24:30: "Tell the believing men that they should reduce/lower (يغضوا) their gaze/vision and guard their private parts"
24:31: "Tell the believing women that they should reduce/lower (يغضضن) their gaze/vision and guard their private parts"
Notice that men are told first to observe modesty and not check out women or be perverse.
9:71 “The believing men and the believing women, they are the friends of one another. They command what is right and forbid what is wrong"
You know very well and well everyone regardless of being muslim or non muslim knows very well, that us males are far more influenced by women's appearance than women are influenced by our appearance. You could be the biggest stud and taunt your self around women in a tank top, chances are they wouldn't give a damn as much as some guy with some woman all dress up tight seeking attention.
And lastly Islam is not about 'arab men'. Islam is for all mankind. To be Muslim is not to be Arab. Arabs are muslim, and they are not even the majority of Muslims today.
Some Arabs be they christian or muslim are douchebags. But then so are many other people be they white, black, chinese, etc...