Make your case for this incredibly harsh indictment and the various unfounded aspersions contained within. I see no basis for what you're claiming. What's wrong with someone her age dating someone 20 years younger? What makes you say there was control involved? I'm not buying it, dude.
I hit a nerve, huh?
You make the assumption that men and women are different. And use the 20 yrs, excuse when it is a young man of 17, who can't vote, and one yr prior can get his license. And a 37 yr old female teacher, an authority figure, who has a life time of experience..
If you have every followed any of these cases, many of the women had a predatory nature, or didn't have that imaginary line---between student and teacher, and also had this young mentality about them.
Also, many of the victims, were not popular kids, isolated...because popular males have access to high school women. The male victims that many of the women picked, were picked for a reason.
So, you have to ask yourself, why would a 37 yr old female teacher risk getting caught, or her profession to be with someone who is under age, and knows jack squat about the world, and there is no future for the relationship. Is she desperate
And you have to ask, why would a 17 yr old try and get with a 37 yr, are there not any available females in his high school? Is the is person a dork? Is this person wanting a mother figure? Or does this person think it was cool?
Was she pretty? Was she single? Did she have kids?