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Title: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 22, 2014, 11:25:19 AM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: spiro on April 22, 2014, 11:26:27 AM
Yes! The sex might be fun but the rest will be torture. Girls that age are complete idiots.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: 240 is Back on April 22, 2014, 11:27:00 AM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?

get her drunk.  fast.  
ger her horny fast too.

maybe put on magic mike, Redbox, while feeding her some vodka lemonades.
plan your exit strategy.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Hulkotron on April 22, 2014, 11:28:18 AM
What are the tits like?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: MAXX on April 22, 2014, 11:30:31 AM
yes 25 is a better age. mentally mature but still firm if they lived healthy. generally anyways...
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: kreator on April 22, 2014, 11:34:36 AM
do you know his parents?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 22, 2014, 11:35:28 AM
do you know his parents?

Lol
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 22, 2014, 11:36:03 AM
What are the tits like?
Huge, no lie
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: SamoanIrishman on April 22, 2014, 11:37:01 AM
Yes! The sex might be fun but the rest will be torture. Girls that age are complete idiots.

Truth.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: AD2100 on April 22, 2014, 11:44:52 AM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?

Man up and knock out the uterus.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on April 22, 2014, 11:49:13 AM
get her drunk.  fast.  
plan your exit strategy.

Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 22, 2014, 11:52:44 AM
I'm going to be feeling like a 1993 jerry Seinfeld, except she was 17 and he banged her for 4 years for her winning personality

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Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: the trainer on April 22, 2014, 11:56:42 AM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?

You could dress like this to show the girl that you are hip and you kept up with the times, she would be impressed.

(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rMR2PEg9reQ/UhvDRMUiulI/AAAAAAAAAS0/zXxO9gCzVug/s1600/old-man-wears-pant-to-shopping-mall.jpg)
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 22, 2014, 12:38:11 PM
You could dress like this to show the girl that you are hip and you kept up with the times, she would be impressed.

(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rMR2PEg9reQ/UhvDRMUiulI/AAAAAAAAAS0/zXxO9gCzVug/s1600/old-man-wears-pant-to-shopping-mall.jpg)

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Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 22, 2014, 12:40:00 PM
Depends on a girl a lot... I have a friend who's 44 currently, met his current wife when he was ~35 (she was 21 at that time). Fast forward 9 years - they are a very nice/positive family with two kids. I've personally dated many girls significantly younger than me (but I'm young myself, so they were like 17-18-19...) and I met some 18yos who a far more intelligent than many 25+.. The lack of overall experience is apparent tho'. And 20+ they are getting in their prime for being impregnated/made a wife.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: UPINTHEMGUTS on April 22, 2014, 12:59:24 PM
I'm 40 and I'll date as young as possible(28 or younger) for however long I can get away with it.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Skorp1o on April 22, 2014, 01:03:46 PM
I do it all the time...I found many 20 year old more mature and level headed than older girls and less emotional bagage to deal with. Sex is different with them, they're aftrr affection (daddy issues), they want to please you in sex more than anything..rather tan older girls who want you to spit on their face whilst your fucking her as hard as a ground n pound combo from Rampage Jackson.

Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: SamoanIrishman on April 22, 2014, 01:04:20 PM
I'm 40 and I'll date as young as possible(28 or younger) for however long I can get away with it.

That's different in my opinion. At 28 she most likely has world experience, relationship experience and just life experience in general. More than likely has been exposed to both the professional world and is college educated. You both are adults and having experienced most of the same general experience we all go through...you just have more years at it.

In GENERAL anyone (male and female) 17-21...hell almost up to 25 sometimes are barely off their parents tits and have no substantial life, professional or educational experience for their personality to be remotely interesting.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: the trainer on April 22, 2014, 01:11:43 PM
When I see a beautiful woman over the age of 30 who has no kids and was never married and has plenty of relationships I always ask myself why is it that no man wanted to marry her something is wrong with this picture.,
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Skorp1o on April 22, 2014, 01:27:46 PM
When I see a beautiful woman over the age of 30 who has no kids and was never married and has plenty of relationships I always ask myself why is it that no man wanted to marry her something is wrong with this picture.,

You'll usually find out very soon why this is the case. Never fails for me
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Papper on April 22, 2014, 01:49:04 PM
If you only want to fuck what does it matter her experiences and so on and so forth?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: dyslexic on April 22, 2014, 01:49:51 PM
Just don't  make me take her to the mall and all will be good ~
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Costanza on April 22, 2014, 01:50:54 PM
Don't have too many expectations. I'm 33 and going out on a date with a 20 year old this Friday night. I've been out with a few that age and occasionally you'll find one that's relatively mature and can hold a decent conversation. For the most part tho they're annoying as fuck. I can't be bothered with women my age, they start to go down hill rapidly after about 27 and if you come across a decent looking, childless, single woman around 30 there's always a reason for it.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 22, 2014, 01:52:21 PM
When I see a beautiful woman over the age of 30 who has no kids and was never married and has plenty of relationships I always ask myself why is it that no man wanted to marry her something is wrong with this picture.,

Lol...

Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: SweetMuscles on April 22, 2014, 01:53:43 PM
You're mid 30s? Jeez, I thought with all the bbing.com teen stuff and gay jokes you were a young dude.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Man of Steel on April 22, 2014, 01:54:41 PM
Don't have too many expectations. I'm 33 and going out on a date with a 20 year old this Friday night. I've been out with a few that age and occasionally you'll find one that's relatively mature and can hold a decent conversation. For the most part tho they're annoying as fuck. I can't be bothered with women my age, they start to go down hill rapidly after about 27 and if you come across a decent looking, childless, single woman around 30 there's always a reason for it.

LOL!!  "go down hill rapidly after about 27"
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 22, 2014, 01:56:29 PM
Don't have too many expectations. I'm 33 and going out on a date with a 20 year old this Friday night. I've been out with a few that age and occasionally you'll find one that's relatively mature and can hold a decent conversation. For the most part tho they're annoying as fuck. I can't be bothered with women my age, they start to go down hill rapidly after about 27 and if you come across a decent looking, childless, single woman around 30 there's always a reason for it.

Once again - truth. At your age (if you are at least somewhat in shape and have a JOB) - 23-24 would be the sweet spot. Females physically go downhill quite a lot faster compared to males, pregnancies, etc... so 8-10 years younger is a very good deal. A stable male with some experience/authority and a younger female with a fertility. They must not be rocket scientists, generally it's enough that there are good habits (of reading books/educating oneself) and a proper upbringing by their parents. Everything else a man can/must teach a female by himself.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Bodybuilder Lex Reeves on April 22, 2014, 01:59:49 PM
I'm currently dating an 18 year old Puerto Rican girl. I'm old enough to be her grandfather but she loves the muscles and she loves the way I screw her. I take an all natural herbal supplement my buddy at the health food store recommended and I'm hard as a brick for hours.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: the trainer on April 22, 2014, 02:02:48 PM
I'm currently dating an 18 year old Puerto Rican girl. I'm old enough to be her grandfather but she loves the muscles and she loves the way I screw her. I take an all natural herbal supplement my buddy at the health food store recommended and I'm hard as a brick for hours.

Your stories are more fake than kim kardashian butt.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 22, 2014, 02:04:03 PM
I'm currently dating an 18 year old Puerto Rican girl. I'm old enough to be her grandfather but she loves the muscles and she loves the way I screw her. I take an all natural herbal supplement my buddy at the health food store recommended and I'm hard as a brick for hours.

A lady boy in Thailand would be more believeable.

On a side note, I know one fella who was like 50 and used to fuck his stepdaughter of like 18-19yo when the mommy was away. The word was that said girl was a sex addict and used to fuck many guys. I guess old geezer had quite an excitement going on, eagerly waiting while his wife will go out of home so he could plow her daughter furiously.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Simple Simon on April 22, 2014, 02:32:57 PM
A lady boy in Thailand would be more believeable.

On a side note, I know one fella who was like 50 and used to fuck his stepdaughter of like 18-19yo when the mommy was away. The word was that said girl was a sex addict and used to fuck many guys. I guess old geezer had quite an excitement going on, eagerly waiting while his wife will go out of home so he could plow her daughter furiously.
Your post makes me uncomfortable.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Marty Champions on April 22, 2014, 02:39:19 PM
lol @ past 2 posts
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 22, 2014, 02:47:42 PM
A lady boy in Thailand would be more believeable.

On a side note, I know one fella who was like 50 and used to fuck his stepdaughter of like 18-19yo when the mommy was away. The word was that said girl was a sex addict and used to fuck many guys. I guess old geezer had quite an excitement going on, eagerly waiting while his wife will go out of home so he could plow her daughter furiously.

What is her exact location?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: TEH boob on April 22, 2014, 03:08:58 PM
Why a 20 year old would want to date a 30-something:

1. Money
2. Maturity not found in some fellow 20 somethings
3. Seeking father figure
4. She likes you, and you just happen to be older

Source: I'm 20

Hint: only 4 leads to any meaningful relationship
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 22, 2014, 03:10:32 PM
What is her exact location?

She's now past her prime (probably like 24), lives somewhere in Uk and probably doesn't look anything close to what she used to look like (7/10). You may try searching her on pof, just ask them randomly if they ever were plowed by their stepdad. Hope this helps.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: The Grim Lifter on April 22, 2014, 03:11:46 PM
A lot of guys that age are immature too. Some girls get over that and want a mature guy.

Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Icelord on April 22, 2014, 03:13:23 PM
A lot of guys that age are immature too. Some girls get over that and want a mature guy.


Men are generally mature enough to know what they want, though. Which for most is a warm body that has a hole of variable moisture between its legs. The rest follows from there.

95% of women under 30 don't know what they want. It's what makes them so easy to manipulate and so open to suggestion with the right male partner. Those who don't appreciate this won't know how to control them. And control is what they want, whether they spell it out or not.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Eric2 on April 22, 2014, 08:58:10 PM
I could not stand to be around a young broad on a date. If she where mute maybe. Plus most young gals are not as good in bed as mature women. ;) tell the youngster to leave her phone at home, if she refuses then your wasting your time.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: flinstones1 on April 22, 2014, 09:10:53 PM
meh 20 is a bit young. Im 21 and its young for me lol. 23-25 is a huge difference in maturity level i have found
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: el numero uno on April 22, 2014, 09:21:36 PM
meh 20 is a bit young. Im 21 and its young for me lol. 23-25 is a huge difference in maturity level i have found

Good to hear you're finally one year older since your registration 5 years ago.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: sean on April 22, 2014, 10:02:39 PM
There was a early 20 some year old in my store today with her father in law. She did not stop talking the entire 15 minutes she was in there.  Not a single break. I could not hear myself think actually.  Nausea almost set in.  I almost had to go outside and take a deep breath. This is why I appreciate the asian culture. Women, do not speak unless spoken to. Generally.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Bertha Butt on April 22, 2014, 11:11:29 PM
Why a 20 year old would want to date a 30-something:

1. Money
2. Maturity not found in some fellow 20 somethings
3. Seeking father figure
4. She likes you, and you just happen to be older

Source: I'm 20

Hint: only 4 leads to any meaningful relationship

So true!
They also seek some leadership to feel secure. And they just want to be appreciated and feel special.

BTW: if she yaps too much, you're not doing it right! You either make her feel uncomfortable, you're boring and/or you're not kissing enough.

Source: me, when I was in my twenties.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: O.Z. on April 22, 2014, 11:22:33 PM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?

Don't rush check mum first
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: 240 is Back on April 22, 2014, 11:23:52 PM
When I see a beautiful woman over the age of 30 who has no kids and was never married and has plenty of relationships I always ask myself why is it that no man wanted to marry her something is wrong with this picture.,

30 and single/no kids... unless she's VP at a bank or doing very well in medicine, there are MAJOR red flags on this one.

She will be the MASTER at highlighting her strengths and hiding the crazy by this point.  Look out for things like "I'm a 3-hole girl" after 2 beers and a "confession" that she's into girls and loves 3-ways too, once she's comfortable in her relationship.  Gentlemen, this is the ol' bait-and-switch.  You make her follow thru now, or you run.  No other way about it.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: powerbar on April 23, 2014, 05:00:28 AM
I don't really think it matters.  I'm 35 and went on a date with a 19 year old last year.  Girls don't really ever mature besides physically.  The 28-40 girls are usually the worst.  They expected to be married by now and seem to want to take it out on everyone.  They are bitter and hopeless which no one wants to be around.  If they have kids it is even worse because they have yet another reminder that like isn't what they were promised.  Over 40 with no kids seem to be better.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: snx on April 23, 2014, 06:27:01 AM
30 and single/no kids... unless she's VP at a bank or doing very well in medicine, there are MAJOR red flags on this one.

She will be the MASTER at highlighting her strengths and hiding the crazy by this point.  Look out for things like "I'm a 3-hole girl" after 2 beers and a "confession" that she's into girls and loves 3-ways too, once she's comfortable in her relationship.  Gentlemen, this is the ol' bait-and-switch.  You make her follow thru now, or you run.  No other way about it.

To be fair, when you say "single", you mean "never married".

Because there's lots of technically single women in their early 30s who are recently divorced, without kids. Happens a lot. Him and her spend their 20s building legacies in the corporate world (for whatever that's worth), only to realize they've grown apart, had a tryst or two in the office, or one refuses to put their career on hold or change it so the other can (i.e. he gets re-located from SF to Cleveland, and she refuses to drop her six figure job just so he can become Sr VP of Supply Chain for P&G out in Cincinnatti.)

So she stays in SF, they divorce (possibly acrimoniously) and she's embittered and looking for something new. She spends too much time at work, just lost half her potential 401K (her husband and her split it 50/50), and needs to live a little.

She's not crazy. She just works too much. She is also not ready to repeat the mistakes she made with hubby #1. That can be good (i.e. more adventurous) or bad (i.e. more demanding). Tough to say.

But there are lots of near-wealthy recently divorced 30-something women out there without kids. But some of them want kids bad. Doesn't matter what your job is...the biological clock ignores no woman.


This, by the way, is not my personaly experience. I showed this thread to the wife last night Rob, and this is what she told me. Beats me if she's right. But she says she has lots of co-workers at the office who are like this. Probably hyperbole, but you never know.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Papper on April 23, 2014, 06:58:04 AM
I hope when I am mid thirties I can go out with a 20 something

,how is your friends/family/work reacting?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: 240 is Back on April 23, 2014, 06:58:49 AM
good call - I wasn't talking about those who had been married - -- -

oh yeah, I wasn't counting the divorcees.  That happens a ton.  Locally, it's not about $$... it's about "they had kids at 28... now the kids are in school, they're 33 and he finally decided it was time to bail".

Luckily, girls at that position/age can be an absolute steal.  They are loyal, they know how to take care of you.  The va-jay-jay is in good shape.  They just want to be loved.  They don't care if you're a little thin on top.  They're realistic about things.  They're not about drama cause they have kids.  yes, that group is a keeper group.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: _bruce_ on April 23, 2014, 07:02:24 AM
17 is the new 35 for women!
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: dr.chimps on April 23, 2014, 08:12:25 AM
30 and single/no kids... unless she's VP at a bank or doing very well in medicine, there are MAJOR red flags on this one.

She will be the MASTER at highlighting her strengths and hiding the crazy by this point.  Look out for things like "I'm a 3-hole girl" after 2 beers and a "confession" that she's into girls and loves 3-ways too, once she's comfortable in her relationship.  Gentlemen, this is the ol' bait-and-switch.  You make her follow thru now, or you run.  No other way about it.
Sounds like buyer's remorse to me.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: sean on April 23, 2014, 08:39:35 AM
30 and single/no kids... unless she's VP at a bank or doing very well in medicine, there are MAJOR red flags on this one.

She will be the MASTER at highlighting her strengths and hiding the crazy by this point.  Look out for things like "I'm a 3-hole girl" after 2 beers and a "confession" that she's into girls and loves 3-ways too, once she's comfortable in her relationship.  Gentlemen, this is the ol' bait-and-switch.  You make her follow thru now, or you run.  No other way about it.

too. much. truth.  :)
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: flinstones1 on April 23, 2014, 01:36:33 PM
Once again - truth. At your age (if you are at least somewhat in shape and have a JOB) - 23-24 would be the sweet spot. Females physically go downhill quite a lot faster compared to males, pregnancies, etc... so 8-10 years younger is a very good deal. A stable male with some experience/authority and a younger female with a fertility. They must not be rocket scientists, generally it's enough that there are good habits (of reading books/educating oneself) and a proper upbringing by their parents. Everything else a man can/must teach a female by himself.

this is so true. Don't get me wrong I've seen chicks get hot after high school, Very rarely do you see a chick who is as hot at 25 as she is at 20.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: A Righteous Sort on April 23, 2014, 02:35:20 PM
get her drunk.  fast.  
ger her horny fast too.

maybe put on magic mike, Redbox, while feeding her some vodka lemonades.
plan your exit strategy.

Solid post +1
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Army of One on April 25, 2014, 11:37:27 AM
Went on the date, was actually a good night, she is very highly educated.Her butthole will never be the same again  ;)
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: no one on April 25, 2014, 11:50:58 AM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?


hung out w a 24 year old a few weekends ago.

i couldnt put myself thru hanging out w her again. nice girl, but a very young 24. ive dated 24 who were pretty mature. this one was not.

i dont think age is a good barometer of maturity- take me for example :D

Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on April 25, 2014, 12:07:50 PM
I'm 40 and I'll date as young as possible(28 or younger) for however long I can get away with it.

Hi Jay Cutler.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: 240 is Back on April 25, 2014, 12:21:58 PM
too. much. truth.  :)


thank you sir.   with age comes wisdom, I hear.   
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: sync pulse on April 25, 2014, 12:57:22 PM
get her drunk.  fast.  
get her horny fast too.

maybe put on magic mike, Redbox, while feeding her some vodka lemonades.
plan your exit strategy.


As far as the depth, speed, quality, and long term horn, nothing beats women who ride.

The horniest women ride horses.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: flinstones1 on April 26, 2014, 03:51:12 PM

hung out w a 24 year old a few weekends ago.

i couldnt put myself thru hanging out w her again. nice girl, but a very young 24. ive dated 24 who were pretty mature. this one was not.

i dont think age is a good barometer of maturity- take me for example :D



lol
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: AlphaMaleDawg on April 26, 2014, 06:46:11 PM
get her drunk.  fast.  
ger her horny fast too.

maybe put on magic mike, Redbox, while feeding her some vodka lemonades.
plan your exit strategy.

this
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: hipolito mejia on April 26, 2014, 07:11:45 PM
You'll usually find out very soon why this is the case. Never fails for me

30 never been married ? Now I'm intrigued ......
 Bipolar ?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: dyslexic on April 26, 2014, 07:20:23 PM
Yes! The sex might be fun but the rest will be torture. Girls that age are complete idiots.

Pretty much, but not always...
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: GymnJuice on April 26, 2014, 08:12:37 PM
Men are generally mature enough to know what they want, though. Which for most is a warm body that has a hole of variable moisture between its legs. The rest follows from there.

95% of women under 30 don't know what they want. It's what makes them so easy to manipulate and so open to suggestion with the right male partner. Those who don't appreciate this won't know how to control them. And control is what they want, whether they spell it out or not.

95% of women over 30 don't know what they want either
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: A Righteous Sort on April 27, 2014, 05:20:11 PM
Men are generally mature enough to know what they want, though. Which for most is a warm body that has a hole of variable moisture between its legs. The rest follows from there.

95% of women under 30 don't know what they want. It's what makes them so easy to manipulate and so open to suggestion with the right male partner. Those who don't appreciate this won't know how to control them. And control is what they want, whether they spell it out or not.

Translation:

I just fuck wrinkly old bags
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Palpatine Q on April 27, 2014, 05:25:22 PM
When I see a beautiful woman over the age of 30 who has no kids and was never married and has plenty of relationships I always ask myself why is it that no man wanted to marry her something is wrong with this picture.,

Maybe she didn't want To get married.  That thought ever cross your mind ?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Icelord on April 27, 2014, 05:28:01 PM
Translation:

I just fuck wrinkly old bags
Strong pedophile vibes from you in this reply, man.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: youandme on April 27, 2014, 08:39:21 PM
Maybe she didn't want To get married.  That thought ever cross your mind ?
Highly unlikely. What is more likely is they have issues. Over age of 30 red flag unless has been getting a doctoral degree or is successful in her job and has been focused on that.
I've dated plenty of crazies and the verified crazy ones are now 30 or over and unmarried with numerous failed relationships behind them that was always 'his fault'
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: A Righteous Sort on April 27, 2014, 08:46:07 PM
Strong pedophile vibes from you in this reply, man.

How so?

You have to fuck old ladies, because you can't get young hot women.

What's that got to do with pedophilia?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: youandme on April 27, 2014, 08:54:44 PM
95% of women over 30 don't know what they want either
Haha true. "you're what I want" then next guy comes along, "you're what I want."
Women for the majority live in the present of emotions as they try and mold the present to their daydreams of a knight in shining armor.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: A Righteous Sort on April 27, 2014, 08:58:16 PM
Highly unlikely. What is more likely is they have issues. Over age of 30 red flag unless has been getting a doctoral degree or is successful in her job and has been focused on that.
I've dated plenty of crazies and the verified crazy ones are now 30 or over and unmarried with numerous failed relationships behind them that was always 'his fault'

Yep
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Danimal77 on April 27, 2014, 09:38:37 PM
Am I going to be wanting to tear my ear drums out after 30 mins?Anyone dated significantly younger?

Well, you probably already went out on the date, but I can tell you first hand that for the most part, girls 25 and younger are very immature. She'll most likely be checking her facebook status every 30 minutes while on the date. If you're in your 30's (I'm sure you lied to her about your age to get the date), you'll notice immediately the generation gap and how you two will be on 2 completely separate pages. If all you want to do is fuck, have fun!
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 28, 2014, 12:29:06 AM
Well, you probably already went out on the date, but I can tell you first hand that for the most part, girls 25 and younger are very immature. She'll most likely be checking her facebook status every 30 minutes while on the date. If you're in your 30's (I'm sure you lied to her about your age to get the date), you'll notice immediately the generation gap and how you two will be on 2 completely separate pages. If all you want to do is fuck, have fun!

"Generation gap" is usualy for people who are not very "progressive" in their way of thinking, so to say...sorry.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Papper on April 28, 2014, 03:57:43 AM
"Generation gap" is usualy for people who are not very "progressive" in their way of thinking, so to say...sorry.


Are you suggesting that the gap is because one party has grown old and set in his geezer ways
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: _bruce_ on April 28, 2014, 04:43:05 AM
"Generation gap" is usualy for people who are not very "progressive" in their way of thinking, so to say...sorry.

Beware - it's Mr. Cyberdreams.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: da_vinci on April 28, 2014, 11:22:32 PM

Are you suggesting that the gap is because one party has grown old and set in his geezer ways

I simply made an observation... I meet quite some people who are 45+ and it really donesn't feels like they are "outside the shore" so to say and there are some 35+ who are already "old" in every sense and can't understand/relate to "these young people"... It's all in the head, obviously.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Dr.J on April 28, 2014, 11:34:00 PM
Huge, no lie

Pics or it never happened
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Danimal77 on May 07, 2014, 07:09:11 PM
Don't have too many expectations. I'm 33 and going out on a date with a 20 year old this Friday night. I've been out with a few that age and occasionally you'll find one that's relatively mature and can hold a decent conversation. For the most part tho they're annoying as fuck. I can't be bothered with women my age, they start to go down hill rapidly after about 27 and if you come across a decent looking, childless, single woman around 30 there's always a reason for it.

This
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Danimal77 on May 07, 2014, 07:14:06 PM
I could not stand to be around a young broad on a date. If she where mute maybe. Plus most young gals are not as good in bed as mature women. ;) tell the youngster to leave her phone at home, if she refuses then your wasting your time.

This is my biggest pet peeve. Young girls (early/mid 20's) almost ALWAYS have to check their phones. I don't tolerate that rude shit. I let her do it ONCE. If she does it a 2nd time, I tell her she's being rude and to put it away. If she gives me attitude. I'm GONE. You don't see this with girls in their late 20's and 30's, unless they are very immature.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Danimal77 on May 07, 2014, 07:16:23 PM
30 and single/no kids... unless she's VP at a bank or doing very well in medicine, there are MAJOR red flags on this one.

She will be the MASTER at highlighting her strengths and hiding the crazy by this point.  Look out for things like "I'm a 3-hole girl" after 2 beers and a "confession" that she's into girls and loves 3-ways too, once she's comfortable in her relationship.  Gentlemen, this is the ol' bait-and-switch.  You make her follow thru now, or you run.  No other way about it.

Nah, I met my ex when she was 27 and I was her first bf ever. She was raised in a strict Catholic house. Good girl to the bone, with NO experience. Her only downside was that she was so impressionable and easily influenced by her single gf's and he brother. After 2 years, this led to our downfall. Still think about her.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Danimal77 on May 07, 2014, 07:18:06 PM
To be fair, when you say "single", you mean "never married".

Because there's lots of technically single women in their early 30s who are recently divorced, without kids. Happens a lot. Him and her spend their 20s building legacies in the corporate world (for whatever that's worth), only to realize they've grown apart, had a tryst or two in the office, or one refuses to put their career on hold or change it so the other can (i.e. he gets re-located from SF to Cleveland, and she refuses to drop her six figure job just so he can become Sr VP of Supply Chain for P&G out in Cincinnatti.)

So she stays in SF, they divorce (possibly acrimoniously) and she's embittered and looking for something new. She spends too much time at work, just lost half her potential 401K (her husband and her split it 50/50), and needs to live a little.

She's not crazy. She just works too much. She is also not ready to repeat the mistakes she made with hubby #1. That can be good (i.e. more adventurous) or bad (i.e. more demanding). Tough to say.

But there are lots of near-wealthy recently divorced 30-something women out there without kids. But some of them want kids bad. Doesn't matter what your job is...the biological clock ignores no woman.


This, by the way, is not my personaly experience. I showed this thread to the wife last night Rob, and this is what she told me. Beats me if she's right. But she says she has lots of co-workers at the office who are like this. Probably hyperbole, but you never know.

Is this a script for a movie that you're writing?
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: A Righteous Sort on May 07, 2014, 07:19:08 PM
'Date' 20 year olds... ::)

Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: Danimal77 on May 07, 2014, 07:22:12 PM
Highly unlikely. What is more likely is they have issues. Over age of 30 red flag unless has been getting a doctoral degree or is successful in her job and has been focused on that.
I've dated plenty of crazies and the verified crazy ones are now 30 or over and unmarried with numerous failed relationships behind them that was always 'his fault'

Show me a woman who ever says (admits to others, let alone herself) that it was HER fault? It doesn't happen.
Title: Re: Going on a date with 20yr when mid thirties
Post by: AD2100 on May 18, 2014, 05:54:47 PM