I know i said many times that apparently all that matters is to simply "adapt" to survive, whatever the way we adapt, but i came to the conclusion that the way we adapt and survive, ALSO matters. Some people adapt being cold, and arent happy , and dont want kids etc, they are cynical; nihilist. They find their hapiness in knowing people suffer, and hoping everything one day will end. That s the only way they know because that s what they ve been exposed to, that s how my own parents, well at least father, understand life ; actually that's because he failed his own life, so he is convinced it is what everyone think. The other way to adapt is to give your best, detect bad people, stay away from them, help them if you can, followng God's words. Family, couple, kids FIRST -before pretending to want to change the world- and as a result if you are a good example, people who think alike might follow you. It s pretty tough to select relationships, cause you often have to take the bad with the good.
I think there is somethng i dont know because i have not been exposing to it, but that i d like to discover, understand. It doesnt mean life on earth is heaven, it doesnt mean everyone is a nice carebear, it doesnt mean you have to be a gullible bleeding heart . Doesnt mean you can do your best to built it with what you have. We are probably God himself.
Fact is, heaven is Not on earth. Life on earth as an human being is probably Hell for basically 99.9 percent of people, from all backgrounds and social classes, whatever the amount of power or money they own. And even if you do your best to build something it can be destroyed at any time.
The only way to be happy is to work whatever the job; to feel better; being part of the big thing, and for those who can, raise a happy family. Everything else is wicked. Many people have families and jobs and arent happy or genuinely nice too. Many unhappy people, very few, rare, genuinely happy ones, and you never hear about them. They are hidden. They are genuine.
Some people are happy at their jobs but unhappy in their families...in other cases it's the oposite... who is happy at work, and in his family? Also there is work, and work. Some people work at doing music, painting, being actors play a sport, etc. They consider it a job.
Fact is to be genuinely happy you need it ALL. The right job you love doing, AND a couple, family you focus on as much as you focus on your job.
Now, how to explain competition, selection? most of us realized this we all want everything to be perfect in our lives, but there s still the need to confront yourself to others daily. To adapt to survive; to excell to get higher, at the detriment of...others. It s easier to go thru all of this with a guidance, someone who wants you to continue a legacy. If nobody cares about you; your sucees, your hapiness; you feel empty and see no point in being succesful if nobody is here to tell you they re proud of you. This is the problem in notdysfunctional, shattered families the atheist society produces. Kids feel not loved, not fulfiled, regreted and end becoming cynical sooner and sooner.
