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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: galeniko on March 18, 2014, 01:22:40 PM
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have you ever thought whats the reason why you think everything in life sucks etc?
is it the world or is it an inner issue with yourself?
is it you want more moneys?youll adapt to that, be;ieve me.
why are you unhappy?
what has caused to shut you down, your ambitions, your will to have fun and enjoy life?
do you think if you carry on like this, and it gets worse and worse, do you think such a life is worth living?
im not saying any names, itd be too long list and i dont mean this personal, theres many ppl with this outlook out there.
when was life any good and what changed it for the worse?
in general,i see this occuring in ppl who are often on the internet, the mindless pll who just go out,they dont give a fuck.theyre better off imo.
why is it that ppl instead of encouraging other s to get better, they try to drag others down to their own misery levels?
if that is the only thing that you rejoice in, its better to end it right now on the spot and kill yourself.
so yeah genuinely wondering, i have been to rock bottom and worse, but never turned negative.
the only thing i can come up with as reasoning is, its not the world,its the pessimist pl themselves,they not happy about themselves,theyre depressed to no end.
so?
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meltdown. ;D
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meltdown. ;D
;D
nah you know, recovering from that op, all day in pain, zero gear, no training, shrinking like baloon with hole, all while getting fatter ;D
but still no negativity, its all good, makes you realize how good it is, simply to be healthy and painfree
all relative i guess
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How many surgeries are you having? Sounds depressing.
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We'll I just bought a jet ski. 2nd hand but still nice. Back training full time after a move abroad and settling in.
Things are looking up.
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How many surgeries are you having? Sounds depressing.
man, this year is shceduled for "paying the dues"
it will be nevereneding this year, its already written off.
but is not depressing, prepared mentaly, was important to find other hobby to be occupied with.
theres more to come, complete overhaul
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man, this year is shceduled for "paying the dues"
it will be nevereneding this year, its already written off.
but is not depressing, prepared mentaly, was important to find other hobby to be occupied with.
theres more to come, complete overhaul
Good idea about finding another hobby to keep you occupied and semi-sane.
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pot calling the kettle black
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if that is the only thing that you rejoice in, its better to end it right now on the spot and kill yourself.
“Only optimists commit suicide, optimists who no longer succeed at being optimists. The others, having no reason to live, why would they have any to die?”
"I live only because it is in my power to die when I choose to: without the idea of suicide, I'd have killed myself right away."
"We dread the future only when we are not sure we can kill ourselves when we want to."
"Why don't I kill myself? If I knew exactly what keeps me from doing so, I should have no more questions to ask myself since I should have answered them all."
― E.M. Cioran
Read this shit for some positivity
(http://d202m5krfqbpi5.cloudfront.net/books/1348223420l/117564.jpg)
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It's a learnt behavior usually from the parents/support system early on. It's certainly not something that can be changed over night. And once a cynic always a cynic. A cynic can't change his stripes. He can only fake it around others...Much like really successful sociopaths are able to fake it around others...
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“Only optimists commit suicide, optimists who no longer succeed at being optimists. The others, having no reason to live, why would they have any to die?”
"I live only because it is in my power to die when I choose to: without the idea of suicide, I'd have killed myself right away."
"We dread the future only when we are not sure we can kill ourselves when we want to."
"Why don't I kill myself? If I knew exactly what keeps me from doing so, I should have no more questions to ask myself since I should have answered them all."
― E.M. Cioran
Read this shit for some positivity
(http://d202m5krfqbpi5.cloudfront.net/books/1348223420l/117564.jpg)
good point but doesnt apply, endless optimist will always stand up aghain.
ok i have been afraid of the folowing, when flying too high,then hitting the ground, could be troublesome, but it happened frequently, but still its all good.
thx for the book will order
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The best thing a cynic can do if he wants to look like he's changed around others is to speak less and listen more. When someone says something that you know is horseshit, instead of setting them straight, just say "I never thought about it that way, good point and then drop it. Easier said then done...
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hey gal.
keep your head up bro, even when you find yourself at a morbidly obese 8% bodyfat, the only straitions that you can see are in your pecs, and you dip down to a twink 195, remember that god loves you.
good point but doesnt apply, endless optimist will always stand up aghain.
ok i have been afraid of the folowing, when flying too high,then hitting the ground, could be troublesome, but it happened frequently.
(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c2/Pieter_Bruegel_de_Oude_-_De_val_van_Icarus.jpg)
Icarus in the background.
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As far as anyone killing themselves, there's no sense in it. Death is going to come fast to all of us anyway. Let it come naturally and embrace it when your number is called...
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good point but doesnt apply, endless optimist will always stand up aghain.
ok i have been afraid of the folowing, when flying too high,then hitting the ground, could be troublesome, but it happened frequently, but still its all good.
thx for the book will order
You know what I hate, all those motivational quotes "everyone" posts on the net, FB for example.
So hollow, shallow, childish. Reading a pessimist like Cioran... strangely makes me feel positive! :D
As far as anyone killing themselves, there's no sense in it. Death is going to come fast to all of us anyway. Let it come naturally and embrace it when your number is called...
"It's not worth the bother of killing yourself, since you always kill yourself too late." - Cioran :D
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You know what I hate, all those motivational quotes "everyone" posts on the net, FB for example.
So hollow, shallow, childish. Reading a pessimist like Cioran... strangely makes me feel positive! :D
yes, ironicaly, its be from deeply depressed ppl who have a brief moment of motivation, but never the power to overcome the hole theyre stuck in.
they look up quotes and then say wow i like this.
@visual,yeah icorus was what i was thinking about,not sure if he ever got up again ;D
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Well, a pessimist won't be disappointed.
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;D
nah you know, recovering from that op, all day in pain, zero gear, no training, shrinking like baloon with hole, all while getting fatter ;D
but still no negativity, its all good, makes you realize how good it is, simply to be healthy and painfree
all relative i guess
Get well soon.When I had my orthopedic operation I couldn't imagine my arm would work again. It took 6 months to get back to where I was. I know most bodybuilders don't care about health or even the enjoyment of training but I found an outlet I could do with one arm. For me it was running. About one week after the operation I started really slow with my arm in a sling and soft cast on a treadmill. I could channel all my physical energy into something physical that was good for me. I got in the single digits of fat percentage and got into outstanding cardio shape. When I could finally lift the weights were light for a 110 year old. I just kept plugging away and slowly after 6 months I was back. The running kept me lean and healthy.
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I find most overly optimistic people to be quite dumb, shallow, delusional and naive most of the time.
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I guess you can live your life with blinders on and dying thinking you made an impact when you were nothing more just a ball of molecules.
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Good post.
I love miserable people, makes me feel good about myself and what a cool life I lead in comparison with these losers ;D no names lol
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Let's be a little more positive, okay :D
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Get well soon.When I had my orthopedic operation I couldn't imagine my arm would work again. It took 6 months to get back to where I was. I know most bodybuilders don't care about health or even the enjoyment of training but I found an outlet I could do with one arm. For me it was running. About one week after the operation I started really slow with my arm in a sling and soft cast on a treadmill. I could channel all my physical energy into something physical that was good for me. I got in the single digits of fat percentage and got into outstanding cardio shape. When I could finally lift the weights were light for a 110 year old. I just kept plugging away and slowly after 6 months I was back. The running kept me lean and healthy.
thanks man.
lol,i entirely and throughoutly underestimated how bad this one would be, esp the recovery, the leg feels and looks machinegunned. ;D
i dont overly value health, but i dont take ridiculously stupid risks and hope for the best, but every time after surgeries one is frounded to reality and learns to apreciate it a bit more again.
yeah believe or not, my fav exercise is simply jogging, its terrible not being able to do that.
I find most overly optimistic people to be quite dumb, shallow, delusional and naive most of the time.
yes, but they are happier, this is almost philosophical, ie whats the purpose etc.
this forced happynes from prozac is weird, though.
I guess you can live your life with blinders on and dying thinking you made an impact when you were nothing more just a ball of molecules.
i know, but i see it more like this, being happy to been granted an existence within the top5% of the world population standards.
i dont see me dethroning the rothschilds or anything this lifetime ;D
Good post.
I love miserable people, makes me feel good about myself and what a cool life I lead in comparison with these losers ;D no names lol
exactly,
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Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their women.
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good outlook brother
come to benidorm
best rehab in the world
we are kings out there 8)
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Cause and Effect. Are they successful because they are optimistic or optimistic because they were successful?
Let's be a little more positive, okay :D
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(http://www.serioussupplements.co.uk/blogPost/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/arnold-schwarzenegger.jpg)
(http://addicted2success.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Motivation-Picture-Quote-Motivation-Start-Today.jpg)
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(http://www.meh.ro/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/meh.ro10562.jpg)
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good outlook brother
come to benidorm
best rehab in the world
we are kings out there 8)
Bigmc seizes on the chance to 'out shred' the great galeniko
Dont fall for it Gal, hes a man on a mission. ;D
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Bigmc seizes on the chance to 'out shred' the great galeniko
Dont fall for it Gal, hes a man on a mission. ;D
i wont get within five percent of gal ever
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i wont get within five percent of gal ever
not with your defeatist attitude ;D
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yes brother, as things look, benidorm and ibiza will be happening :D
i wont get within five percent of gal ever
you can, its easy, one must just often forget about eating ;D
i have it good, i rather go with no foods at all than those small bbuilder meals, the both optionsare about equaly "satisfying" :D
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yes brother, as things look, benidorm and ibiza will be happening :D
you can, its easy, one must just often forget about eating ;D
i have it good, i rather go with no foods at all than those small bbuilder meals, the both optionsare about equaly "satisfying" :D
I get that.
A small "cutting meal" is the equivalent to having sex, but not being able to blow your load.
Id rather just not.
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thanks man.
lol,i entirely and throughoutly underestimated how bad this one would be, esp the recovery, the leg feels and looks machinegunned. ;D
i dont overly value health, but i dont take ridiculously stupid risks and hope for the best, but every time after surgeries one is frounded to reality and learns to apreciate it a bit more again.
yeah believe or not, my fav exercise is simply jogging, its terrible not being able to do that.
yes, but they are happier, this is almost philosophical, ie whats the purpose etc.
this forced happynes from prozac is weird, though.
i know, but i see it more like this, being happy to been granted an existence within the top5% of the world population standards.
i dont see me dethroning the rothschilds or anything this lifetime ;D
exactly,
Confused? I thought you had a bad shoulder? It's your leg?
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Confused? I thought you had a bad shoulder? It's your leg?
Gal fell apart for us bitches. ;D
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Confused? I thought you had a bad shoulder? It's your leg?
man, the whole body is a mess :D
if i was an insurance company, oh brother ;D
I get that.
A small "cutting meal" is the equivalent to having sex, but not being able to blow your load.
Id rather just not.
yeah thats what i mean, when starving, when just drinking water or coffe wont help nomore, can eat 1 tomoto and its ok-ish.if i add a chiken breast and 20gramms rice to that,it frankly satietes me uhmm, fuck all ;D
maybe ppl think i love dieting or something, hell fuck no, i hate those pale meals, im just good at starving.the only good thing about this is the look and the speed you get there.
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Life isn't innately enjoyable for me.
I could be in intense pain, I accept that. But I could also be dead.
Sometimes being dead seems like the favourable option to continuing to live.
But I'm trying to embrace your attitude galeniko, your emotional resolve is deeply admirable.It's how you frame things in your own mind that allows you to derive pleasure from an experience after all.
I remember something about Buddha saying a glass of water to a man dying of thirst in the desert tastes like heaven on earth. You compare that to a guy getting up from a couch to get a glass of water from the kitchen sink, and the water tastes no different, but the thirsty guy in the desert derives infinitely more pleasure from it. Ok now I understand you're thinking the guy is relieving his thirst, of course he's going to be happier with the glass of fucking water, but also in a perceptual sense the man in the desert has learned to truly appreciate that glass of water.
What am I saying here? That we need to learn to appreciate the little things. I'm trying to come around to that line of thinking.
In today's society it's easy to get focused on what we have *not*. We're constantly bombarded with images of people more beautiful than we are, with hotter girlfriends, more money, bigger dicks (if you watch as much shemale porn as I do (nah that's a joke, only the n**gers have bigger dicks than i do)), better friends, faster cars, access to higher quality cocaine (I just watch wolf on wall street; damn I was jealous of all the coke they were railing). The point is, the moment you become obsessed with what you do not have, is the moment you stop appreciating what you do have going for you.
And it's an easy trap to fall into, because there is always some girl who has it better than you do (or appears to).
Anyway, I'm going to stop rambling now. I had a shitty day. 3 weeks off and my first day is a 13 hour shift. Bleep bleep bleep all fucking day. I work on this crappy little island in a tiny hospital (because I'm a shitty doctor), and every nurse here is as ugly as sin. I busted my ass for years, you think the least I would get in compensation is some decent nurse pussy. I've cheered up a bit now anyway.
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People generally annoy me.
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Generation nothing has expected that if they could just get that college diploma and vote for a cool president they would be set. A great house, money, cars, and vacations. When the reality hits them they wasted their life pursuing a syringe steroid life style instead of pursuing a career reality sets in. Suddenly they are approaching 30 living at home but at least they get compliments in the disco for their temporary muscles.
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Crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their women.
;D ;D ;D
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People who talk of happiness and being happy or finding happiness are child-like in my mind. They never grew up, always wanting to eat ice cream and look at rainbows. I can't stand those people who ask you "But are you happy?" like that even means anything or happiness is something that can become a constant in your life. If you lose your leg or arm, are you still supposed to be happy, or your best friend dies or you lose a job you love. There are far greater human qualities to strive for than feeling a bunch of happiness, like seeking wisdom and contentment, developing an attitude to overcome adversity, being true to yourself, cultivating mutually beneficial relationships, being fair and just etc etc. Happiness is so gay, just like the fairies that seek it.
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People generally annoy me.
It means you're getting old. When I was younger I was around people all the time. As I get older I can't fucking stand people and their pittiness towards everything.
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(http://www.cavemancircus.com/wp-content/uploads/images/2012/december/motivational_quotes/motivational_quotes_22.jpg)
Long ass motivational quote.. and too much about swallowing and getting beat up. Over the top..
(http://addicted2success.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Motivation-Picture-Quote-Motivation-Start-Today.jpg)
Uhm.. no tomorrow counts too. Shallowing the importance of planning to succeed.
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It means you're getting old. When I was younger I was around people all the time. As I get older I can't fucking stand people and their pittiness towards everything.
Nah, I've always tolerated humans in small doses only.
I figure when I do eventually get older someday ( ;D) I'll discover the tolerance that's always been missing.
Until then fuck 'em.
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man, the whole body is a mess :D
if i was an insurance company, oh brother ;D
yeah thats what i mean, when starving, when just drinking water or coffe wont help nomore, can eat 1 tomoto and its ok-ish.if i add a chiken breast and 20gramms rice to that,it frankly satietes me uhmm, fuck all ;D
maybe ppl think i love dieting or something, hell fuck no, i hate those pale meals, im just good at starving.the only good thing about this is the look and the speed you get there.
Must suck to be you, having to starve yourself to stay lean and guys like Cruise Director Gay4It eats 22568 calories per meal and stays ripped
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This thread is fucking depressing. :(
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The happiest people i've ever met, have all agreed on this:
Happiness is not an aim or goal, but a byproduct of doing what's right.
'What's right' may differ according to the lane of life you're running in, however, I found myself to be happy when I didn't focus on 'becoming happy'.
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The happiest people i've ever met, have all agreed on this:
Happiness is not an aim or goal, but a byproduct of doing what's right.
'What's right' may differ according to the lane of life you're running in, however, I found myself to be happy when I didn't focus on 'becoming happy'.
Very wise post my friend!
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This thread is fucking depressing. :(
An occasional slap in the smiley face is a healthy thing.
"Wherever you go, there you are, being a complete ass."
(http://mikeyllo.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Never-Give-Up.jpg)
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Galeniko I kind of agree with you - but it's only 50 percent of the puzzle. There are outside factors that you can't "positive" away.
Be positive on the insight and strive forward... but in reality, what other chance do you have...?
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Life isn't innately enjoyable for me.
I could be in intense pain, I accept that. But I could also be dead.
Sometimes being dead seems like the favourable option to continuing to live.
But I'm trying to embrace your attitude galeniko, your emotional resolve is deeply admirable.It's how you frame things in your own mind that allows you to derive pleasure from an experience after all.
I remember something about Buddha saying a glass of water to a man dying of thirst in the desert tastes like heaven on earth. You compare that to a guy getting up from a couch to get a glass of water from the kitchen sink, and the water tastes no different, but the thirsty guy in the desert derives infinitely more pleasure from it. Ok now I understand you're thinking the guy is relieving his thirst, of course he's going to be happier with the glass of fucking water, but also in a perceptual sense the man in the desert has learned to truly appreciate that glass of water.
What am I saying here? That we need to learn to appreciate the little things. I'm trying to come around to that line of thinking.
In today's society it's easy to get focused on what we have *not*. We're constantly bombarded with images of people more beautiful than we are, with hotter girlfriends, more money, bigger dicks (if you watch as much shemale porn as I do (nah that's a joke, only the n**gers have bigger dicks than i do)), better friends, faster cars, access to higher quality cocaine (I just watch wolf on wall street; damn I was jealous of all the coke they were railing). The point is, the moment you become obsessed with what you do not have, is the moment you stop appreciating what you do have going for you.
And it's an easy trap to fall into, because there is always some girl who has it better than you do (or appears to).
Anyway, I'm going to stop rambling now. I had a shitty day. 3 weeks off and my first day is a 13 hour shift. Bleep bleep bleep all fucking day. I work on this crappy little island in a tiny hospital (because I'm a shitty doctor), and every nurse here is as ugly as sin. I busted my ass for years, you think the least I would get in compensation is some decent nurse pussy. I've cheered up a bit now anyway.
great post.
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great post.
Summary?
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Galeniko I kind of agree with you - but it's only 50 percent of the puzzle. There are outside factors that you can't "positive" away.
Be positive on the insight and strive forward... but in reality, what other chance do you have...?
you can control the amount of effect outside factors have on you
for instance
a pessimist who loses his job might think thats my career fucked
an optimist would look at it as an opportunity to try something new
slef belief and positivity can carry you a long way
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You can't be upbeat and happy all the time. Overload in dopamine. The one who are or seem like it are usually fake. And when adversity comes they crash hard. In to drugs or other.
After rain comes sunshine. That's how the human psyche is intended to work.
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Summary?
you know what? i tried to summarize it but i cant. lol its a whole thing. a really well thought out post.
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Takin a dump...optimistic
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The world. It burns.
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have you ever thought whats the reason why you think everything in life sucks etc?
is it the world or is it an inner issue with yourself?
is it you want more moneys?youll adapt to that, be;ieve me.
why are you unhappy?
what has caused to shut you down, your ambitions, your will to have fun and enjoy life?
do you think if you carry on like this, and it gets worse and worse, do you think such a life is worth living?
im not saying any names, itd be too long list and i dont mean this personal, theres many ppl with this outlook out there.
when was life any good and what changed it for the worse?
in general,i see this occuring in ppl who are often on the internet, the mindless pll who just go out,they dont give a fuck.theyre better off imo.
why is it that ppl instead of encouraging other s to get better, they try to drag others down to their own misery levels?
if that is the only thing that you rejoice in, its better to end it right now on the spot and kill yourself.
so yeah genuinely wondering, i have been to rock bottom and worse, but never turned negative.
the only thing i can come up with as reasoning is, its not the world,its the pessimist pl themselves,they not happy about themselves,theyre depressed to no end.
so?
Why are you so negative, pessimistic and cynic?
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As far as anyone killing themselves, there's no sense in it. Death is going to come fast to all of us anyway. Let it come naturally and embrace it when your number is called...
This isn't sound reasoning: just because you're going to die anyway doesn't mean there aren't contexts when it might be optimal to opt out rather than let it occur naturally: for example, if an old person becomes incapacitated and doesn't want to live the rest of life in a hospital bed or in an otherwise diminished state.
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you can control the amount of effect outside factors have on you
for instance
a pessimist who loses his job might think thats my career fucked
an optimist would look at it as an opportunity to try something new
slef belief and positivity can carry you a long way
yeah mate, i always think like that, so what if the job is lost, can sign up for the dole and find something "better" in the meanwhile.
i think id draw the line at cancer though
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Life isn't innately enjoyable for me.
I could be in intense pain, I accept that. But I could also be dead.
Sometimes being dead seems like the favourable option to continuing to live.
But I'm trying to embrace your attitude galeniko, your emotional resolve is deeply admirable.It's how you frame things in your own mind that allows you to derive pleasure from an experience after all.
I remember something about Buddha saying a glass of water to a man dying of thirst in the desert tastes like heaven on earth. You compare that to a guy getting up from a couch to get a glass of water from the kitchen sink, and the water tastes no different, but the thirsty guy in the desert derives infinitely more pleasure from it. Ok now I understand you're thinking the guy is relieving his thirst, of course he's going to be happier with the glass of fucking water, but also in a perceptual sense the man in the desert has learned to truly appreciate that glass of water.
What am I saying here? That we need to learn to appreciate the little things. I'm trying to come around to that line of thinking.
In today's society it's easy to get focused on what we have *not*. We're constantly bombarded with images of people more beautiful than we are, with hotter girlfriends, more money, bigger dicks (if you watch as much shemale porn as I do (nah that's a joke, only the n**gers have bigger dicks than i do)), better friends, faster cars, access to higher quality cocaine (I just watch wolf on wall street; damn I was jealous of all the coke they were railing). The point is, the moment you become obsessed with what you do not have, is the moment you stop appreciating what you do have going for you.
And it's an easy trap to fall into, because there is always some girl who has it better than you do (or appears to).
Anyway, I'm going to stop rambling now. I had a shitty day. 3 weeks off and my first day is a 13 hour shift. Bleep bleep bleep all fucking day. I work on this crappy little island in a tiny hospital (because I'm a shitty doctor), and every nurse here is as ugly as sin. I busted my ass for years, you think the least I would get in compensation is some decent nurse pussy. I've cheered up a bit now anyway.
No matter how bad you feel things are theres always "I could be shizzo" to make it all better.
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wTF? this is getbig, not oprah. Man yourself up , sniff some coca and stop whining on gimmicks shoulders,, ,u douche
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Why are you so negative, pessimistic and cynic?
why are you such a guy? ;D
No matter how bad you feel things are theres always "I could be shizzo" to make it all better.
good point, no matter what, thinking of this for a brief second and the sky is pink again
wTF? this is getbig, not oprah. Man yourself up , sniff some coca and stop whining on gimmicks shoulders,, ,u douche
ok, "tony"
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you can control the amount of effect outside factors have on you
for instance
a pessimist who loses his job might think thats my career fucked
an optimist would look at it as an opportunity to try something new
slef belief and positivity can carry you a long way
I catch your drift but I'm talking a bout way bigger issues.
Muscle insertion, hereditary posing ability and so on. ;D
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I catch your drift but I'm talking a bout way bigger issues.
Muscle insertion, hereditary posing ability and so on. ;D
listen bro you are speaking to a guy who missed the anabolic window
it took me months to control the darkness inside me
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This isn't sound reasoning: just because you're going to die anyway doesn't mean there aren't contexts when it might be optimal to opt out rather than let it occur naturally: for example, if an old person becomes incapacitated and doesn't want to live the rest of life in a hospital bed or in an otherwise diminished state.
Yes true agreed...