oops, sorry, wrong again...
Mistake to claim that things don't get better with age and time. Obviously they can do. If you have someone to talk to who understands and loves you - just as you are, here and now and today - and more importantly if you are able to understand yourself and accept that your mind works a bit differently from most ?
What I meant was that if not treated properly, mental health issues will balloon and perhaps one day pop. That is why I said that it would be best if Mr Bulldog were to not dump his ex on the big heap upon which many people land.
You are so right to advise that he bow out gently, it would be best all round. Your ex is doing you a huge favour and I'm amazed at her awareness. Others would get clingy.
I was just slightly miffed at the 3rd response he received where he was told to run the other way and be thankful he'd not knocked her up. Which was, looking back, totally appropriate and very funny...
Don't understand pin (is that the pin to burst the bubble or is that your personal identification number?) doesn't matter, lost in translation.
Sorry. I was wrong and am very obviously unable to distinguish between the many BPD's we are nowadays told exist and are diagnosed with. I was told I was hyper when young and I'd slam the table with my fist and say "But I'm not being over dramatic!" I thought that was funny but it pissed people right off. Took years to understand that my mind is simply just full of too many things...
I self diagnosed and self-medicated. Grass was my chosen calm-down option. You don't wanna even imagine me on coke ! But I tried everything, irregardless.
It's about self awareness, not self esteem. I'm used to being bullied and I'm used to being let down. But I no longer take it personally, I now accept that others simply don't have time or don't understand or perhaps don't want to be bothered. That's fine.
Your ex has done you a huge favour and you must bow out graciously.
I don't know. I didn't have huge family or childhood issues, I led a blissful life. I have no clue how come my brain is wired differently. I think I'm okay and I know I'm fun when I'm in the right mood. When I'm not, I stay home and listen to mad music and google and mess around on the internet and leave everyone alone.
It didn't help though when I was very much let down by someone I truly cared for. Took me a while to get over it...
But as ~flower~ knowingly says, That's Life. I wouldn't change mine one iota.
This life is fantastic.
More so, I think, for peeps (slang for folk?) like me. It's intense and it's truly wonderful.
with mad love,
xxxL
Sinatra sang:
"That's life, that's what all the people say.
You're riding high in April,
Shot down in May
But I know I'm gonna change that tune,
When I'm back on top, back on top in June.
I said that's life, and as funny as it may seem
Some people get their kicks,
Stompin' on a dream
But I don't let it, let it get me down,
'Cause this fine ol' world it keeps spinning around
I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate,
A poet, a pawn and a king.
I've been up and down and over and out
And I know one thing:
Each time I find myself, flat on my face,
I pick myself up and get back in the race.
That's life
I tell ya, I can't deny it,
I thought of quitting baby,
But my heart just ain't gonna buy it.
And if I didn't think it was worth one single try,
I'd jump right on a big bird and then I'd fly
I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate,
A poet, a pawn and a king.
I've been up and down and over and out
And I know one thing:
Each time I find myself laying flat on my face,
I just pick myself up and get back in the race
That's life
That's life and I can't deny it
Many times I thought of cutting out
But my heart won't buy it
But if there's nothing shakin' come this here july
I'm gonna roll myself up in a big ball and die
My, My