What you do when your relationship starts to be boring?

[Howard]

This is the part where I fuck it up and cheat 

Although its been a year and some change since I've got in anything serious. I keep all ties open at a dating level with space. I've realized I'm at a place in life where commitment doesn't work for me. Drama and stress has been severely cut down.

There is NOTHING wrong with wanting various partners to spice up your sex life.
Just stay singe and enjoy life. The only shame is if you allow a woman to pressure you into living a lifestyle you hate.
Good luck and do what's right for YOU.

[Agnostic007]

Couple options~

1. Marry a hot crazy chick. Drama never ends, you're always walking on egg shells looking for her to come around the corner swinging a baseball bat at your head for talking to the waitress when you ordered that second skinny margarita. Sex is amazing and the excitement is non stop and never fades.. Down side is hospital bills and mental exhaustion and eventually you will burn out and end up homeless

2. Marry a normal woman. Eventually the excitement gives way to comfortable. no way around it. But this can be sustained for decades

Those are the only two options

[Howard]

Society has done a terrible job on marriage. Giving women a lot of expectations of fireworks daily. And when it doesn't happen to their pre-set expectations, they divorce. See other threads on the fucking that the man gets in a divorce. I've told my wife that I love her and am happy, BUT I do not recommend men get married anymore. The deck is so stacked against them.

It's because "marriage" is still defined by outdated parameters.
I look at 21st century marriage as forming a loving PARTNERSHIP.
BOTH work and bring equitable assets to the table.
If things don't work out, you can legally dissolve the partner ship via an equal distribution of the assets.

In my humble OPINION, having kids is a real game changer when it comes to marriage and especially divorce.
Most child support payments are made by men.

Of course, I never wanted kids. My only advice is don't have kids.
I can't / won't ,give any man advice on being a dad or getting divorced with kids.

[Andy Griffin]

It's because "marriage" is still defined by outdated parameters.
I look at 21st century marriage as forming a loving PARTNERSHIP.
BOTH work and bring equitable assets to the table.
If things don't work out, you can legally dissolve the partner ship via an equal distribution of the assets.

In my humble OPINION, having kids is a real game changer when it comes to marriage and especially divorce.
Most child support payments are made by men.

Of course, I never wanted kids. My only advice is don't have kids.
I can't / won't ,give any man advice on being a dad or getting divorced with kids.

As long as women know their place, marriage works fine.

[Archer77]

It's because "marriage" is still defined by outdated parameters.
I look at 21st century marriage as forming a loving PARTNERSHIP.
BOTH work and bring equitable assets to the table.
If things don't work out, you can legally dissolve the partner ship via an equal distribution of the assets.

In my humble OPINION, having kids is a real game changer when it comes to marriage and especially divorce.
Most child support payments are made by men.

Of course, I never wanted kids. My only advice is don't have kids.
I can't / won't ,give any man advice on being a dad or getting divorced with kids.

Marriage had a purpose when it was institution based on mutual preservation.  Women found a man to provide shelter and men found someone to bear and care for his children.  As simplistic and archaic as these concepts are, they worked.  In the modern world, women and men don't need each other in the same way and to the same degree.  Women can rely on themselves and in many cases the government to provide the resources they need.  There is a lot of good in this change.  Women are no longer bound to abusive marriages.

[Howard]

Marriage had a purpose when it was institution based on mutual preservation.  Women found a man to provide shelter and men found someone to bear and care for his children.  As simplistic and archaic as these concepts are, they worked.  In the modern world, women and men don't need each other in the same way and to the same degree.  Women can rely on themselves and in many cases the government to provide the resources they need.  There is a lot of good in this change.  Women are no longer bound to abusive marriages.

Good post.

[ChopperRider]

and you are losing interest in your girlfriend/wife? I mean it takes few months up to one year, then its slow decline.

Let her take your gimmick account for a spin Joon and after a week or two here we will set "her" straight.

[Weedlejuice]

and you are losing interest in your girlfriend/wife? I mean it takes few months up to one year, then its slow decline.

My missus is my best friend, team players as it were.

[stavios]

I always get bored pretty quickly, I think the key is simply to keep in mind that life ain't all about fun all the time lol

I have good time with my girl so that's alright.
Night club hoes aren't for life

[Natural Man]

Recognize that whomever you choose to be with, boredom and monotony will eventually appear in any long term relationship.   By acknowledging this fact you can avoid the pitfalls of jumping from one relationship to another looking for the perfect person that doesn't exist.  You will only to be left dissatisfied and alone.  

This, and

Violent, abusive sex.

[Fortress]

Doesn't matter how heartfelt and often a man whispers loving remarks to his girl, and extends himself in all ways of goodness that he can summon, eventually she'll gut him.

Been there. Done that.

Men and women hurt each other. Fact.

If you wanna rock and roll, lift without guilt and order pizza any time you damn well wanna, stay single and free of children.

When choking the meat monkey isn't cutting it, there are always choices. If married, the choice is that same damn pussy you've smashed countless times.

   

[Var City]

and you are losing interest in your girlfriend/wife? I mean it takes few months up to one year, then its slow decline.

Ask her if she is down to get her throat fucked

There are sprays that numb her throat

It keeps it interesting

Then move to anal

Then move
To the combo of face fuck then anal

Then switch the order and go
Hard

[Howard]

Ask her if she is down to get her throat fucked

There are sprays that numb her throat

It keeps it interesting

Then move to anal

Then move
To the combo of face fuck then anal

Then switch the order and go
Hard

Solid advice Dr Phil and Oprah would back.

[ChopperRider]

Solid advice Dr Phil and Oprah would back.

Howard.....STFU!

No one wants to hear about your failed fucking marriages or your opinions on how to fuck up a marriage.

I feel sorry for your current and ex wives. Poor bastards having to put up with you.

[Griffith]

My girlfriend likes porn style sex, almost like I'm raping her.

Wants me to hold her neck, hold her arms behind her back, fuck her mouth and do whatever I want etc.

She now gives me a porn-star experience every time.

The important thing is to talk openly about what you both like and have fun.

[Howard]

Howard.....STFU!

No one wants to hear about your failed fucking marriages or your opinions on how to fuck up a marriage.

I feel sorry for your current and ex wives. Poor bastards having to put up with you.

C'mon now, I let three escape .
The 4th remains tightly in my grasp, on plenty of drugs and locked in the root cellar.

[MikMaq]

Get her to fuck other random dudes with no condom.

Ensure you wear condom when with her.

Enjoy the thrill of having a dirty girl, without ever knowing if she caught something.

A perverse sense of danger and you never have to take the risk yourself.

[BigRo]

lol thats kinda twisted

[spiro]

dont put your heart and soul into a women unless u know her along time,u will get burned and heartbroken if u do. i used to b to trusting with women only to b taken advantage of n used when i was in early 20,s,take it from me fellas, approach relationships like u do your diet n your training,very thought out and carefully analized,if u dont u will b heading for a life of heart break n pain, being in love with a women only to find out she been playing u out by cheating on u n using u for money is very painful,ive been thru it and i couldnt eat or sleep,couldnt function normal for 2 or 3 months to b honest. it was a very hard time in my life n i dont wish that feeling on my worst enemy

You're a great poster easily top five. Every post is good no homo.

You have to try different things last night my fiance pretended to be a Swedish massage girl. I pretend to be a doctor or her boss sometimes. We use toys. Have to keep it fun and interesting.

[Papper]

Am I that obvious? 

Only if you want to be 

[AbrahamG]

and you are losing interest in your girlfriend/wife? I mean it takes few months up to one year, then its slow decline.

Start fucking every pig that you can.  When that stops doing the trick, have her fuck huge cocked black dudes while you hide in the closet masturbating yourself silly.

[The Ugly]

BTK.

[AD2100]

and you are losing interest in your girlfriend/wife? I mean it takes few months up to one year, then its slow decline.

I just give my old lady a good beating. Puts the spice right back into the relationship.

[Shockwave]

Get her to fuck other random dudes with no condom.

Ensure you wear condom when with her.

Enjoy the thrill of having a dirty girl, without ever knowing if she caught something.

A perverse sense of danger and you never have to take the risk yourself.

uh......

[chaos]

Lol ^