I gotta be honest with you guys. You just don't get it!
If you are looking for a long term relationship money helps, but the guy has got to be nice looking and he has to have the
total package! I don't care how much money he has; if he is ugly, out of shape and acts like a jerk, he won't hold my interest for a second.
Women are looking for a guy with a fit body. He does not have to be a body builder, but it would be best to share my interest in fitness and working out. Some muscle is better than no muscle. And lean is better than fat. If I met a man whose only weakness was that he was 20 lbs. heavy, that would not stop me from having a relationship with him. My personal favorite body part is the butt. And I also enjoy a muscular chest and nice arms. A guy can be too big also. If I can't reach my man's butt while we are making love, I'm missing out. A nice looking face is important.
It is also important for my man to have a heart and to be warm and kind. I need a man who accepts me and respects me for who I am and does not try to change me or my opinions. It is ok to have a difference of opinion. I don't expect my man to think EXACTLY like me. I like being treated like a lady. Men who are selfish, self centered, complain, and unhappy are not cool to be around. The last part of the equation requires that my man have some skills in bed. No woman enjoys being with a selfish lover.
The most important part truly is the personality. A couple has to "click" in likes, dislikes, spirituality, raising kids, etc.
Women don't just look only at the physical aspects when they want to be with a man. This may be the initial attraction, but the mental/personality attraction is much more important to maintain a long term relationship.
Now if you are talking short term realtionship (one night or less), then generally the physical takes priority over the mental/personality. And cash, sure that helps.... But is not NUMBER ONE!