I am confused as to the attraction of white women to black men. Primarily because I don't see how they are even initially attracted.
Let me explain. It is not homo for a man to look at someone like Brad Pitt or David Bekham and being non homo say "that's a good looking dude". But I sometimes see white women drooling over black guys and I look at them and can't see anything that they would be attracted to. Sure the stereotype would be that black guys have big dicks. Whatever you want to believe.I understand why black girls would find black guys attractive because they are the same. The same way an ape would love an ape (i am not comparing blacks to apes, so you racists relax).
Can someone explain how a whore like kardashian who is white can look at a black man and think he is attractive? What is attractive? The lack of straight hair? the flat nose? The underbites?
All of this is written in a no homo, no racist intent.
I will take you at your word that your question does not come from a racist impulse.
One answer to your question has to do with aesthetics. Most people in the Western world are conditioned to find one physical aesthetic attractive: a white aesthetic. If one is trapped in that bubble (as you appear to be) then you will view anything that deviates from that (black, Asian, Latino, Middle Eastern) as unattractive. Similarly, you will view non white people who approach that aesthetic (think Halle Berry or Vanessa Williams) as very attractive. It is not a coincidence that the first Miss America, the first "black" Best Actress Oscar winner, and the first "black" President are all mulattoes.
For a variety of reasons some white are not trapped in that bubble or they were never in that bubble to begin with. They appreciate that beauty can come in many forms. Some people are especially drawn to an opposite or different aesthetic. The very features that define the opposite aesthetic is what makes it so appealing: darker skin, hair, full lips, etc. Even people conditioned to their original aesthetic can be exceedingly drawn to one or more features traditionally associated with an opposite aesthetic. Full lips or big booties are two examples.
This appetite for the opposite aesthetic is far more common than you may realize and it dates back centuries. When one adds in the “cultural aesthetic” its easy to see why increasing numbers of people are willing to cross what you see as a line.
One accessible book that talks about this in slightly different way is “White” by Richard Dyer. He even has a chapter on “The White Man’s Muscles” where he talks bodybuilding, and films with Arnold and Stallone.
http://www.amazon.com/White-Essays-Culture-Richard-Dyer/dp/0415095360
