Yes, or like in muslim third world where if woman gets raped she goes to prison for adultery. Wonderful world, ruled by man, isn't it?
Jeez, you can always write a contract when you marry stating bla bla bla, she doesn't get jack shit when you divorce and you just part ways. Can you? Yes you fucking can.
Bottom line, you knew what you're getting into, man up and don't bitch about it. Or if all this "family life" sounds like BS for you then just don't do it.