Is it just the drink....?

[deviant]

....a girl i really like becomes flirtatious with me to the point where all our friends think we're 'doing it'....trouble is, we're not...and i really wanna!
It happens when we're out and have got a few drinks in us, is she just fucking around or do you reckon she's opening up when she's drunk....fuck me, i'm confused (and drunk)....help?

 

[Original Sin]

If your not sure ask if its an act or not.   
A missed chance is the worst thing.
Be honest and nice about it and she shouldn't get upset.

[Butterbean]

....a girl i really like becomes flirtatious with me to the point where all our friends think we're 'doing it'....trouble is, we're not...and i really wanna!
It happens when we're out and have got a few drinks in us, is she just fucking around or do you reckon she's opening up when she's drunk....f**k me, i'm confused (and drunk)....help?

 

What do you do when she is being flirtatious?

Have you ever tried to kiss her when she is being flirtatious?  If she accepts your kiss, maybe it is a fact that she just displays her feelings more while buzzed than when she is sober.  If she rejects you, then just forget about it.

[Always Sore]

man pull your sack up to the man position and tell this girl what you want. All girls respect you if you are upfront with them. You like her, you want her do not play around be bold and make the advance whats the worst that can happen she turns you down...then find the next one.

[Laura Lee]

Personally, I think if she only shows interest when she's drunk....steer clear.  It's an accident waiting to happen.

[24KT]

I agree with Cheri. If she can't or won't behave the same when sober, ...steer clear

[xxxLinda]

Yep, I agree.  See her again when she's sober.  (& you too, darling, were you drunk?


...Or you could just go for it on the drunken night and get into trouble.

xL

[Faust]

A couple of weeks ago i was seriously teased by a hot blonde chick.

I vaguely knew her, we started dancing very close to each other. Just to the point of kissing, then she runs away. I find her in some corner sitting, talking to a girl. Sit next to her, start giving her a massage (for some reason) then she's basically lying on my lap moaning, i kiss her cheeks, ears,...
Then she runs away again (to toilet or whatever), next thing i see is she's leaving with her girlfriends...

WTF? She could at least give a lil word of explanation. That was fucked up, all my buddies were congratulating me cause she was extremely hot, but i felt confused and fucked up.

Anyway, just venting.

[Original Sin]

A couple of weeks ago i was seriously cockteased by a hot blonde chick.

I vaguely knew her, we started dancing very close to each other. Just to the point of kissing, then she runs away. I find her in some corner sitting, talking to a girl. Sit next to her, start giving her a massage (for some reason) then she's basically lying on my lap moaning, i kiss her cheeks, ears,...
Then she runs away again (to toilet or whatever), next thing i see is she's leaving with her girlfriends...

WTF? She could at least give a lil word of explanation. That was fucked up, all my buddies were congratulating me cause she was extremely hot, but i felt confused and fucked up.

Anyway, just venting.

I know a few girls like that.  On a occasion I have been that girl. 


I am not giving out any more advice on anything.  I seem to miss the mark of the concensus on here. 

[xxxLinda]

A couple of weeks ago i was seriously teased by a hot blonde chick.

I vaguely knew her, we started dancing very close to each other. Just to the point of kissing, then she runs away. I find her in some corner sitting, talking to a girl. Sit next to her, start giving her a massage (for some reason) then she's basically lying on my lap moaning, i kiss her cheeks, ears,...
Then she runs away again (to toilet or whatever), next thing i see is she's leaving with her girlfriends...

WTF? She could at least give a lil word of explanation. That was fucked up, all my buddies were congratulating me cause she was extremely hot, but i felt confused and fucked up.

Anyway, just venting.

...and your previous post!!!  I must comment.  Maybe you're just a nice guy.



>>>UNREQUITED LOVE.  It's probably the best kind. 

It'll keep you going for months on end. 


Don't doooooo it, just flirt.


with love
xL

(unless she's really drunk and you're not

[xxxLinda]

I know a few girls like that.   I seem to miss the mark of the concensus on here. 

no worries.  They even do that to you on the girly board.  You've not missed any Mark

xL

[Rearden Metal]

A couple of weeks ago i was seriously teased by a hot blonde chick.

I vaguely knew her, we started dancing very close to each other. Just to the point of kissing, then she runs away. I find her in some corner sitting, talking to a girl. Sit next to her, start giving her a massage (for some reason) then she's basically lying on my lap moaning, i kiss her cheeks, ears,...
Then she runs away again (to toilet or whatever), next thing i see is she's leaving with her girlfriends...

WTF? She could at least give a lil word of explanation. That was fucked up, all my buddies were congratulating me cause she was extremely hot, but i felt confused and fucked up.

Anyway, just venting.

I've been in that spot. Normally, I'm just about the most respectful, sweetest guy possible. However when this went on too long, I lost my shit. Told her I didn't need the bullshit, and not to come around me anymore. Basically said thanks but no thanks.

She showed up at my apt. soaking wet in the rain, apologizing up and down. I gave her a chance to explain.

We've been married 5 years, together for 10, just so happens.

[ToxicAvenger]

....a girl i really like becomes flirtatious with me to the point where all our friends think we're 'doing it'....trouble is, we're not...and i really wanna!
It happens when we're out and have got a few drinks in us, is she just fucking around or do you reckon she's opening up when she's drunk....f**k me, i'm confused (and drunk)....help?

 

simple..as her out for sunday brunch (non invasive)...hat way u'll be...bahh what am i saying...if you really really like her whats stopping you...no such animal as a woman that cant be charmed

so ask her out and get her

[Al-Gebra]

I've been in that spot. Normally, I'm just about the most respectful, sweetest guy possible. However when this went on too long, I lost my shit. Told her I didn't need the bullshit, and not to come around me anymore. Basically said thanks but no thanks.

She showed up at my apt. soaking wet in the rain, apologizing up and down. I gave her a chance to explain.

We've been married 5 years, together for 10, just so happens.

so what's the secret to persuading someone to wait for 5 years before you give them a ring?

[Original Sin]

so what's the secret to persuading someone to wait for 5 years before you give them a ring?

LOVE

[Al-Gebra]

LOVE

Do dreams and trust mutually exclude each other?

[Original Sin]

Do dreams and trust mutually exclude each other?

I don't believe so, but imagine the images needed to find the truth.

[Al-Gebra]

I don't believe so, but imagine the images needed to find the truth.

so you already know the answer to the question below your avatar . . . or was the question for us?

[ToxicAvenger]

love is not a persuasion al-gebra ...a persuasion implies a forcefull convincing..love does not require convincing....


one of my fav sonets


Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
   If this be error and upon me proved,
   I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

[Original Sin]

so you already know the answer to the question below your avatar . . . or was the question for us?

for the masses
Is there a better way to get a "date" 

And yea I know the answer very well.

[Rearden Metal]

so what's the secret to persuading someone to wait for 5 years before you give them a ring?

We were engaged for a year and a half before the wedding. So I guess 3 and a half years of "dating". And we were living together since near the beginning of our relationship.

So really, we knew we would be married eventually. But we met at 20 and 21, respectively, and chose to wait until we were financially capable to tie the knot.

[Al-Gebra]

We were engaged for a year and a half before the wedding. So I guess 3 and a half years of "dating". And we were living together since near the beginning of our relationship.

So really, we knew we would be married eventually. But we met at 20 and 21, respectively, and chose to wait until we were financially capable to tie the knot.

ah, you had time on your side . . . they tend to get restive after 25.

[Al-Gebra]

for the masses
Is there a better way to get a "date" 

And yea I know the answer very well.

you should try a yoga class on sunday morning . . .

so, what are some of the dreams?

[Original Sin]

so, what are some of the dreams?

There are some things that will never get discussed on here.

[Al-Gebra]

There are some things that will never get discussed on here.

fair enough . . . i'm a big fan of my anonymity.