Author Topic: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner  (Read 83011 times)

phreak

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 5084
  • Food is amazing
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #50 on: October 23, 2017, 08:49:49 AM »
I never actively cheat on my wife. I just stand passively while my gf sucks me off.

Man of Steel

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 19388
  • Isaiah40:28-31 ✝ Romans10:9 ✝ 1Peter3:15
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #51 on: October 23, 2017, 08:50:22 AM »
And of course the first scriptural verse that comes to mind is Proverbs 18:22

The Bible is just an amazing masterpiece of work. How we can spend years discussing and deconstructing individual verses and yet The Lord blesses us with these little gems of wisdom that even a child can understand.

And not only are you blessed with her but you also receive favor from The Lord in addition.

Such a powerful and basic message.

Exactly and the passage in Proverbs 31 about the virtuous wife/woman is also very telling.

Even Paul wrote that he wishes we could all be single in order to worship and submit to God more fully, but it's better that we marry so that we don't burn with lust and that each spouse fulfill the needs of the other.

For me, it's like, the blueprint for success in relationships is in biblical scripture....it's all there! ;D   Do this and be happy.  Do this and be sad.  Instead it's "nah, doin it MY way".

Ahight.

Skorp1o

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 6423
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #52 on: October 23, 2017, 09:00:28 AM »
Define "cheating"

Telling your wife you're coming home late due to work constraints as you smash a T-girl.
S

gym**rat

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4257
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #53 on: October 23, 2017, 09:04:34 AM »
Gf asked me to pee on her awhile ago and I still haven't.  I bet there's like 5 guys over there right now pissing all over her.  :(

It is amazing the amount of women into it. Best method is to squeeze and pinch off so it does not come out and build some good pressure. Then have her expose her clit. Then release and pinch, release and pinch over and over directly hitting her clit. It will drive her crazy.




At least that is what I read in a book one time.  :-[

Rimstinger

  • Guest
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #54 on: October 23, 2017, 09:16:14 AM »
It is amazing the amount of women into it. Best method is to squeeze and pinch off so it does not come out and build some good pressure. Then have her expose her clit. Then release and pinch, release and pinch over and over directly hitting her clit. It will drive her crazy.




At least that is what I read in a book one time.  :-[

Why not punch her in the face instead, for being a disgusting whore.




Simple Simon

  • Guest
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #55 on: October 23, 2017, 09:18:08 AM »
paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.

Im sure your wife agrees.... ::)

gym**rat

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4257
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #56 on: October 23, 2017, 09:22:16 AM »
Why not punch her in the face instead, for being a disgusting whore.





What if another guy pissed on her face 5 minutes prior. You will have anothers mans piss on your hand while you eat your post-face punch sandwhich. THAT is disgusting!

Tapeworm

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 29030
  • Hold Fast
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #57 on: October 23, 2017, 09:29:06 AM »
It is amazing the amount of women into it. Best method is to squeeze and pinch off so it does not come out and build some good pressure. Then have her expose her clit. Then release and pinch, release and pinch over and over directly hitting her clit. It will drive her crazy.




At least that is what I read in a book one time.  :-[

In our upcoming conversation, in which I keep a straight face while congratulating her for her courage in being so honest, I'm going to describe reading your post as 'research which I did online.'

SF1900

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 48766
  • Team Hairy Chest Henda
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #58 on: October 23, 2017, 09:40:03 AM »
i just couldn't imagine to see the hurt in her eyes

This.

I always think to myself, "Would I like this done to me?" Then, its easy to make a decision.
X

polychronopolous

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 19041
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #59 on: October 23, 2017, 09:42:06 AM »
Exactly and the passage in Proverbs 31 about the virtuous wife/woman is also very telling.

Even Paul wrote that he wishes we could all be single in order to worship and submit to God more fully, but it's better that we marry so that we don't burn with lust and that each spouse fulfill the needs of the other.

For me, it's like, the blueprint for success in relationships is in biblical scripture....it's all there! ;D   Do this and be happy.  Do this and be sad.  Instead it's "nah, doin it MY way".


Ahight.

This concept is nothing new. In terms of Biblical scripture, Moses laid this out circa 14th century BC.

From the very beginning to Deuteronomy ‘It is only eleven days journey from Horeb by the way of Mount Seir to Kadesh-barnea’ (on Canaan’s border)
(Deuteronomy 1:2).

One of the more ironic verses in all of scripture.  :)

In Chapters 3 and 4 of Deuteronomy, Moses urges The Israelites to break away from their stubbornness and obey The Laws of God.

And then this entire concept and teaching is reinforced in the The Acts of The Apostles with Saul of Tarsus and the life he led prior to his conversion.

The beautiful thing is that we are taught Redemption in both cases written about 1500 years apart.

gym**rat

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 4257
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #60 on: October 23, 2017, 09:54:05 AM »
In our upcoming conversation, in which I keep a straight face while congratulating her for her courage in being so honest, I'm going to describe reading your post as 'research which I did online.'

I will PayPal you $50 if she doesn't immediately grab your wrist and pull you into the shower.

ilalin

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 1095
  • Боже правде
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #61 on: October 23, 2017, 11:12:12 AM »
The thing is, I see people here criticizing addicted bodybuilders, even making fun of them. then they say how they would never cheat on their wife because love and empathy is there. when you have empathy then you have it no matter what.

a bunch of two-faced lying kunts worried about their marriage contract and $$$ to the point where their masculinity is maximally suppressed. no wonder you have people blowing their steam off by blowing dudes in prisons and killing innnocent people on the street. america, wake the fuck up.

deadz

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 10928
  • Liberals..Dumbest People on the Planet! MAGA
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #62 on: October 23, 2017, 11:35:37 AM »
Cheating..not worth the consequences. Plenty of good porn available to fulfill fantasies.
T

Beefjake

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 1102
  • Oh fuck it.
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #63 on: October 23, 2017, 11:41:30 AM »
I have things that I do with the woman who lives with me and my kids. Happens to be their mother.
I have other hobbies that she is not in to. Those I enjoy with my own time and pleasure.
Like lifting( hanging out at the gym ), movies and sex.

If she wants to join me for a workout, or a movie, fine. Same with sex. But I am perfectly able to do those with out her.
I don't go out trying to find fuckbuddies, but I have rarely turned down an opportunity.
God, I'm so easy. Slut even 😆

ilalin

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 1095
  • Боже правде
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #64 on: October 23, 2017, 11:43:42 AM »
Cheating..not worth the consequences. Plenty of good porn available to fulfill fantasies.

true

ilalin

  • Getbig IV
  • ****
  • Posts: 1095
  • Боже правде
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #65 on: October 23, 2017, 11:44:41 AM »
I have things that I do with the woman who lives with me and my kids. Happens to be their mother.
I have other hobbies that she is not in to. Those I enjoy with my own time and pleasure.
Like lifting( hanging out at the gym ), movies and sex.

If she wants to join me for a workout, or a movie, fine. Same with sex. But I am perfectly able to do those with out her.
I don't go out trying to find fuckbuddies, but I have rarely turned down an opportunity.
God, I'm so easy. Slut even 😆

ahh, refreshing, an honest man...

HTexan

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 20031
  • Heath must lose!!
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #66 on: October 23, 2017, 11:53:00 AM »
I've never cheated.

How did you cheat?
Not married yet. But very soon I think.
I never cheated either. Lying is too much work.
Now I have been cheated on once, she sleep with an ex boyfriend, or so she told me.  Left her so I never really found out.
And have been accused of cheating twice by psycho and psycho-er. One thought i was cheating becuase I had to travel for work, and the other thought I cheated because I when to visit my mom. This dizzy bitch would stalk me, and ring my door bell and run away in the middle of the night for weeks after we broke up. She sent me random images of her looking sad for 2 years after, and threatened to go to my job and make a scene and get me fired.
A

SF1900

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 48766
  • Team Hairy Chest Henda
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #67 on: October 23, 2017, 11:57:41 AM »
Not married yet. But very soon I think.
I never cheated either. Lying is too much work.
Now I have been cheated on once, she sleep with an ex boyfriend, or so she told me.  Left her so I never really found out.
And have been accused of cheating twice by psycho and psycho-er. One thought i was cheating becuase I had to travel for work, and the other thought I cheated because I when to visit my mom. This dizzy bitch would stalk me, and ring my door bell and run away in the middle of the night for weeks after we broke up. She sent me random images of her looking sad for 2 years after, and threatened to go to my job and make a scene and get me fired.

So, you obviously know what it feels like to be cheated on, hence not wanting to do it to someone else.

Yes, the other ex's sound very difficult to deal with it. I'd imagine that is not something that would make a strong relationship. People enter into relationship with all of their insecurities, which are often based on childhood experiences--its two unconscious's "bumping up against" each other. It often makes for a messy situation.
X

thatrandomguy#7

  • Getbig II
  • **
  • Posts: 64
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #68 on: October 23, 2017, 02:05:50 PM »
all these people who know their spouse isn't cheating on them (or better yet, never has and never will)....

I can only say for sure of people I know that have cheated - they told me, were otherwise busted, I otherwise had knowledge (like I fucked a married woman knowledge)

so you can only know with absolute certainty if there is proof of cheating. lack of proof does not = innocent  here at all.


 

 

thatrandomguy#7

  • Getbig II
  • **
  • Posts: 64
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #69 on: October 23, 2017, 02:08:45 PM »
Define "cheating"

right?
bj ok?
happy ending at a massage place?
a wife opening her soul to some guy with intimate details of her dreams, what she finds lacking in her spouse, etc (with chicks it's always emotional, right?)

thatrandomguy#7

  • Getbig II
  • **
  • Posts: 64
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #70 on: October 23, 2017, 02:09:27 PM »
why do people cheat?

'cause they think they can get away with it.

Henda

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 12212
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #71 on: October 23, 2017, 02:12:28 PM »
This.

I always think to myself, "Would I like this done to me?" Then, its easy to make a decision.

This

I try and apply this thought process to all areas of life

SF1900

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 48766
  • Team Hairy Chest Henda
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #72 on: October 23, 2017, 02:21:14 PM »
This

I try and apply this thought process to all areas of life

Exactly.

Man, I could never cheat on my significant other.

I don't get how people do it and are okay with it.
X

Simple Simon

  • Guest
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #73 on: October 23, 2017, 02:22:10 PM »
I cant even watch TV shows when the cheating partner gets outed, its so fucking uncomfortable....

Henda

  • Getbig V
  • *****
  • Posts: 12212
Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
« Reply #74 on: October 23, 2017, 02:25:54 PM »
Exactly.

Man, I could never cheat on my significant other.

I don't get how people do it and are okay with it.

Exactly

Especially don’t understand people who are ok doing it when they have kids, if it all comes out and relationship ends how in the fuck can anyone live knowing they destroyed their kids chance at having a happy family? I’d hate living with that guilt