Any opinion would be appreciated...

[Original Sin]

If she's truly naive then I wouldn't write her off as deserving her fate.  If she does have a clue and still continues to see him that is a diff. story.

So what would you do Stella?

She is quite possibly the most naive girl I have ever known.
She was VERY sheltered in her up bringing and he is her first real boyfriend, she's over 30.

[Butterbean]

So what would you do Stella?

She is quite possibly the most naive girl I have ever known.
She was VERY sheltered in her up bringing and he is her first real boyfriend, she's over 30.

It's a tough situation since the guy is such a close friend. 

What do you think about having a conversation w/her regarding people cheating on each other and then asking her "Hey Martha, if Fred was dating someone else as well as you, would you still date him?"

If she says yes, then you don't need to do anything.  If she says no way then maybe you could just give her a look of great concern.  I don't know!!

[Migs]

you could always bump into her and say "i didn't know you guys broke up!"  When she says we didn't, then say "oh cuz i saw him with this other girl..."


job done.

[Original Sin]

Both of those are worthy suggestions but I think it goes above and beyond the "Bros vs Hoes" rules.

We are having an email conversation while she is at work.
I took a variation of Stells's advice and email her this.

So tell me why you didn't believe it when I said I was in Vegas?
My word is the one thing I will always keep and if I can't for some reason I will tell you.

Unlike a lot of people in this world I won't lie to people I care about. 
You have questioned me a few times on this matter. 
Don't take it that I am upset, more curious as to why you don't believe me.

Were you lied to a lot?

I haven't gotten a reply yet.  Maybe she does know and is just denying it to yourself.

[Migs]

perhaps.  Sometimes people live in what they want to percieve as reality.  Know it from first hand experience.

[Original Sin]

perhaps.  Sometimes people live in what they want to percieve as reality.  Know it from first hand experience.

I have come to this conclusion or she is an idiot.
Still want to give a smack into reality though.

[Migs]

I have come to this conclusion or she is an idiot.
Still want to give a smack into reality though.

i live between these two realms lol