degrading?
hell to the 'no'.
Who's the one in real control? Certainly not the dude getting blown. It's the blowER who: has one or both hands around the cock, balls. He has his mouth around and on the cock [ and in a split second those teeth can come crunching down]. Who controls whether the blowee comes? the blowER. I've strung guys on 3-5 times when they are about to shoot and I pause. rest. then start up again. by the last time they are begging me to let them cum.
Its the sucker who has the ultimate power.