Parenting has a lot to with it. Parents set the ground rules. Set up structure.
Or they choose not to. Look at those judge shows....many of those kids/young people had terrible parents, and then when they have kids they emulate thar. We replicate what we know.
And let's not start in with the single parent mothers whose male childrne emulate them---over dramatic, eye-rolling, manipulative, etc. They just keep replaying that.
Now, let's take it one step further, today's feminists agenda is that man and his maleness is EVIL, a woman can do what she wants, when she wants, and there shall not be any consequences, otherwise, you hate women. But, a man cannot and shall not do what he wants, or it's condemned. A man is not supposed to be a leader, or he is seen as "trying to hold women down", a man cannot speak his mind, or he's seen as "being insensitive". So what you have left is a neutered male---emasculated. And women, masculinized.
You see this more in businesses, law firms, corporate America. You don't see it as much working for Mcdonald's (unless you are corporate), or working at subway or whatever low end job.
Also, on the other end of the spectrum, today's male has learned to adapt---to do the least amount of work, because many of today's women were not taught to require the men that they deal with to have certain attributes. They were taught to go to school, get your degrees, advance degrees, and listen to no man.