate the occasion
Rule #3: never trust a woman that won't smoke and drink with you when it comes time to have a good time
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Congrats on the abortion dr dutch
Did u save the cash and do it yourself? Or outsourced the job?
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so what happened here
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From now on the OP will do only anal.
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From now on the OP will do only anal.
Or simply a vasectomy, I'm sure he gets one for free
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Good riddance, in this case.
My friend got it worse... a kid with a female he barely knew. Wedding, etc... Time will show how it will turn out. The woman is decent/clever, tho' it's probably not the best case scenario when you opt for a certain type of a female that you've always opted and liked and end up with a complete contrary one..
Kids are a biological function, nothing more... If it's the "best happiness", I guess the life was quite dull to begin with.. And having a kid when one doesn't want it - nothing to be happy about (over time psyche does it's job and "convinces" it's great, otherwise a person would develop some kind of neurosis regarding that..).
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Or simply a vasectomy, I'm sure he gets one for free
I had to pay out of pocket (about E450) last year. Worth it though. And as I like anal I'm not telling Bertha. ;D
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too late for abortion ???
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I had to pay out of pocket (about E450) last year. Worth it though. And as I like anal I'm not telling Bertha. ;D
"Eigen bijdrage" of peace..
I'm sure that Bertha never reads your posting history, or... (whatever ;D )
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WTF now ? ??? :P :-*
Now you're a man