I think the attraction to getbig for many people is that it is under moderated, in other words it isn't as censored as other forums on the Internet. In my mind, that is a beautiful thing. I do agree personal information is off limits but when it comes to personal attacks. I think one should defend themselves rather than run to a moderator. If an accusation is unfounded than you just simply ask the accuser to offer up some proof otherwise STFU.