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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: light weight baby on November 20, 2016, 01:39:09 PM
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if you stay single you can save all your money and retire at 40-45 and live a stress free life of bodybuilding and prostitutes
if you start something with a chic and get kids etc you need to work until you are like 70 and you will barely have any money left or any time for yourself
so do you agree?
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prostitutes is not a viable option for a moral man.
love is the highest goal.
so no i dont agree.
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prostitutes is not a viable option for a moral man.
love is the highest goal.
so no i dont agree.
not sure if srs or trolling really hard
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I agree, i signed up to the second option and I'm only 34 and can see this future ahead of me.
Was much more fun and stress free, being jacked, working out, and being selfish and spending lots of money.
Now I have no life, let myself go and have a kid on the way....
In all seriousness, it has its pros and cons, and I do appreciate family life.
But fuck. Don't do it!!
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the great thing about bodybuilding is if the prostitues pimp gives you any problems you can take care of business before you take care of business...know what I'm sayin'?
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only if you prostitute yourself should you get a pass to go to prostitutes.
or to phrase it differently:
for every prostitute you fuck you need to be fucked up the ass yourself.
thats fair.
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only if you prostitute yourself should you get a pass to go to prostitutes.
or to phrase it differently:
for every prostitute you fuck you need to be fucked up the ass yourself.
thats fair.
You just ruined this thread moron.
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I agree, i signed up to the second option and I'm only 34 and can see this future ahead of me.
Was much more fun and stress free, being jacked, working out, and being selfish and spending lots of money.
Now I have no life, let myself go and have a kid on the way....
In all seriousness, it has its pros and cons, and I do appreciate family life.
But fuck. Don't do it!!
yeah man bcs i met a young fine honey and i can tell she is trying to get her hooks in me
she came over to cook me up food for an entire week to take to work
and she says she wanted 3 children and a big house and this and that
and it's giving me stresss
i think i need to run away from this situation
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only if you prostitute yourself should you get a pass to go to prostitutes.
or to phrase it differently:
for every prostitute you fuck you need to be fucked up the ass yourself.
thats fair.
If that was the case all of getbig could run a train on me.
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You can still have a lass and kids but just be sensible with your money, but house only in your name, steer her away from marriage ect
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yeah man bcs i met a young fine honey and i can tell she is trying to get her hooks in me
she came over to cook me up food for an entire week to take to work
and she says she wanted 3 children and a big house and this and that
and it's giving me stresss
i think i need to run away from this situation
I've been in the game, I know females well, been with girl next doors to bi polar whores.
Let me ask you a few questions.
How long have you been seeing this broad?
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You can still have a lass and kids but just be sensible with your money, but house only in your name, steer her away from marriage ect
i could only see this work if i won the lottery, didnt tell anybody about it,
buy second home where i go chill during the day, pretending to be at work, take naps, go to the gym etc
come home to family at night pretending to have worked a 14 hour shift tirelessly
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I've been in the game, I know females well, been with girl next doors to bi polar whores.
Let me ask you a few questions.
How long have you been seeing this broad?
only met her a month ago and she hasnt even let me hit it bcs supposedly she's a virgin
but she looks so dreamy and big ass so my natural instincts are fighting with my mind
but for sure i need to stay alone so i can retire early and live the good life in a poverty country with lots of fine young honeys
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i could only see this work if i won the lottery, didnt tell anybody about it,
buy second home where i go chill during the day, pretending to be at work, take naps, go to the gym etc
come home to family at night pretending to have worked a 14 hour shift tirelessly
I see it as a double edged sword, many times I resent having the woman around and fantasise about eating pussy and ass of whore I just met but then I think who will clean the house and cook my meals and wash my clothes
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Nope.
Wealth accumulation for average person must be slower alone than with another person.
You pay everything just by yourself.
Don't know how it's in America but here women work just like men and spend relatively little time home after babies. So a household would have a double income with two persons making money. Average man doesn't end up with huge financial losses in case of divorce.
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You can still have a lass and kids but just be sensible with your money, but house only in your name, steer her away from marriage ect
house in your name or not if you have a girlfriend living there with kids she still may have a claim to the house if she can prove she contributed.
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Or you could marry someone with good money sense and have double the money...
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Or you could marry someone with good money sense and have double the money...
(http://i466.photobucket.com/albums/rr24/wolfvik83/Dennis%20Wolf/dw05_064.jpg)
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Seriously marriage and kids is one of the worst things you can do to yourself all the guys I know who got married with kids got fat out of shape and their face looks stressed out, now you have to be slaving yourself to save up college funds and all that bullshit hell no.
I love my stress free life I get to travel have casual relationships and nobody cant touch my money.
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house in your name or not if you have a girlfriend living there with kids she still may have a claim to the house if she can prove she contributed.
Is set it on fire before giving her half.
What defines contributes? I paid deposit and every single mortgage payment and could show bank statements to proof
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Nope.
Wealth accumulation for average person must be slower alone than with another person.
You pay everything just by yourself.
Don't know how it's in America but here women work just like men and spend relatively little time home after babies. So a household would have a double income with two persons making money. Average man doesn't end up with huge financial losses in case of divorce.
this is a joke
women cost more than they earn
what they earn they usually dont even use fairly to contribute to family
women are selfish with their money more than men usually
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Is set it on fire before giving her half.
What defines contributes? I paid deposit and every single mortgage payment and could show bank statements to proof
Im pretty sure a woman can show that her earnings were spent on the upkeep of the home and food and holidays.
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Im pretty sure a woman can show that her earnings were spent on the upkeep of the home and food and holidays.
That's fucking liftin the cu nts don't even have to pay owt towards the actual house and still can claim it? No wonder women are seen as worthless pieces of shit I'd sooner pay a smack head to stangle her
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this is a joke
women cost more than they earn
what they earn they usually dont even use fairly to contribute to family
women are selfish with their money more than men usually
spot on
women ive been involved with all worked and were on decent salaries..were happy enough to earn their own money but fuck they sure didnt want to spend it
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it was comical how my ex thought she could get a piece (half?) of my apartment
she must have been very disappointed when she got absolutely not a single penny
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it was comical how my ex thought she could get a piece (half?) of my apartment
she must have been very disappointed when she got absolutely not a single penny
Bearing in mind you dont have a penny thats no surprise.
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only met her a month ago and she hasnt even let me hit it bcs supposedly she's a virgin
but she looks so dreamy and big ass so my natural instincts are fighting with my mind
but for sure i need to stay alone so i can retire early and live the good life in a poverty country with lots of fine young honeys
bruh, 1 month and shes talking about kids and you havent hit it.....be single bro. A girl going to take your ass to the cleaners.
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Bearing in mind you dont have a penny thats no surprise.
my net worth is about 250K euro
that's not bad at all for my age
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my net worth is about 250K euro
that's not bad at all for my age
Lol, you have been working shitty jobs since you have been posting here.
You doing G4P now?
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Lol, you have been working shitty jobs since you have been posting here.
You doing G4P now?
i make a decent living with my job
also some was given to me
bruh, 1 month and shes talking about kids and you havent hit it.....be single bro. A girl going to take your ass to the cleaners.
i could hit it for a few months and then make it not work out
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it's immoral somehow
but so is what she probably has up her sleeve
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i make a decent living with my job
also 249k euro was given to me
fixed
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fixed
the details dont change the outcome
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i make a decent living with my job
also some was given to me
i could hit it for a few months and then make it not work out
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it's immoral somehow
but so is what she probably has up her sleeve
Bro only hitch with a chick after 3 years of being with her dating her steady. You will no people by then.
Any crazy talk of kids and shit 1 month in, mental disturbia of peace. Been there done that.
Hit that bitch,keep her in your back pocket for load practice.
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Bro only hitch with a chick after 3 years of being with her dating her steady. You will no people by then.
Any crazy talk of kids and shit 1 month in, mental disturbia of peace. Been there done that.
Hit that bitch,keep her in your back pocket for load practice.
do you think i can still go along with the show for a while so i can hit it and have some romance
or is that already getting too close and too dangerous
she lives with her mom and is still in school so at first i thought this would be fairly safe
but hearing her talk stressers me out
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do you think i can still go along with the show for a while so i can hit it and have some romance
or is that already getting too close and too dangerous
she lives with her mom and is still in school so at first i thought this would be fairly safe
but hearing her talk stressers me out
So she's in school and still lives with mom, bro she's not someone to settle down with. Mentally disturbia of peace.
Romance it, fuck it....enjoy....when its time to cut it off do it. But dont lead her on too much, keep it in the dating zone...
If you lead her on too much she may kill you.
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So she's in school and still lives with mom, bro she's not someone to settle down with. Mentally disturbia of peace.
Romance it, fuck it....enjoy....when its time to cut it off do it. But dont lead her on too much, keep it in the dating zone...
If you lead her on too much she may kill you.
what is wrong with being in school and living with mom at 21 years old?
i was living with my dad and being in school that age
but how do you distinguish "dating zone" and "leading on" zone
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i see so many people everyday who are counting the days to their retirement
they are all miserable fux who got enslaved by wife and children
they drive crummy cars and do tons of overtime for extra pennies
i would prefer being a single jacked up bber in a nice car and financially very well off
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i see so many people everyday who are counting the days to their retirement
they are all miserable fux who got enslaved by wife and children
they drive crummy cars and do tons of overtime for extra pennies
i would prefer being a single jacked up bber in a nice car and financially very well off
two out of three isnt bad
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what is wrong with being in school and living with mom at 21 years old?
i was living with my dad and being in school that age
but how do you distinguish "dating zone" and "leading on" zone
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I meant she lives at home and is in school talking about having 3 kids and shit.......not healthy.
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i see so many people everyday who are counting the days to their retirement
they are all miserable fux who got enslaved by wife and children
they drive crummy cars and do tons of overtime for extra pennies
i would prefer being a single jacked up bber in a nice car and financially very well off
Somedays I wish running back to this life trust me....
Theres pros and cons to both lives. Finding balance is key.
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Somedays I wish running back to this life trust me....
Theres pros and cons to both lives. Finding balance is key.
are you in the UK?
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are you in the UK?
No why do you ask?
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I meant she lives at home and is in school talking about having 3 kids and shit.......not healthy.
maybe she's just dreaming out loud and being somewhat immature
not sure
but your advice feels like 1000kg was just lifted off my shoulder
can just date her for a while
:D
srsly
that's not a bad idea
just work on hitting it now, see if she's really virgin, then after that maybe she will also change her mind maybe penor not big enough and the problem will take care of itself
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No why do you ask?
curious, where are you?
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curious, where are you?
havanna cuba
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curious, where are you?
Too lazy to troll right now. lol
I'm in Canada, why do you ask, do you want to go out for a slice of pizza ?
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Too lazy to troll right now. lol
I'm in Canada, why do you ask, do you want to go out for a slice of pizza ?
no, I just wanted to se if you remembered what you wrote on 2006 ;D
Lots of gimmicks resurrecting old users these days.
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no, I just wanted to se if you remembered what you wrote on 2006 ;D
Lots of gimmicks resurrecting old users these days.
No gimmick here.
How the fuck do you resurrect old users anyways.
Ron have something to do with that?
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i'm also not a gimmick
the real deal right here
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No gimmick here.
How the fuck do you resurrect old users anyways.
Ron have something to do with that?
they sit around trying to guess passwords for days on end
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they sit around trying to guess passwords for days on end
Guessing a password is near impossible...I don't believe it.
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Guessing a password is near impossible...I don't believe it.
You would be surprised how many people use "password1"
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You would be surprised how many people use "password1"
lol retards.
Dennis James must of been one of them.
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'Going to School' translation, going somewhere to find a husband to look after her so she can pop out kids and have lunch with her friends every day.
I'm not knocking her goals but lets face it, that's what most women want, it's clearly what she wants, if you want to take the risk of her getting pregnant and possibly getting access to half your stuff if you stay with her long enough then it's up to you.
I'm in a country where you can lose half your stuff for living together for six months, where the child support laws and divorce laws heavily favour the women. It's not worth the risk.
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I've been saying this for the last 10 years on here.
I've never been married and have no kids. I'm 50 and semi-retired (working 3 days/wk). I plan on being fully retired by 55. 50-70% of my income goes toward buying tangible assets that appreciate over time.
Never marry and never have kids... you will be much more wealthy and happier.
If you need sex, get a hooker.
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what is walter white opinion on the matter
also uncle wiggs ???
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what is walter white opinion on the matter
also uncle wiggs ???
You've gotten all the answers you'll ever need, yet you come back for more?
I suspect you'll be one of the many that fall into the trap!
Godspeed my friend.
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You've gotten all the answers you'll ever need, yet you come back for more?
I suspect you'll be one of the many that fall into the trap!
Godspeed my friend.
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coworker said i need to forget about this woman bcs black women only want whitey's money
he is gonna set me up with some chic he knows on thursday
hope she's a real slut
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coworker said i need to forget about this woman bcs black women only want whitey's money
he is gonna set me up with some chic he knows on thursday
hope she's a real slut
Haha I don't have much experience with black women but that's funny.
Go rail some sluts bro. Do your thang!
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Haha I don't have much experience with black women but that's funny.
Go rail some sluts bro. Do your thang!
well it was an arab telling me this pretty weird
but i still wanna bang this chic for a while then try to get out of the quicksand before too late
her ass is just magnificently big and juicy looking
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well it was an arab telling me this pretty weird
but i still wanna bang this chic for a while then try to get out of the quicksand before too late
her ass is just magnificently big and juicy looking
Gotta post some pics bro.
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Gotta post some pics bro.
i posted a pic of her earlier but getbig was telling me she looks like a man etc
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i posted a pic of her earlier but getbig was telling me she looks like a man etc
haha oh shit i have a feeling I was one of those guys. Maybe not.
Post one up again lets see.
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haha oh shit i have a feeling I was one of those guys. Maybe not.
Post one up again lets see.
the white man next to her with vascular arms is me
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=620894.0;attach=693522;image)
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she now has different hair and looks even better and even more like baby mama
if i am going to be busting loads in that golden pussy raw no pulling out while making eye contact i might fall in love
gotta becareful here
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she now has different hair and looks even better and even more like baby mama
if i am going to be busting loads in that golden pussy raw no pulling out while making eye contact i might fall in love
gotta becareful here
Dude that's all you can get with that vascularity? Im disappointed in you. You better not be busting in that.
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Dude that's all you can get with that vascularity? Im disappointed in you. You better not be busting in that.
well it was at a party with only black women and she was sitting across the table from me so one thing led to another
i'm also balding like hell so that's probably the best i can get yeah
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well it was at a party with only black women and she was sitting across the table from me so one thing led to another
But nothing lead to nothing, you haven't hit shit yet.
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the white man next to her with vascular arms is me
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=620894.0;attach=693522;image)
the future
(http://media.cmgdigital.com/shared/img/photos/2012/03/31/f1/61/oprah_510591a.jpg)
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Dude that's all you can get with that vascularity? Im disappointed in you. You better not be busting in that.
x2 She is hideous. Good job you redacted your face, it must be a fucking mess if that rotter is the best you can get!
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But nothing lead to nothing, you haven't hit shit yet.
no but very soon
she said i dont need to worry about it and that she's gonna let me hit it soon
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no but very soon
she said i dont need to worry about it and that she's gonna let me hit it soon
lol dude are you trolling us??
You sound mildly retarded, no offense.
You're giving a bad name to us muscle heads.
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x2 She is hideous. Good job you redacted your face, it must be a fucking mess if that rotter is the best you can get!
haha
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lol dude are you trolling us??
You sound mildly retarded, no offense.
You're giving a bad name to us muscle heads.
i'm just telling you what she said
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i'm just telling you what she said
Dude are you uglier then her? If so, i understand all the confusion here.
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Dude are you uglier then her? If so, i understand all the confusion here.
i think she looks cute
real big ass, big traps too
a powerful physique right there
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last night i met up with a hooker i used to hang out with a lot
smashed her in her place of business then after she wanted to come home with me to hang out and catch up from old times
smashed her again in the morning
to be honest she is not what she used to be, she looks like shit now, but it was a good time regardless having her listen to all of my bullshit
i now feel less under the spell of this new honey
i think i can resist her now and not fall for the trap
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if you stay single you can save all your money and retire at 40-45 and live a stress free life of bodybuilding and prostitutes
if you start something with a chic and get kids etc you need to work until you are like 70 and you will barely have any money left or any time for yourself
so do you agree?
Disagree with half of your assertion.
Having kids is the main reason marriage will suck away your finances.
My wife and I never had kids, so we enjoyed the rewards from many working years in our professions.
Having a good woman with a viable career as your partner , is a plus.
Having kids will suck the life and $$ out of you.
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Disagree with half of your assertion.
Having kids is the main reason marriage will suck away your finances.
My wife and I never had kids, so we enjoyed the rewards from many working years in our professions.
Having a good woman with a viable career as your partner , is a plus.
Having kids will suck the life and $$ out of you.
having no kids is the reason for all your divorces
do you honestly think a woman marries a fat piece of shit like you only to not even get children out of it?
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Seriously marriage and kids is one of the worst things you can do to yourself all the guys I know who got married with kids got fat out of shape and their face looks stressed out, now you have to be slaving yourself to save up college funds and all that bullshit hell no.
I love my stress free life I get to travel have casual relationships and nobody cant touch my money.
Why is the default setting : Married with kids.
Why does everyone assume you need kids?
Can't you just be married with no kids?
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having no kids is the reason for all your divorces
do you honestly think a woman marries a fat piece of shit like you only to not even get children out of it?
1. Not having kids only caused 7 of my 9 divorces. ;)
2. Ok, so I put on a few or 50 or 80 lbs, whatever.
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Why is the default setting : Married with kids.
Why does everyone assume you need kids?
Can't you just be married with no kids?
u got to be smokin crack ???
every chic i ever met was very vocal about wanting to have children
it's programmed in their dna
why would they need a beta cuck if not for children and family life ???
especially when they are financially self sufficient as you claim ???
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u got to be smokin crack ???
every chic i ever met was very vocal about wanting to have children
it's programmed in their dna
why would they need a beta cuck if not for children and family life ???
especially when they are financially self sufficient as you claim ???
Ok, I'll be serious for minute.
My wife of the past 5 years, never wanted kids, same as me.
Like me, she considered them as work, money and stress you didn't need.
Granted, the majority of woman will want kids in their 20's and 30's...avoid 'em
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Ok, I'll be serious for minute.
My wife of the past 5 years, never wanted kids, same as me.
Like me, she considered them as work, money and stress you didn't need.
Granted, the majority of woman will want kids in their 20's and 30's...avoid 'em
women that are not in their 20's are old and useless to me
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women that are not in their 20's are old and useless to me
I'm close to 60 now, so woman in their 20's would seem like kid to me .
Plus, no young hottys want some fat old fuk,like me
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I'm close to 60 now, so woman in their 20's would seem like kid to me .
Plus, no young hottys want some fat old fuk,like me
you can just pay young prostitites instead of banging some leather bag
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Nothing wastes a man's health and wealth more than women. I've seen great men fall and crumble.
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you can just pay young prostitites instead of banging some leather bag
I think my wife is sexy, but to you it might look like; " Grandma gets banged ".
On a serious note on the OP topic:
I had a wonderful 2 parent childhood in "leave it to beaver" land.
From age 16, I started to think seriously about my adult lifestyle.
I saw plenty of Beatnik Hippy types and thought they were dirty bums.
You needed an education and legit career to take care of yourself.
I also saw plenty of adults with kids , in unhappy marriages .
Life raising children looked like a tedious, stressful existence.
Married with kids and a mortgage didn't look too good to me.
The wife/mom looked bitchy and the husband/dads looked like Al Bundy.
A few middle aged guys were divorced or never married and seemed cool.
But, to me hitting on babes half your age in the disco, looked pathetic.
For me , having a real relationship with a girl I found sexy was the ticket.
Granted, some of these didn't last, but that's life . You keep your head,
lick your wounds and move on.
I've seen too many divorced men , paying thru the nose, because of kids to support .
I see divorced men , switching the kids out on weekends, in a McDonald's parking low .
Since they had kids , he has to deal with this bitter ex-wife for YEARS after the final divorce.
I've cringed from observing "gold diggers" looking for a man to take care of them.
I have no moral issues with prostitution , but, never wanted to have sex with a whore.
My ( current ) wife is a real gem.
She's pretty, smart and my best friend.
We're married and partners , which allows us a better standard of living then being single.
Plus, it's nice to spend my days with someone I love, understand and respect.
I also know being a parent is a very important, cherished aspect of many people's life.
It may not have been meant for me and my wife, but others may be called for it.
I'm happy, secure and have no axes to grind or anything left to prove .
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Nothing wastes a man's health and wealth more than women. I've seen great men fall and crumble.
how have you successfully handled temptation all these years?
pure will power or also prostitutes?
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I think my wife is sexy, but to you it might look like; " Grandma gets banged ".
On a serious note on the OP topic:
I had a wonderful 2 parent childhood in "leave it to beaver" land.
From age 16, I started to think seriously about my adult lifestyle.
I saw plenty of Beatnik Hippy types and thought they were dirty bums.
You needed an education and legit career to take care of yourself.
I also saw plenty of adults with kids , in unhappy marriages .
Life raising children looked like a tedious, stressful existence.
Married with kids and a mortgage didn't look too good to me.
The wife/mom looked bitchy and the husband/dads looked like Al Bundy.
A few middle aged guys were divorced or never married and seemed cool.
But, to me hitting on babes half your age in the disco, looked pathetic.
For me , having a real relationship with a girl I found sexy was the ticket.
Granted, some of these didn't last, but that's life . You keep your head,
lick your wounds and move on.
I've seen too many divorced men , paying thru the nose, because of kids to support .
I see divorced men , switching the kids out on weekends, in a McDonald's parking low .
Since they had kids , he has to deal with this bitter ex-wife for YEARS after the final divorce.
I've cringed from observing "gold diggers" looking for a man to take care of them.
I have no moral issues with prostitution , but, never wanted to have sex with a whore.
My ( current ) wife is a real gem.
She's pretty, smart and my best friend.
We're married and partners , which allows us a better standard of living then being single.
Plus, it's nice to spend my days with someone I love, understand and respect.
I also know being a parent is a very important, cherished aspect of many people's life.
It may not have been meant for me and my wife, but others may be called for it.
I'm happy, secure and have no axes to grind or anything left to prove .
few guys in my family had really bad divorces and only because they are big shots they are still doing fine
had they had average incomes they'd would have been ruined
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few guys in my family had really bad divorces and only because they are big shots they are still doing fine
had they had average incomes they'd would have been ruined
Same as being a dad, marriage isn't the ideal situation for plenty of men.
Aprox. half the guys getting married, are meant to be single.
NO man should ever feel "required " to get married or have children.
It's pretty simple. Just listen to your head and heart. Then , CHOOSE the lifestyle you want.
Rather then bitch and complain, make the needed changes to achieve it.
For example, I've seen plenty of men in unhappy marriages always bitching how it sucks.
My reply is always ; " If it sucks that bad, man up, get divorced and accept the consequences . "
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Marriage and children do suck the fucking life out of you.
But having kids is pretty rewarding, and life fulfilling in my opinion.
But yes, sucks the damn life out of you and your cash lol
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I think my wife is sexy, but to you it might look like; " Grandma gets banged ".
On a serious note on the OP topic:
I had a wonderful 2 parent childhood in "leave it to beaver" land.
From age 16, I started to think seriously about my adult lifestyle.
I saw plenty of Beatnik Hippy types and thought they were dirty bums.
You needed an education and legit career to take care of yourself.
I also saw plenty of adults with kids , in unhappy marriages .
Life raising children looked like a tedious, stressful existence.
Married with kids and a mortgage didn't look too good to me.
The wife/mom looked bitchy and the husband/dads looked like Al Bundy.
A few middle aged guys were divorced or never married and seemed cool.
But, to me hitting on babes half your age in the disco, looked pathetic.
For me , having a real relationship with a girl I found sexy was the ticket.
Granted, some of these didn't last, but that's life . You keep your head,
lick your wounds and move on.
I've seen too many divorced men , paying thru the nose, because of kids to support .
I see divorced men , switching the kids out on weekends, in a McDonald's parking low .
Since they had kids , he has to deal with this bitter ex-wife for YEARS after the final divorce.
I've cringed from observing "gold diggers" looking for a man to take care of them.
I have no moral issues with prostitution , but, never wanted to have sex with a whore.
My ( current ) wife is a real gem.
She's pretty, smart and my best friend.
We're married and partners , which allows us a better standard of living then being single.
Plus, it's nice to spend my days with someone I love, understand and respect.
I also know being a parent is a very important, cherished aspect of many people's life.
It may not have been meant for me and my wife, but others may be called for it.
I'm happy, secure and have no axes to grind or anything left to prove .
I usually skim your rants and pass them off ..but I read this all word for word 8)
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Marriage and children do suck the fucking life out of you.
But having kids is pretty rewarding, and life fulfilling in my opinion.
But yes, sucks the damn life out of you and your cash lol
Thanks for being honest . I know plenty of proud , happy parents.
Most things worth having, require some work and effort to have.
If you're a proud and fulfilled parent, then you made the right choice .
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I usually skim your rants and pass them off ..but I read this all word for word 8)
lesson learned then?
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I usually skim your rants and pass them off ..but I read this all word for word 8)
I don't know if I should say thanks, or apologize to you LOL
What do you think of my ideas? Just curious, thanks.
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I don't know if I should say thanks, or apologize to you LOL
What do you think of my ideas? Just curious, thanks.
MARRIED AND FATHER OF 3.. EACH PARAGRAPH AT TIMES I'VE FELT OR AT TIMES CONSIDERED THE ALTERNATIVE OR WHAT IF...ALSO PART OF ALL THIS IS THE NEED TO GROW UP OR AT LEAST EVOLVE ..I'M TRYING..
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MARRIED AND FATHER OF 3.. EACH PARAGRAPH AT TIMES I'VE FELT OR AT TIMES CONSIDERED THE ALTERNATIVE OR WHAT IF...ALSO PART OF ALL THIS IS THE NEED TO GROW UP OR AT LEAST EVOLVE ..I'M TRYING..
Thanks for being honest and at least you've embraced the hand life gave you.
All I know for sure, is that there is no perfect answer that applies to everyone.
I'm not sure if this applies, but you might find it interesting.
My mom divorced my dad after 23 yrs together.
She remarried a man with 4 kids . One of my step brothers asked me advice on going into the USMC.
I just completed my 4 years of active duty so I was a credible source.
Upon listening to him, I knew the marines were not the right place for him.
He ended up having a good career in the Navy instead.
At my mom's funeral last year, he reminded me of that conversation and thanked me again.
I'm often reminded that just because something works for you, doesn't mean it's right for everyone.
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few guys in my family had really bad divorces and only because they are big shots they are still doing fine
had they had average incomes they'd would have been ruined
You seem like a decent dude.
My main problem with your OP was it appeared to only consider the 2 extremes:
1. Married with children
2. Single and sex with prostitutes
Why not have something moderate as a viable choice.
How about a real relationship with a steady gf or wife and no kids?
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You seem like a decent dude.
My main problem with your OP was it appeared to only consider the 2 extremes:
1. Married with children
2. Single and sex with prostitutes
Why not have something moderate as a viable choice.
How about a real relationship with a steady gf or wife and no kids?
most young women want kids
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most young women want kids
That's changing, mostly with educated young woman working in various career professions.
My current wife got an MBA and worked her way up to executive VP of her section in a major bank.
She never wanted kids.
My ex-wife was a board certified psychologist with a PhD and never wanted kids.
Obviously, plenty of successful woman want children and consider an important aspect of their life.
BUT, aprox, 50% of all female CEO's don't raise children.
Like men, it's tougher to raise a family when climbing the career ladder.
Sure, it's possible to do both, but, it's tougher and more stressful.
Of course a more traditional minded young woman who wants to be a housewife and mom will be different.
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I often joke about this with my wife. I tell her if I didn't have her and the kids I'd be rolling around in a much sweeter ride (my ride is already pretty sweet) and getting into tons of no good fun.
But the reality is, I genuinely love being married and I love having kids. Both those things will drive you crazy and stress you the FUCK out.... but you get a special kind of love from the family that nothing else in this world can compare to, not money, not one night stands, nothing.... I wouldn't trade it for the world.
It's also not either or, you can still have money, be jacked ,etc with a family. Just different,
I'll take my kids waking me up daily with stinky diapers and a smile on their face than a different woman in my bed every night. I wholeheartedly mean that.
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I often joke about this with my wife. I tell her if I didn't have her and the kids I'd be rolling around in a much sweeter ride (my ride is already pretty sweet) and getting into tons of no good fun.
But the reality is, I genuinely love being married and I love having kids. Both those things will drive you crazy and stress you the FUCK out.... but you get a special kind of love from the family that nothing else in this world can compare to, not money, not one night stands, nothing.... I wouldn't trade it for the world.
It's also not either or, you can still have money, be jacked ,etc with a family. Just different,
I'll take my kids waking me up daily with stinky diapers and a smile on their face than a different woman in my bed every night. I wholeheartedly mean that.
let me just go out and find young dime piece ceo chics
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how have you successfully handled temptation all these years?
pure will power or also prostitutes?
I haven't handled it as well as I could have, but I have a low tolerance for bs with women and I'm very good at shaking them off and dumping. Granted I'm probably on the kill list with a few by now.
Protitutes don't work as well for me, I need more than one hour in a hotel from a woman...ideally dating casually and changing frequently is the best approach....but a man always falls for one eventually.
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Ive become recently single after putting up with some females BS for the past year. I had been single and enjoying holidays, nights out, different women, lots of gym time etc before her. It just drained the life out of me arguing all the time about pointless shit. Im looking forward to keeping my own cash and living free once again. ;D Im sure meeting the right person one day is great, but when its the wrong one, youre just glad to get out of it :D
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life is too good for me to be tied down in the burbs with a kid and wife. maybe ill do a life partner when I am older, but right now
all my friends who are married or in serious relationships would give their left hand for my life.
so many of mentors who were older than me are married/kids and they all say "dont do it"
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quality of life and times have changed....
the 1950s family life was the way to go, but as time has passed, its not the same anymore.
things I enjoy/own/do since I am single
-high rise condo
-sports cars
-compete in bodybuilding
-100% commission sales job
-travel
-good sex life
-eat out at nice restaurants or meal prep for bodybuilding
-quiet time
all that shit is gone if i was wife'd up in the burbs with kids
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I haven't handled it as well as I could have, but I have a low tolerance for bs with women and I'm very good at shaking them off and dumping. Granted I'm probably on the kill list with a few by now.
Protitutes don't work as well for me, I need more than one hour in a hotel from a woman...ideally dating casually and changing frequently is the best approach....but a man always falls for one eventually.
you can semi date prostitutes also where you still give them money here and there but it's informal and you get to smash them raw no pulling out and take them home, go out with them, hang out
i consider that best of both worlds
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you can semi date prostitutes also where you still give them money here and there but it's informal and you get to smash them raw no pulling out and take them home, go out with them, hang out
i consider that best of both worlds
Yes this sounds ideal much better than the hastle of a regular girlfriend, if I ever become single again that will be my chosen path should I be able to find one
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Yes this sounds ideal much better than the hastle of a regular girlfriend, if I ever become single again that will be my chosen path should I be able to find one
it requires more effort than a regular prostitute-customer relationship but is worth it
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howard: how come youve been with so many smart well educated women, not to be rude but are you not some kinda moron?
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you can semi date prostitutes also where you still give them money here and there but it's informal and you get to smash them raw no pulling out and take them home, go out with them, hang out
i consider that best of both worlds
You get that through seeking arrangement...a girl with a day job or student who wants money on the side....effectively rebranded prostitution. I like that site cos you go on it and they all come to you fighting for business. If you don't look like a raccoon with mange and come across like you have a bit of money you'll be inundated with choice. The girls are hotter than THE OTHER average sites too....let's say POF.
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You get that through seeking arrangement...a girl with a day job or student who wants money on the side....effectively rebranded prostitution. I like that site cos you go on it and they all come to you fighting for business. If you don't look like a raccoon with mange and come across like you have a bit of money you'll be inundated with choice. The girls are hotter than THE OTHER average sites too....let's say POF.
doesnt really matter how you get it
you can also meet up a whore in the red light district and if you get along you go from there
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doesnt really matter how you get it
you can also meet up a whore in the red light district and if you get along you go from there
I'd say anything is better than marriage n kids. Eventually you wake up whether be it one day or 10 yrs down the line and think wtf have I done and wish you lived on your own, had a dog and s two seater car outside....lots of freedom, money to yourself and time.
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I'd say anything is better than marriage n kids. Eventually you wake up whether be it one day or 10 yrs down the line and think wtf have I done and wish you lived on your own, had a dog and s two seater car outside....lots of freedom, money to yourself and time.
yeah i can see why ppl fall for the trap
young cute woman, golden pussy, juicy physique, fuzzy warm feelings
but as you said 10 years down the road you may realize you could have been financially so much better off had you not done this
not even just finance but also the consequences of sacrificing your personal freedom and leisure time
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yeah i can see why ppl fall for the trap
young cute woman, golden pussy, juicy physique, fuzzy warm feelings
but as you said 10 years down the road you may realize you could have been financially so much better off had you not done this
not even just finance but also the consequences of sacrificing your personal freedom and leisure time
Some people grow up mentally as well when they mature physically.
You sir, wont have that to worry about.
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what if you marry a prostitute?
that must be ideal.
she wont have kids as that interfers with her work.
you wont have to spend money on her as other men are already doing that.
and you will have plenty of free time when she's away fucking other men.
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Some people grow up mentally as well when they mature physically.
You sir, wont have that to worry about.
haha blue pill shaming 101
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Getting married and having a family is still the best life with the right person in my opinion, the sense of accomplishment and bond that can be made through the struggles is something my single friends now miss out on that were all in our mid 40s, without the right person it can be hell though, I have friends who are divorced, definitely the worst off they are paying child support unhappy and only get to see their kids when the exwife determines it, I could certainly understand people not wanting to get married to avoid ending up here, other friends who have stayed single have good social lives and drive nicer cars, but are envious of people in my situation, having a wife and family worked for me it wasn't easy, and women are not the same after having kids accepting this change in your relationship and allowing the kids to become the point of priority not yourself is the biggest factor I see in longterm success.
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Getting married and having a family is still the best life with the right person in my opinion, the sense of accomplishment and bond that can be made through the struggles is something my single friends now miss out on that were all in our mid 40s, without the right person it can be hell though, I have friends who are divorced, definitely the worst off they are paying child support unhappy and only get to see their kids when the exwife determines it, I could certainly understand people not wanting to get married to avoid ending up here, other friends who have stayed single have good social lives and drive nicer cars, but are envious of people in my situation, having a wife and family worked for me it wasn't easy, and women are not the same after having kids accepting this change in your relationship and allowing the kids to become the point of priority not yourself is the biggest factor I see in longterm success.
and you eventually end up being the oldest guy in the nightclub...
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and you eventually end up being the oldest guy in the nightclub...
you are such an annoying old homo
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you are such an annoying old homo
If my answers frighten you, you should stop asking questions....
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Getting married and having a family is still the best life with the right person in my opinion, the sense of accomplishment and bond that can be made through the struggles is something my single friends now miss out on that were all in our mid 40s, without the right person it can be hell though, I have friends who are divorced, definitely the worst off they are paying child support unhappy and only get to see their kids when the exwife determines it, I could certainly understand people not wanting to get married to avoid ending up here, other friends who have stayed single have good social lives and drive nicer cars, but are envious of people in my situation, having a wife and family worked for me it wasn't easy, and women are not the same after having kids accepting this change in your relationship and allowing the kids to become the point of priority not yourself is the biggest factor I see in longterm success.
That's the plus sides of good relationships and at some point we all wanted this, but as relationships...let's say marriages have a 50% divorce rate...that's a risk we take. For me although not divorced I've had my share of bad breakups and one was with a joint mortgage/house but no kids and that was a nightmare for me....I've met some nice girls since but none I could see myself living with 10yrs down the line.
May be I'll do a clooney and ride this to the bitter end then settled down when I start looking and sounding like a grandpa.
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if you stay single you can save all your money and retire at 40-45 and live a stress free life of bodybuilding and prostitutes
if you start something with a chic and get kids etc you need to work until you are like 70 and you will barely have any money left or any time for yourself
so do you agree?
Nope, I don't agree. Looking back, I have no regrets.
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Nope, I don't agree. Looking back, I have no regrets.
i'd regret having your life
you had like zero trips to thailand/dominican republic/brazil
you never had 18" ripped arms
you never had a superior german automobile
etc
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i'd regret having your life
you had like zero trips to thailand/dominican republic/brazil
you never had 18" ripped arms
you never had a superior german automobile
etc
Maybe I did and maybe I did not. You have no way of knowing this.
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Can we all agree that marry a prostitute is better?
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Can we all agree that marry a prostitute is better?
Only if you love him or her.
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Maybe I did and maybe I did not. You have no way of knowing this.
pathetic beta
go away
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pathetic beta
go away
says the guy who still cries over a fat african prostitutes golden pussy.
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says the guy who still cries over a fat african prostitutes golden pussy.
say that to my face and i will break your spine old fart
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say that to my face and i will break your spine old fart
I would if I ever visited Belgium, or is it Cuba?
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if you stay single you can save all your money and retire at 40-45 and live a stress free life of bodybuilding and prostitutes
if you start something with a chic and get kids etc you need to work until you are like 70 and you will barely have any money left or any time for yourself
so do you agree?
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I spent way too long in the military, and got out at 30 years of age when all my friends already had screaming kids, and all the hotties had already become double the size they were at 21...
So, my advice to the young is to stay single BUT forget about "Prostitutes"- you can hook up with the girl at the local Subway, Burger King, Bank, insurance dealer, female car saleswoman, etc... I've been doing that for over 25 years with complete
success and it hasn't cost me anything more than an inexpensive dinner and a bottle of Tequila and mix!!!
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i'd regret having your life
you had like zero trips to thailand/dominican republic/brazil
you never had 18" ripped arms
you never had a superior german automobile
etc
lol!