I have a perfect example of a classy girl in this club this one time.
I was completely sober the entire time I was in the club, because quite frankly I had no desire being in a club but I was just hanging out with my friends.. better than being alone at home in shere boredom, right.
Well I wasn't trying to wink or hit any girls during the entire night, but then this one girl starts to walk pass me left and right the entire time, looking me in the eyes while she passes me. I think nothing of it.
Then she does it again, again and again and again. I think nothing of it.
I go sit somewhere where she can't see me. But she was seeing me and follwed me up, and then I saw her talking with her friends and it seemed like her friends gave her courage to come and see me. So she came at me and started talking how was my night going and how am I, what's my name, what do I do... fine, no problem with a casual conversation, RIGHT.
She asked for me to go dance with her, and I told her no, because I have no desire of dancing that I'm only in the club because of my friends (they were having fun there). She said that there's nothing wrong with dancing. Ok I told her then that there's nothing wrong with premirrage sex either but I'm not doing it and I'm not doing dancing tonight either.
Then she got upset, she said "OH so you think I'm hitting on you, I'm not, sory to break your bubble there, buddy, I'm not like that". LOL Ok, now I was annoyed. I told her that "Oh so that's why you were circling me left and right like 20 minutes hoping that I would take your bait, then we would go dancing and you would try to make me have a crush on you and try to hit on you the entire night, maby kiss you and exchange numbers but never hear from you again, is that it?"
Then she was like "Shut up, stop saying that, no no, stop, I don't whanna hear", and I said to her that if that's not the case you would've left me alone the second I didn't notice you for 20 minutes and rejected your dancing offer, don't you think that I'm more than comfortable the way I am now, I don't need to dance with you. I only dance when I have a strong desire to do so, it's not a thing for me to go to the dance floor in order to "have fun".
She told me "Well have a nice night" and left thinking I was weird and absurd. And tried to avoid me the rest of the night, and she ruined my comfortable mindstate that I was in with her stupid fucking bullshit.
So people, women are the problem. Not men. She was just as sober as I was and seemed to have intellect and was representing herself well... but then that stupid bullshit that "we have to go to the dance floor and play mind games" move ruined it for me.
So, in regards of being just friends, a man can be, but a woman can't in most cases.
In most cases in order to be a friend with a woman you need to have this "casual sexual tensioN" or no friendship at all because the woman is programmed to receive the male monkeys sexual attention in one way or another. Ok? Get it now?
