Legit advice
Sucky situation because your wife doesn't understand.
No she doesnt understand, and a lot of people dont.
The gym for me like im sure a lot of you is a place of sanctuary. I feel better about myself, I relief stress, I can get away, I can refocus. etc etc etc
She doesnt get it. Especially right now with me not trianing in months, and my business not doing the greatest i need a recharge and like always throughout the years, getting back into the gym and on a regimen has allowed me to refocus and find some internal motivation and vision.
Instead, I get home and it turns into a blow up, and i lose my temper and i look like the bad guy.
I hate fighting, and negative shit, but i also hate being told what to do and not living my life. Welcome to marriage i suppose.