Television, magazines and the internet has warped your perception of what is beautiful. The average girls falls between a 3.5 - 6. On a daily basis you seldom see a 6.5 or higher. Deal with it, this is life.
What's more alarming is that you seldom see an in-shape person. And when you do they stand out. Look around your office and everyone has a gut.
Seriously count how many regular/average people you see in your daily commute that are
below 15% BF for men
below 28% BF for women.