I owe Goodrum for the crap he has done in the past. Like opening a site in my name then linking it to the home page of an adult boy-love group. That is going way beyond what is acceptable even on Getbig.
The funniest thing about what you're saying here is that despite it being all true, it still means nothing in the getbig landscape - essentially, the person with the easier going character / vibe wins.
I can see how that would burn.
I can see how you'd keep coming back to take potshots.
But it's pointless - this place isn't reality.
And sure, you'll claim this place is a place for scoundrels - but actually, it's more akin to: this is a place where respect is really given for being the type of person that you can get along with, here. Rather than because you had arnold banging babysitters in one of your bedrooms (which is a cool story, of course).
You should hire a getbig PR agent. The only way to win is to become more likeable than Vince.
My suggestion is to get that Basile Kielbasa into the tightest man's ass possible (then describe it on getbig, for us).