I like to mix things up in the bedroom with one man... Meaning that that feelings are involved. Not everything goes with me for instance I am not into being choked or degraded or pissed on. Before I get intimate with any man I always get to know them and never rush in.
It's 2014 get with the programme love
JK
I find there's usually a certain personality that comes with the extreme sex, and it's not a good one, personally I'm not comfortable with it and turned it down many times when it was hinted. TBH after working 10 hours in the office, hitting the gym later...etc. I just want some good sex to end the day on a high, I'm not in the mood of choking, punching and pissing