Your memory of this time is somewhat distorted. How about the time she kicked your door in?
that was the night she found all her stuff in front of her sisters house, where she was staying the days after she left me
they had gone clubbing and in the night came home to her sisters house and the side walk was LOADED with suitcases and garbage bags full of clothes and all her other stuff (so much stuff it took me twice to drive it over)
she went real furiously mad at this point and at 4 am arrived at my home with her sister and started trashing my door
i was consulting getbig on what to do during this time but most thought it was a jokes
she left after some time and returned with police telling them i kicked her and "her" son out
and police told her to fuck off (i think they were being racist to her but it was a good thing ffor me)