I disagree.....you see..you are letting your ego get the best of you....you are so intent on kicking people's ass that again..you are being overly aggressive...which is a prescription for possibly getting your own ass kicked...
There is nothing wrong with waiting it out to see if the guy hits you first....as I have said, many guys have backed down when all I did was stand there and watch him.....if he did make a threatening gesture then I definitely would have released violence on his ass....
But really it doesn't matte if he beats you or not....if he did so what?.does that make you any less of a man?
See the problem is you are assuming someone is going to make a threating gesture, if I wanted to fight you, there would be no threating gesture, just mayhem, and the fact you waited for me to attack first, puts you at a massive disadvantage - it is just a poor survival strategy is all I am saying, and I believe it is good for a man to lose a fight, just not too many of them. Men reflect after an ass beating, and reflection is necessary for character growth. Look what happened to the monks in Tibet with the same attitude you have, they were even kicked out of their own country because they were too afraid to fight. Yeah, buddhism works, those dudes cant even protect their country.