Bay thinks everyone is gay, why does this surprise people
To me, this smacks of a certain amount of discomfort.
I don't mind gay people, I don't have lots of gay friends but a good friend of mine is gay and owns a gay bar. I was there last Thursday. It's in Bangkok and it's not a 'queenie' place - more a place for regular guys who just happen to be gay. This probably explains why the place is always half empty... Still - you do get the 'mincers' in there on occasion. You know - those with the funny walk, the fake squeaky lisp and the insessant need to talk about cock in order to 'shock' people.
Like I say - I don't mind gay people but I fucking despise mincers. I don't go into that bar announcing my straightness, I just sit there having a few beers with my mate who owns the place. So the mincers aren't necessarily trying to show off in front of the straight guy to make him uncomfortable. The fact is, they are the ones who are uncomfortable. They are overcompensating. You can see a lot of the more down-to-earth gays in the place rolling their eyes at these guys mincing about.
If you were comfortable with your gayness, you wouldn't need to project it on others.
Personally, I cannot see how any man can't love tits & pussy but I don't go around saying all gay men are secretly straight.