I don't understand the obsession of lifting heavy either. I like 10-15 rep range. I'd rather train for visible results rather than numbers.
x2. Who really gives a shit about being "strong."
I train for 2 reasons:
1) To maintain my health, in order to prevent any diseases or disorder that comes as I age. I want to stay as fit as possible as I get older.
2) To look decent naked.
Both can be accomplished without lifting heavy weights. In my opinion, I can accomplish the above 2 reasons without going balls-to-the-wall heavy, so I can get "strong." Plus, as long as you consistently train, youre going to be strong, compared to the average person. And as long as you can continue to make gains, and stay healthy and fit, no need to try and be "strong" in that sense. Unless youre a powerlifter or strongman, like chaos, who is an absolute beast, good looking, fit, smart, and strong. That is rare, most people are not all of those things combined. He is special.