The big problem is that in western countries nowadays, the law and the cops do give the right to a woman to be both verbally and physicaly abusive without earing any kind of retaliation. If you so much as leave a couple of bruises of her wrists by just holding her back, you're possibly gonna make a little stint in a cell at our local precinct (in France that's the case). The more agressive a woman is, the faster she'll be to call the cops if you somehow even sneeze in her direction, blaming you for assaulting her.