How does one define "anti-gay"? I don't really care about the gays...you are what you are and frankly, somebody's gonna have to pull the color scheme in this room together. My wife has had gay friends...none of them super hot women that I could somehow lure into a drunken three way or even double team my wife with me....but she has worked with and been friends with gay men over the years. She has even encouraged her pastor to be more accepting of gay people in his church. She does not think that gays should be allowed to marry in the traditional sense of the word for religious reasons.
Does that make her anti-gay?
