Author Topic: I knocked my GF up.......love her, but a child? (Read 8614 times)

bigmc · « **Reply #50 on:** February 03, 2014, 01:51:07 AM »

Quote from: Papyrus on February 03, 2014, 12:13:05 AM

I'm sorry for you.

But you can always graciously opt out and shouldn't feel bad about it.

you cant opt out of being a father

too many men think you can

if you have a child you owe that child your love, support

and to create the best possible environment for the child to grow up in

Rajkapoor · « **Reply #51 on:** February 03, 2014, 01:58:52 AM »

Quote from: Dr Dutch on February 02, 2014, 12:23:54 PM

WTF now ?

from your response.... sure you will run away like your dad...what a fatherless society.

anabolichalo · « **Reply #52 on:** February 03, 2014, 02:00:09 AM »

if she has a job and is not a nutcase

and you are pretty fucking old anyway

so why not

Tapeworm · « **Reply #53 on:** February 03, 2014, 02:00:52 AM »

Congratulatons! Who's the father?

MONSTER_TRICEPS · « **Reply #54 on:** February 03, 2014, 02:35:32 AM »

Quote from: Tapeworm on February 03, 2014, 02:00:52 AM

Congratulatons! Who's the father?

Some black dude.

BigCyp · « **Reply #55 on:** February 03, 2014, 02:55:19 AM »

Congratulations, make sure the decorations in the nursery go with mullato

bigmc · « **Reply #56 on:** February 03, 2014, 02:59:34 AM »

Quote from: BigCyp on February 03, 2014, 02:55:19 AM

Congratulations, make sure the decorations in the nursery go with mullato

are you saying that the nursery should have a Ugandan theme cyp

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #57 on:** February 03, 2014, 03:13:46 AM »

Dr Duch proves to be a mature man who is not afraid to assume responsability.

Red Hook · « **Reply #58 on:** February 03, 2014, 03:34:24 AM »

Kids are a beautiful we get that, now let's deal with the reality.

the reality is at that at this stage if he didn't want to have he out of luck. He is going to have to pay for the next 18 years even if he didn't want to go through the pregnancy. There is something wrong about that.

I have read stories of very short term relationship that produced a child that they guy didn't but end up giving 30% or more of his check to the mother until the kid turns 20.

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #59 on:** February 03, 2014, 03:37:55 AM »

Quote from: bigmc on February 03, 2014, 02:59:34 AM

are you saying that the nursery should have a Ugandan theme cyp

No. Just some fishnets, various hooks and inflated colored condoms as balloons.

BigCyp · « **Reply #60 on:** February 03, 2014, 05:49:34 AM »

Quote from: bigmc on February 03, 2014, 02:59:34 AM

are you saying that the nursery should have a Ugandan theme cyp

Yes bigmc, i'm saying that some straw on the floor in honour of the baby fathers culture would not be out of place bro

Tapeworm · « **Reply #61 on:** February 03, 2014, 05:59:47 AM »

You can name him Zwarte Piet.

snx · « **Reply #62 on:** February 03, 2014, 06:35:15 AM »

Quote from: Dr Dutch on February 02, 2014, 12:23:54 PM

WTF now ?

So you really do love her? Then have the kid and spend the rest of your life happy with your new family. There are only two things worth pursuing; love, and happiness. Family brings both. Congratulations!

You say you love her, but aren't ready to commit to her, but do want a child? Have the kid, and be a good father to the kid when you get your moments with them. Do the best you can. A broken home isn't a death sentence for a young child. It's not easy, but we all have our crosses to bear.

You don't really love her, and don't really want a kid either? Talk to her about an abortion or adoption. If that's not in her life plans (i.e. she wants the baby with or without you), then do the right thing and at least contribute financially to pay child support and pray the child's mother finds a good, responsible man to raise your child so he/she will grow up right.

Only you know what's right for you, so please choose wisely. Good luck. Surely, this is a decision that will significantly affect the rest of your life.

Ronnie Rep · « **Reply #63 on:** February 03, 2014, 08:46:48 AM »

Quote from: snx on February 03, 2014, 06:35:15 AM

So you really do love her? Then have the kid and spend the rest of your life happy with your new family. There are only two things worth pursuing; love, and happiness. Family brings both. Congratulations!

You say you love her, but aren't ready to commit to her, but do want a child? Have the kid, and be a good father to the kid when you get your moments with them. Do the best you can. A broken home isn't a death sentence for a young child. It's not easy, but we all have our crosses to bear.

You don't really love her, and don't really want a kid either? Talk to her about an abortion or adoption. If that's not in her life plans (i.e. she wants the baby with or without you), then do the right thing and at least contribute financially to pay child support and pray the child's mother finds a good, responsible man to raise your child so he/she will grow up right.

Only you know what's right for you, so please choose wisely. Good luck. Surely, this is a decision that will significantly affect the rest of your life.

Excellent realistic post!

visualizeperfection · « **Reply #64 on:** February 03, 2014, 11:09:57 AM »

You should love, nurture, and embrace the subtle joys that is parenthood. You have many things to look forward to.... first words, first steps, first day at school, etc.

EDIT:

Procure metal coat hanger.

El Diablo Blanco · « **Reply #65 on:** February 03, 2014, 11:37:48 AM »

give her a ruffi, when she passes out push her down the stairs and punch her in the gut a few times. When she wakes up wait about 24 hours for the drugs to leave her system and just claim she must have blacked out and tripped.

POB · « **Reply #66 on:** February 03, 2014, 11:46:45 AM »

Quote from: Dr Dutch on February 02, 2014, 12:23:54 PM

WTF now ?

Stress,doc appointments,weight gain,unexpected expenses. Oh yeah kids are great

James28 · « **Reply #67 on:** February 03, 2014, 11:50:17 AM »

What now? Wow, Generation Nothing in all its glory.

You be a fucking man and take responsibility. That, 'Now'.

anabolichalo · « **Reply #68 on:** February 03, 2014, 11:11:48 PM »

ahahahahahahahahahahahah ahahahahahahahahahahahah ahahahahahaha

life will never be the same

falco · « **Reply #69 on:** February 04, 2014, 07:10:58 AM »

Man up and assume your responsabilities.

Dr Dutch · « **Reply #70 on:** February 06, 2014, 01:22:02 PM »

It ended up in a miscarriage, which isn't that weird when a woman is over 30.
Feel relieved and sad at the same time.
Hope you guys can relate to that.
Thanks for the positive posts...

the trainer · « **Reply #71 on:** February 06, 2014, 01:23:46 PM »

Quote from: Dr Dutch on February 02, 2014, 12:23:54 PM

WTF now ?

that is what happens when a virgin finally gets some pussy so much cum in your balls, how does it feels not to have to jerk off in your fish tank anymore.

Papper · « **Reply #72 on:** February 06, 2014, 01:31:37 PM »

Dodged a bullet.

Don't believe these who proclaim kids are the key to happiness in life

then there was not much life to begin with..

And yes, you certainly can opt out and it 's not strange if the pregnancy isn't planned or condoned by you

Dr Dutch · « **Reply #73 on:** February 06, 2014, 01:34:23 PM »

Quote from: the trainer on February 06, 2014, 01:23:46 PM

that is what happens when a virgin finally gets some pussy so much cum in your balls, how does it feels not to have to jerk off in your fish tank anymore.

Haha that fish tank stuff still gets you aroused, right asswhipe?

flinstones1 · « **Reply #74 on:** February 06, 2014, 01:44:55 PM »

its one thing if your in a relationship. but imagine how bad it would suck if you got some bitch pregnant after you went seperate ways and were fucking other people and had no feelings for one another?

that would suck