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Oh brother, I see this everyday, a good looking girl dates some douchebag, gets knocked up and then dates a "good guy" who even takes care of the kid at times.
But I gotta be honest, I dated one 2 years ago lol, for seven months, but I will pass if another single mom wants something serious. Of course, I would still go out with and bang a single mom, but that's it.
I'm not putting down guys who do it, I know when you're 30+ years old that's pretty much the norm. Also, some single moms are definitely worthy of course, but I feel a lot of them are not. A good man should not pay for their irresponsability, because dating guys who happen to look good but drink twice a week, have no education, cheat on them and still got them pregant is that, irresponsability.
Discuss
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Whores, the lot of them.
If you live in any major city there are plenty of 30+ good-looking skanks without kids.
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A woman writes about her perspective about something you mentioned
http://www.huffpost.com/us/entry/6575594 (http://www.huffpost.com/us/entry/6575594)
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Not sure I wanna get involved with one again unless the kid is over 16 so she can be away if needed. Kids drain them out and what sucks is by the time you get to spend time with them, they're very tired. I guess this is just part of being a parent and something I sure as hell don't want or am I envious of those with kids as most of them seem absolutely miserable.
The gift of life huh? Yikes... Some fucked up kids are coming out of the problematic single parent homes and it's only gonna get worse and not sure I wanna be around when they take over society.
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A woman writes about her perspective about something you mentioned
http://www.huffpost.com/us/entry/6575594 (http://www.huffpost.com/us/entry/6575594)
just see a British bulldog, lol!
Love those dogs, would make a better companion than most women with kids.
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Whores, the lot of them.
If you live in any major city there are plenty of 30+ good-looking skanks without kids.
;D
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Not my kid, not my problem. I'd have sex with her maybe even a casual relationship but I wouldn't assume a parental role with her child ever.
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anyone who dates single moms is probably a piece of shit
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Don't have kids and have zero interest in raising someone else's fuck trophies.
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All whores and martyrs.
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I'd need to know if they do anal or not before I can answer this
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Funny you mention single moms I was just telling my buddy my thoughts on them the other day.
I don't see why they are a charity. You know how people are like oh she's a single mom I'll help her pay her light bill or help fix her car or whatever. Like its some sort of victim. She decided to spread her legs and have premarital unprotected sex. She decided to not have a legal abortion. She most likely didn't petition hard enough to get the guy who knocked her up to marry her. I just don't understand why people act like they are victims, and that they didn't bring it all upon themselves. There is consequences for irresponsible behavior. I lack sympathy for single moms in general, feel bad for the kids and society though.
As far as dating I have zero interest in dating a woman with kids. Just to casually bang with no expectation of relationship is ok but not preferred.
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What's your take on single dads?? What's your take on widowed single mothers/ fathers??
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single mums are people too, some are good natured others not, dont see the problem.
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I support their single lifestyle by avoiding them
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I would not have a relationship with a single mother. Seems like most getbiggers think the same.
single moms should seek single dads. I would not touch a single mother with a 10 ft pole.
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why wouldn't you?
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why wouldn't you?
Too much baggage brother. I would like the mother of my kids to only be the mother of my kids.
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fair enough, what about for hot sex just?
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Too much baggage brother. I would like the mother of my kids to only be the mother of my kids.
What if she left you? Would you be happy to have your children live with you full time?
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single mums are people too, some are good natured others not, dont see the problem.
Agree.
Just because you screwed up your life doesn't make you a bad person. Most were very young and dumb when they let the loser knock them up. And if you grow up in a small town, the bad boys are gonna find you. A poor cvnt doesn't have a chance.
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fair enough, what about for hot sex just?
We all know the answer to that my man. I know it sounds cruel but single mothers are a turn off.
The ones i know are delusional, thinking they will nab a bradley cooper etc they will just be on dating sites for the rest of their miserable lives. :-\
single dads have it easier, its cute when they are with the kids.
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No.
Too much hassle, even tho' I'm good with kids. Fuck - yes, relathionship... geez, too many beautiful kidless females out there. One must be desperate for pussy to involve with single moms. OR - she should be smoking hot, very very beautiful, just one in a thousand kind of hot, than... maybe, but probably not still as there are as hot ones without kids.
Males have a lucky ticked here as usualy huh. Single dad is no prob for most, as kid is staying with mom, so it's more like - weekend dad.
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One of the problems is that you can't really discipline the kid who will inevitably retort:
"You're not my real father."
To which, you reply,
"Yeah, your real father wanted nothing to do with you."
Then, the kid runs off and cries.
For the most part, as said, it's not worth the headaches.
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I dated one pretty casually a few years ago. I had no issues but I also never had to deal with her ex or her son. She lived in Baltimore and I was traveling a lot so we'd see each other whenever our paths crossed. If I was single I'd do it again but I'd have a limit of 1 kid.
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What if you were a male Getbigger with kids from a previous marriage? Does that change the computations on single moms being that you are a single dad?
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Fucked single moms all my life had a blast
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anyone who dates single moms is probably a piece of shit
How so exactly? ???
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Depends... are her kids over 18?... no problem. Are her kids still dependents?... forget it.
Bang 'em all day and night, but just don't marry them or let them move in with you.
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single mums are people too, some are good natured others not, dont see the problem.
This
...as we get older those are who you meet. when you get into your late 30's and 40's if the woman doesn't have kids or isn't divorced then you wonder whats wrong with them.
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This
...as we get older those are who you meet. when you get into your late 30's and 40's if the woman doesn't have kids or isn't divorced then you wonder whats wrong with them.
This has been my experience as well (I'm 34). Most of the 30-34 year-olds I've dated who are (i) good looking and (ii) have no kids, are fucked up in some way.
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Whores, the lot of them.
If you live in any major city there are plenty of 30+ good-looking skanks without kids.
Right, because its all the woman's fault. ::) Clearly you have tunnel vision.
Ever stop to think that maybe these "whores" were married at some point and had relatively normal lives until its the guy that decides he wants to relive his teen years again and fucks around and leaves the woman with nothing but the kids and bills? How is that any of her fault?
Lots of good women out there with kids through no fault of their own. No need to demean them with tags like "whore" and "skank".
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Right, because its all the woman's fault. ::) Clearly you have tunnel vision.
Ever stop to think that maybe these "whores" were married at some point and had relatively normal lives until its the guy that decides he wants to relive his teen years again and fucks around and leaves the woman with nothing but the kids and bills? How is that any of her fault?
Lots of good women out there with kids through no fault of their own. No need to demean them with tags like "whore" and "skank".
True, but they are RARE. Most women with young kids are looking for a meal ticket.
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This has been my experience as well (I'm 34). Most of the 30-34 year-olds I've dated who are (i) good looking and (ii) have no kids, are fucked up in some way.
No need to date females above 25 if one is under 40 and good looking.
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This has been my experience as well (I'm 34). Most of the 30-34 year-olds I've dated who are (i) good looking and (ii) have no kids, are fucked up in some way.
Shocking, considering the ones you date are "whores" and "skanks". ::) Wouldn't be surprised that you end up 44 and alone.
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Right, because its all the woman's fault. ::) Clearly you have tunnel vision.
Ever stop to think that maybe these "whores" were married at some point and had relatively normal lives until its the guy that decides he wants to relive his teen years again and fucks around and leaves the woman with nothing but the kids and bills? How is that any of her fault?
Lots of good women out there with kids through no fault of their own. No need to demean them with tags like "whore" and "skank".
You sound upset.
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You sound upset.
You sound like an ignoramous in this case.
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Milk their teeters whilst they are ripe........ain't nobody got time for no baby sucked teeters.....
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You sound like an ignoramous in this case.
You sound like a "man" with a complete lack of sense of humor.
Likely because your mother was single mother / whore.
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I have 2 adopted female Shetland sheepdogs, and they are great .
After my last divorce in 2006, I had some chances to date "single moms" via contact on match.com.
Once I learned they had young children at home, I ended all communication.
I never had my own kids and I sure don't want to raise some other guys kids.
I did have a nice , long conversation with a pretty MILF from N Ga,with a 10 yr old son.
She was sexy and quite sweet, BUT, I couldn't accept her AND the kid.
I was honest and told her my feelings in a gentle, tactful manner.
My current wife is a bank exec and very career minded. Like me she never had kids.
Life is good.
Gonna finally get a pug this summer. Wanted one my whole life and go nuts when I see them in public, lol...
Well damn, gonna take your advice Howie, if a guy who has been divorced as many times as you have says to stay away, perhaps I should just listen to someone with more life experience.
But here's the thing... If the women in my age group don't have a kid, they see me as a potential "breeder" I mean which is worse? I'd rather be with a woman who has say a 16 year old who is soon to be on his/her own than deal with a screaming ass toddler. Those "things" suck the life out of you.
Then the "hyper" phase to mid teen's, always running around, being loud and super annoying, oh hell no...
I mean no many good picks out there who have no kids, who don't want any and are available.
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If you're a man, the situation depends on how old you are and what age demographic you choose to date. I'm 41 but have had no problem meeting and dating women under the age of 30 with no kids.
I've also dated over the age of 30 with kid(s). Both experiences were as I predicted from the beginning.....The women with kid(s) wanted to just have a good time and fuck. They had their kid(s) when they were young and missed out on a lot. When the kids got old enough, sex was now all about having fun, not pro-creation.
The women between 25-30 with no kids still wanted to have fun but also wanted a long term commitment eventually. I pride myself on being a good judge of character when it comes to women. I'm pretty good at avoiding the head cases. That means being a lot more selective and patient but it's worth it.
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One of the problems is that you can't really discipline the kid who will inevitably retort:
"You're not my real father."
To which, you reply,
"Yeah, your real father wanted nothing to do with you."
Then, the kid runs off and cries.
For the most part, as said, it's not worth the headaches.
I think if you go in knowing that will happen and just keep your cool, it would make things so much easier. It's just the natural thing for them to say.
Still, better to not have to deal with....
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ALL women are insane. Kids, no kids, divorced etc...
Estrogen is a hell of a hormone.
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What's your take on single dads?? What's your take on widowed single mothers/ fathers??
For me I feel the same way about single dads as I do single mothers. Because they are men they are less often made into charity cases but still I see them the same for the most part.
Widowed people are different, I do feel bad for them and think they are deserving of sympathy and help. I personally still wouldn't date a woman with kids but I certainly don't put widows in the same category as single mothers.
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Gonna appreciate my freedom even more after reading that Howie, the lifestyle sounds like pure hell.
One girl knew how to get me to wear a rubber, she'd wisper "dad" in my ear, lol!
Still took my chances, fuckin' pussy feels so good, it's hard not to...
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I've dated some single moms, one of them actually used her kid to break the ice with me lol..I used to train at Lifetime Fitness..the gym has a huge outdoor pool, back then I was bar tending in night clubs so I would wake up at noon, get to the gym around 1, at that time its mostly just soccer moms, college kids, and random people..post workout I would hit the outdoor pool, swim/get some sun..so im in the pool and this little kid comes directly to me and starts splashing me..I was just laughing. .the iid was funny, anyway he asks "are u married" I was like what?? Who told you to ask me that?? This hot Milf comes running over and asks "omg..im sorry..is he bothering you?? What did he ask you??" I said he asked if I was married. .she's like "im so embarrassed" I said why?? This kid is awesome. .reminds me of myself as a kid..we got to talking and we hit if off..she was hott..and fun, her kid wasn't an issue because she would always just come to my place..I wanted to avoid any awkward interactions with the little guy ;D
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There's a reason they're single. :-X
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Good story . BUT would you marry her and be daddy in the future? Just curious.
Not sure..she was an absolute catch, she ran triathlons..she was in incredible shape, thick quads and ass, she looked like the girl Timea Majrova..smart/funny/very sexual..her dad was a preacher...lol. I went running with her once..and it was shameful. .her jog was my sprint lol..good times
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I'm gonna share something on this issue that is 100% true.
I always pulled out a few sec before I shot my load.
I never depended on the condom or her using birth control.
It's total bullshit about "withdrawal" being infective.
For me it was 100% effective and I've had my sperm checked and they were normal.
I think the truth really is that a lot of men lack much dick control and can't hold back.
I no longer do that as my wife is past menopause, so wtf.
pulling out is cool as I always try to make sure I jizz on her face a bit, lol! But I just hope I my sperm cells are dead after being on for years straight. Still, we all know that guys who have gotten their gf prego this way!
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Pull out and be safe, the ol' jizz on the face is a nice move.
I just love it when the come up all close and say "look, you sure had a lot, it's all on my face!"
Faaaack......
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I know a single mother who is downright gorgeous. She is a few years younger than me, and I was friends with her older brother.
Looks like a prettier version of Marisa Tomei. I always told her brother, you better watch out for your sister. You could tell she was going to be a pretty girl from the time she was a kid.
She has a great family, and she was always a sweet kid: good grades, high level athlete, never got into any trouble, always helping her Mom cook, etc.
Great athlete, had been dating same guy since high school. They even go to college together.
They get married right out of college (I told her brother that she should wait, because she had NEVER been with anyone else).
Has two kids pretty much back to back. Her husband totally flakes out and leaves her.
She has been single for at least 5 years now, totally dedicating herself to her job and children.
She can barely get a date, because every douche thinks she is just out there looking for sex.
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I support their single lifestyle by avoiding them
lolz
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We all know the answer to that my man. I know it sounds cruel but single mothers are a turn off.
The ones i know are delusional, thinking they will nab a bradley cooper etc they will just be on dating sites for the rest of their miserable lives. :-\
single dads have it easier, its cute when they are with the kids.
This sums up most chicks...waiting for that brad pitt guy that never happens. Oh and these chicks are like 160 and up.
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As you get older, most woman will have kids. If youre not married by the time youre 35, the chances of you meeting someone with a kid is pretty much a given. Women 35+ tend to have kids.
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This sums up most chicks...waiting for that brad pitt guy that never happens. Oh and these chicks are like 160 and up.
x2
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That's true.
I had a 13 yr relationship ( 8 yr marriage) with my last ex-wife.
After the divorce I started dating again and noticed most woman in my age range had kids.
Since I was in my late 40's then, many of them had "adult kids", so it wasn't an issue for me.
Being close to 50 is tougher on women trying to date after a divorce.
I'm no Brad Pitt or wealthy man, but I had a large pool of potential dates.
In all modesty, I had woman from 25 -60 willing to date me. It was fun.
Im early thirties and im no looker, by that i mean, girls dont approach me like goforit or that other poster who fucked actors in the hamptons. Howveer, as i get older i see an increasing gap between in shape men of my age and out of shape people. So if your single still and keeping in shape, your time will come...just wait till all the other guys let themselves go (age 30-34 or so) and then go for the hot single milfs with implants who want in shape men
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I think the truth really is that a lot of men lack much dick control and can't hold back.
Tremendous amount of wisdom in this statement.
Chasing short term pleasure without consideration of the long term ramifications has done many a man in.
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I see it all the time .
Divorced friends of my wife and I that had kids in a previous marriage. Here's what I've seen:
Lots of bitter feelings, men bitching about child support, stressful car pooling, being required to keep regular contact with an ex you wanted to divorce, etc, ad naseum, the list goes on and on.
Getting divorced wasn't that bad for me and my current wife . Why? No kids!
Look, I know I can be a broken record on this, but it needs to be said.
The default position is that having kids is inevitable if you get married.
My view is, it's NOT!
Once again, if you have a deep yearning /calling to be a parent, THEN, you NEED to have kids.
BUT many men don't have that yearning and hate the daddy lifestyle. Especially divorced dads .
I simply want to remind all getbiggers , when it comes to kids, you have a CHOICE.
Don't worry about being a "broken record", you are telling some very insightful stuff that ONLY comes after being some time on this earth.
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I'm never getting married or having kids, intentionally. However, i find single moms to be a great balance of experience and low drama. At least most of the ones I've been with that are late 20's and early/mid 30's. They know they have baggage and approach relationships different, they are more distant unless they are desperate, which is perfect because i find them rarely clingy. The kid(s) is/are their priority and this can work for you or against you depending on what you want. If you want a halfway distant relationship where you see each other less often, i think they are great. If you want a girl who is dedicated to you 100% of the time, that's not going to happen unless they want you as their new husband and caretaker of the kids.
From my perspective, which is purely sexual, i find single moms to be a much better choice for a "companion". Just don't get all up close to her kid(s) because that can make things tough on them. Keep your distance and prefer to go out with her alone. Let them know you aren't trying to play daddy.
For those interested in a real relationship. Be prepared for a ton of bullshit that has nothing to do with you. If you don't mind it and think she's worth it, by all means put a ring on that shit.
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i wouldn't want kids of my own, let alone some other guys kids
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Don't worry about being a "broken record", you are telling some very insightful stuff that ONLY comes after being some time on this earth.
eh, it's through a very limited lens.
Agree on the "it's a choice part" and divorce being easier part, especially if you're going to have 3 or 4 divorces.
But, there's too many definitive statements being made about raising children by those who haven't, based on a few anecdotes they've heard. It really is one of those "you don't know until you do it" sort of things. Especially for all the positive stuff (which IMO destroys the inconveniences that can arise).
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pulling out is cool as I always try to make sure I jizz on her face a bit, lol! But I just hope I my sperm cells are dead after being on for years straight. Still, we all know that guys who have gotten their gf prego this way!
You should be fine just never add HCG in if you don't want any surprises
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I'm going on a date with a 37 year old girl in a few days time - same age as me, never been married, never had kids, looks pretty hot from her photos (all recent) - I'm wondering what the catch is :-\
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Cum on therd faces
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Love pugs and my wife has a female friend with a fat older male pug with a bulging bad eye.
I always play with him and think he's cool .
No question about it, that you limit the field with the "no kids at home" criteria.
At my age , lost of woman had older kids, over 18 and I was fine with that.
Don't get me wrong, if anyone feels called and years to be a parent, by all means, have kids.
The world needs both types in my opinion.
My current wife's profile said she didn't want kids and considered them to be work, $$ and stress.
I knew we were a perfect match and my dream girl had finally arrived. ;)
Life is awesome and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life ( see pic).
ritch, all I can say is DON'T compromise on your core lifestyle values.
The right woman will come along and you'll be grateful you didn't stray from your own values.
good post, Howard. People just need to keep dating until they find the right match.
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I'm going on a date with a 37 year old girl in a few days time - same age as me, never been married, never had kids, looks pretty hot from her photos (all recent) - I'm wondering what the catch is :-\
Pyscho alert
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I'm going on a date with a 37 year old girl in a few days time - same age as me, never been married, never had kids, looks pretty hot from her photos (all recent) - I'm wondering what the catch is :-\
The catch is her cock sport.
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The catch is her cock sport.
;D
Will report back with cock pics then to satisfy all the Getbiggers.
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I'm going on a date with a 37 year old girl in a few days time - same age as me, never been married, never had kids, looks pretty hot from her photos (all recent) - I'm wondering what the catch is :-\
Most likely severely selfish, insecure, baggage and possibly daddy issues with or without mental/physical abuse. If she mentions he ex or ex's even once on the first date or two, bail fast. She most likely has been treated like shit and her family relationship is crap i bet. Or she's so stuck up that you will never live up to her or her families standards. Pick one, i bet i'm right.
At least that's my experience with mid-30's chicks who have never been married or had kids. I could be wrong, she might be perfect and made just for you.
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As you get older, most woman will have kids. If youre not married by the time youre 35, the chances of you meeting someone with a kid is pretty much a given. Women 35+ tend to have kids.
Just date females under 30..
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They tend to give the best blowjobs.
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Good for a pump and dump nothing more. Unless you have a kid of your own I wouldn't bother getting involved with one mainly because the few Single moms who are hot AND not dumb as fuck are usually bad news. They are master manipulators and you won't be able to emotionally detach as easily as you would from a normal chick your fucking . ...they know no normal self respecting dude in his twenties who has no kids of his own, would want a relationship with them so they become expert at reading men and finding what makes you tick sexually....they will pick up on your emotional voids, then transform into your dream girl to fulfill those voids ,...You really think your going to be able to just walk away from a chick who's the best you ever had in bed, and makes you feel on cloud 9? no way.....I speak from experience. I'm currently seeing a blonde chick ... 9/10 with money, no kids, and her own place. My side chick is a 7.5 college educated, and money. and Im spinning plates with several other 8's. all these women shit on my ex in every way. But nothing tops the initial "high" that I felt with this one single mom I dated. . she was a 7 at best.
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The easiest to fuck
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I'm going on a date with a 37 year old girl in a few days time - same age as me, never been married, never had kids, looks pretty hot from her photos (all recent) - I'm wondering what the catch is :-\
(http://www.quickmeme.com/img/5a/5a6745d2c26595f82f02b884703bcf0732f5de58c12c929079f5e94ddb1a6b06.jpg)
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Depends on how old her daughter is.
(couldn't make the youtube function work, sorry)
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Depends on how old her daughter is.
(couldn't make the youtube function work, sorry)
Remove the "s" from https.
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Remove the "s" from https.
got it...thank you sir
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I'm going on a date with a 37 year old girl in a few days time - same age as me, never been married, never had kids, looks pretty hot from her photos (all recent) - I'm wondering what the catch is :-\
how do you know the photos are recent?
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Hell no. I can't even manage to put up with one person's stupid crap.
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Good for a pump and dump nothing more. Unless you have a kid of your own I wouldn't bother getting involved with one mainly because the few Single moms who are hot AND not dumb as fuck are usually bad news. They are master manipulators and you won't be able to emotionally detach as easily as you would from a normal chick your fucking . ...they know no normal self respecting dude in his twenties who has no kids of his own, would want a relationship with them so they become expert at reading men and finding what makes you tick sexually....they will pick up on your emotional voids, then transform into your dream girl to fulfill those voids ,...You really think your going to be able to just walk away from a chick who's the best you ever had in bed, and makes you feel on cloud 9? no way.....I speak from experience. I'm currently seeing a blonde chick ... 9/10 with money, no kids, and her own place. My side chick is a 7.5 college educated, and money. and Im spinning plates with several other 8's. all these women shit on my ex in every way. But nothing tops the initial "high" that I felt with this one single mom I dated. . she was a 7 at best.
it's risky. if you have the same goals, and you have kids, it can be wonderful.
if you are just there to get laid, it can't last... she wants stability and a dad, no matter what she says.
"I just want to have fun" = totally not true if she's a parent. It can't be, unless she's the worst mom ever lol.
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Single moms are the lowest form of human life.
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Single moms are the lowest form of human life.
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Lol!
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Right, because its all the woman's fault. ::) Clearly you have tunnel vision.
Ever stop to think that maybe these "whores" were married at some point and had relatively normal lives until its the guy that decides he wants to relive his teen years again and fucks around and leaves the woman with nothing but the kids and bills? How is that any of her fault?
Lots of good women out there with kids through no fault of their own. No need to demean them with tags like "whore" and "skank".
Oh brother. Listen to the White knight defending the actions of his whorish mother ::)
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Good thoughts.
My main point is that having children should always be a thoughtful CHOICE .
In my opinion, way too many act like it's the automatic default position.
Just like a life long marriage Howard? ;)
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The problem is life is unpredictable and so are others actions/responses. The best laid plans of mice and men; plan for the best but prepare for the worst.
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Hmm, in my opinion you have the WRONG judgment on unmarried woman over 30 with no kids.
Most are smart, independent types that have good educations/careers , like sex and don't need a man to validate them.
Think about it like this. An unmarried guy with a good job and no kids is considered to have his shit together, right?
Some men may be threatened by this in a woman , so who knows.
Interesting point.
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Good thoughts.
My main point is that having children should always be a thoughtful CHOICE .
In my opinion, way too many act like it's the automatic default position.
didnt you say your father killed himself?
didnt it condition your..."choice" to not have kids? It's pretty common in families where suicide runs rampant to have kids and grandkids who dont "want" to have kids or commit suicide too.
Fact is there is no "choice", we re all heavily influenced by what happened in our past. Our current system of belief is the continuation of our mentors thought processes. Just like a lesbian who was raised by a feminist single mom will tell you she "made the choice" to live and have sex with women instead of men... Please. Has nothing to do with a "choice".
To be honnest... choice is an illusion.
We just follow what we ve been conditionned to do blindly and egocentrically label it as a "choice" to make ourselves artificially look strong.
Just like when a star or athlete or rich kid says "i got there thanks to work (and/or god)"on TV when the cold truth is it's a random mix of luck, connexions , money, genetics, inherited talent AND maybe also work that got them where they are.
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didnt your father kill himself?
didnt it condition your..."choice" to not have kids? It's pretty common in families where suicide runs rampant to have kids and grandkids who dont have kids or commit suicide too.
Fact is there is no "choice", we re all heavily influenced by what happened in our past. Just like a lesbian who was raised by a feminist single mom will tell you she "made the choice" to live and have sex with women instead of men...
To be honnest... choice is an illusion.
Vintage uberman!
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Unlike having kids, marriage can by undone legally and you move on.
Having children comes with automatic financial obligations until they become adults regardless of marital status or divorce for men.
I went into every one of my marriages thinking I would last a lifetime.
BUT, as you said, things change in life. I accepted the reality of that change and moved on.
1. Marriage can be dissolved by a quick trip to the lawyer and a few bucks.
2. Children are a REQUIRED financial obligation for many years . Men are legally required to support $$ kids regardless of divorce.
3. Many men love their kids and are grateful to be dads. I knew that wasn't me since I was in high school. So I opted out of having any.
4. Some men don't feel comfortable with the idea of marriage. Guess what...they shouldn't get married. Marriage isn't meant for all men.
* getting married or having kids should be a choice for ALL men. Choose wisely.
Wasn't attacking you bro, I agree that people should be educated on having children 100%, it's not something to take lightly. But even then things go sideways, which is why I referenced the marriages. People working together isn't often harmonious, relationships are hard, you know this and you still kept looking until you found the "perfect" match, factor in children and it gets even more difficult.
My point was not all single mothers intended for that to happen (see silverspoons post).
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Funny you mention single moms I was just telling my buddy my thoughts on them the other day.
I don't see why they are a charity. You know how people are like oh she's a single mom I'll help her pay her light bill or help fix her car or whatever. Like its some sort of victim. She decided to spread her legs and have premarital unprotected sex. She decided to not have a legal abortion. She most likely didn't petition hard enough to get the guy who knocked her up to marry her. I just don't understand why people act like they are victims, and that they didn't bring it all upon themselves. There is consequences for irresponsible behavior. I lack sympathy for single moms in general, feel bad for the kids and society though.
As far as dating I have zero interest in dating a woman with kids. Just to casually bang with no expectation of relationship is ok but not preferred.
Most people that are born are by accident including you. Accidental pregnancies happen.
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Most people that are born are by accident including you. Accidental pregnancies happen.
Not really an accident, a responsible adult woman knows if she has unprotected sex she may become pregnant.
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Hmm, in my opinion you have the WRONG judgment on unmarried woman over 30 with no kids.
Most are smart, independent types that have good educations/careers , like sex and don't need a man to validate them.
Think about it like this. An unmarried guy with a good job and no kids is considered to have his shit together, right?
Some men may be threatened by this in a woman , so who knows.
Everyone has a different opinion based on their actual experiences with said "women".
Most older women with no kids who have never been married may have successful careers, but i find them to be basket cases with tons of emotional issues. Finding a nice career driven woman is a turn on for me, I've dated a few, but they were still bat shit crazy.
Some see independence differently, some see it as independence and others as selfish reliance on ones self, impossible of accepting another persons ideals into their life. I see this too often but i love it, i don't want a chick who wants to be together all the time. Once or twice a week is plenty unless you are trying to marry her.
Who knows, I've never been married and never will. You've been married like 3 times. Obviously we both have different experiences in relationships with older women.
There is no right or wrong, just personal opinion based on experience.
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Single moms are the lowest form of human life.
are you saying we should make luggage out of them? I'm still torn.
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Not really an accident, a responsible adult woman knows if she has unprotected sex she may become pregnant.
Getbiggers will the woman, "That sounds like a YOU problem..."
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DATING A SINGLE MOM ? ? ?
AVOID THEM AT ALL COST !!! ;)
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Also heard that single moms from Australia are more keen on the chili dog.
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Also heard that single moms from Australia are more keen on the chili dog.
I love chili dogs. sometimes I go to dairy queen before picking up the rugrats from grandmas and just get my own chili-drenched dog to woof down before i get them. I dont even tell the wifey, just some quick weiner action on the side.
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Also heard that single moms from Australia are more keen on the chili dog.
No single mothers here bro
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Ok, so just how much joy do you get from putting that hot, weiner meat in your mouth?
juiciest weiner around, no lie. they literally explo
oh. i see what you are getting at.
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Most people that are born are by accident including you. Accidental pregnancies happen.
not as much of an accident if they are married, marriage is supposed to be about building a family right?
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Out of curiosity having been looking round on plenty of fish, I'd say at least 90% of women in my age (31) seem to have kids. Would be slim pickings finding one without.
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When I was in high school there was a Coney Island style chili dog stand at the bus stop. I would buy one almost every day after school. Did chili dogs change my life?
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I suspect they increase lifespan. What is your age?
Beyond old....halfway to my 71st year in this life. You might be onto something there.
Good old fashioned Coney style chili dogs are tough to find. In Portland there is a restaurant/stand called Roake's who still serve them. Whenever I'm nearby, I have to go there. http://www.yelp.com/biz/roakes-portland-2
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In most cases it took a man and a woman to make a baby. The fact that one of those parents bailed on their offspring is a sad affair. My opinion on single moms is pretty much the same as it is on single dads; it is hardest on the children and not so great for the single parent.
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Beyond old....halfway to my 71st year in this life. You might be onto something there.
Good old fashioned Coney style chili dogs are tough to find. In Portland there is a restaurant/stand called Roake's who still serve them. Whenever I'm nearby, I have to go there. http://www.yelp.com/biz/roakes-portland-2
Great coney island dogs. I think there is also one on Columbia Blvd.
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Great coney island dogs. I think there is also one on Columbia Blvd.
Good to know if I get out on the Columbia river for some sun and swim time next summer. Looked it up, it is actually on Lombard Pl. and not very close to the beaches near the airport. The "hole in the wall" Roake's on McLaughlin is the original location. It is still a composite of metal trailers welded together....very funky. Apparently, the Roake's on SE 82nd avenue is no longer there. Probably became a hooker hang out. LOL!
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Good to know if I get out on the Columbia river for some sun and swim time next summer. Looked it up, it is actually on Lombard Pl. and not very close to the beaches near the airport. The "hole in the wall" Roake's on McLaughlin is the original location. It is still a composite of metal trailers welded together....very funky. Apparently, the Roake's on SE 82nd avenue is no longer there. Probably became a hooker hang out. LOL!
I think 82nd closed a Lon long time ago. I remember it tho. There was also one in gresham but is now called Annie's but pretty much has the exact same food. I'll have to stop by the one in Milwaukee next time I'm out there. Someone also said I should visit mikes drive in when I'm out that way.
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When I was in high school there was a Coney Island style chili dog stand at the bus stop. I would buy one almost every day after school. Did chili dogs change my life?
Yes. It manifested itself into you taking them up your ass later.
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Out of curiosity having been looking round on plenty of fish, I'd say at least 90% of women in my age (31) seem to have kids. Would be slim pickings finding one without.
It's best when female is 5-10 years younger anyway.
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Single moms, you have to love em.
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Out of curiosity having been looking round on plenty of fish, I'd say at least 90% of women in my age (31) seem to have kids. Would be slim pickings finding one without.
the consequences of modern feminism
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the consequences of modern feminism
Exactly. Women are doing it to themselves and most don't even realize it. Their sense of entitlement blinds them.
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This was the failed argument point against gay marriage in the recent supreme Ct debate.
BUT, most people think the default position is marriage WITH children. I didn't agree.
my wife and I are happy without kids and so are many couples with kids. Win/win
my point is you are not as much of an "accident" if your parents had you when they were married
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the consequences of modern feminism
break that down a bit...one could say its due to bad men?
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Yes. It manifested itself into you taking them up your ass later.
You are too kind.
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What if she left you? Would you be happy to have your children live with you full time?
My ex wife did leave, & I have 2 great sons who stayed with me.
Aged 7 & 12 at the time.
Single mum's a lot more common than single dads.
No easy answer as with most things so many different variables
To take into account.
It wasn't as hard too find a girl friend as i thought it might be,
Being as I was 50yr Young Man with 2 young sons.
Then again I wasn't out there looking, it just happened.
I would say it was tough going for anyone man or woman to take
On in a parental role another man or woman's children.
Oh I had been married 18yrs before our breakup.
Life, you never really know what it may throw at you.
;)
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Single moms, you have to love em.
Please define 'support' sir :D
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I would entertain a middle class divorcee who now has it all, big house big car....etc. They tend to be hungry for fun some it dirty. Wouldn't go beyond the "fun" stage though as ill be selling my self short .
I dated one, mid 30s her ex husband was a 50 yr old business man. She would book us in 5* hotels and restaurants and weekends away....etx she was catching up on lost fun times . Did her firsr ever anal with me, she came so hard she cried from pleasure lol . Got attached after and bexame hardbwork so I gently let her go.
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I would entertain a middle class divorcee who now has it all, big house big car....etc. They tend to be hungry for fun some it dirty. Wouldn't go beyond the "fun" stage though as ill be selling my self short .
I dated one, mid 30s her ex husband was a 50 yr old business man. She would book us in 5* hotels and restaurants and weekends away....etx she was catching up on lost fun times . Did her firsr ever anal with me, she came so hard she cried from pleasure lol . Got attached after and bexame hardbwork so I gently let her go.
Damn you, that was my ex-wife!
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Always avoided.
Too much headache with kids involved. And their kids are always priority over you(as it should be)
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My ex wife did leave, & I have 2 great sons who stayed with me.
Aged 7 & 12 at the time.
Single mum's a lot more common than single dads.
No easy answer as with most things so many different variables
To take into account.
It wasn't as hard too find a girl friend as i thought it might be,
Being as I was 50yr Young Man with 2 young sons.
Then again I wasn't out there looking, it just happened.
I would say it was tough going for anyone man or woman to take
On in a parental role another man or woman's children.
Oh I had been married 18yrs before our breakup.
Life, you never really know what it may throw at you.
;)
Why did she leave, if u dont mind me asking
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Why did she leave, if u dont mind me asking
To get the answer you would have to ask her.
What she said to me was.
1, not in love with me anymore.
2, got no joy from the children.. :o
I found that very difficult to take on board
From A Mother.
I later found out she was seeing someone else.
She Does see the Boys Every wknd.
And the Important bit is they are Both Happy.
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To get the answer you would have to ask her.
What she said to me was.
1, not in love with me anymore.
2, got no joy from the children.. :o
I found that very difficult to take on board
From A Mother.
I later found out she was seeing someone else.
She Does see the Boys Every wknd.
And the Important bit is they are Both Happy.
It is hard to understand when a parent abandons their children. It is good that your boys had you. Hopefully, your ex wife found whatever it was she thought she was missing in her life. Chances are though, she is still unhappy. Happiness comes from within. Selfish people don't have much capacity for a happy life.
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I put a pillow under their belly when I plow them up the fart locker.
the brown feather prone bone. nice move.
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It is hard to understand when a parent abandons their children. It is good that your boys had you. Hopefully, your ex wife found whatever it was she thought she was missing in her life. Chances are though, she is still unhappy. Happiness comes from within. Selfish people don't have much capacity for a happy life.
Of course it is my opinion based on what little I see of her & what my lads say
( I don't get into asking them )
It does not appear she is any happier.
Although financially fcukd & earning a lot less, My Life is Good.
Hopefully extra wealth & some nice material possessions will come.
Before I die... Ha.. ;)
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My ex wife did leave, & I have 2 great sons who stayed with me.
Aged 7 & 12 at the time.
Single mum's a lot more common than single dads.
No easy answer as with most things so many different variables
To take into account.
It wasn't as hard too find a girl friend as i thought it might be,
Being as I was 50yr Young Man with 2 young sons.
Then again I wasn't out there looking, it just happened.
I would say it was tough going for anyone man or woman to take
On in a parental role another man or woman's children.
Oh I had been married 18yrs before our breakup.
Life, you never really know what it may throw at you.
;)
Crap...crap...and...more crap?
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Opinion?
Shitty person, shitty taste, or shitty luck, what's left?
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My girls is a MILF and she's awesome so to each their own.
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I love how the single moms are getting scrutinized by everyone on here. As if to indicate that it's not common for single moms to be abundant in our society. Get used to it because the older you get, the less you're going to give a fuck.
Most women have a maternal instinct to get pregnant when they're ripe for it. Just like most men have the mindset to spread their seed with as many women as possible. Doesn't make us any better or worse than women for having that mentality.
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I love how the single moms are getting scrutinized by everyone on here. As if to indicate that it's not common for single moms to be abundant in our society. Get used to it because the older you get, the less you're going to give a fuck.
Most women have a maternal instinct to get pregnant when they're ripe for it. Just like most men have the mindset to spread their seed with as many women as possible. Doesn't make us any better or worse than women for having that mentality.
They restore my Low opinion of human nature.
Single mothers are the scourge of society. I wouldnt piss on fire to them out.
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They restore my Low opinion of human nature.
Single mothers are the scourge of society. I wouldnt piss on fire to them out.
What the fuck sense does that even make what you just posted?
Are you some religious nutbag that thinks sex should only be for conceiving while married?
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LOL.....the E-judges who have made every right move in their life...graduated college at 15, made the first million by 18, married their high school sweetheart, are out in force in this thread.
fucking clowns.
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At your age must be really hard to not find a woman with a grandson, "Preparation H".
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At your age must be really hard to not find a woman with a grandson, "Preparation H".
and yet you look like a bag of rancid bird shit compared to me
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They restore my Low opinion of human nature.
Single mothers are the scourge of society. I wouldnt piss on fire to them out.
How do you feel about the fellows that abandon the women they impregnate, making them single moms?
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Single moms are equivalent to used cars to me.
Too much mileage, scratches and dents everywhere.
The world will be better off without them.
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Haha this is a good analogy, yes.
Dating a single mom = buying a used car
"Dating" a hooker = leasing
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Have no desire for single mom's.
False dreamers and delusional.
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Single moms are equivalent to used cars to me.
Too much mileage, scratches and dents everywhere.
The world will be better off without them.
How many single moms have you been responsible for creating?
The only woman I ever got pregnant is my wife. Together we raised our children. That's how it is supposed to be when all goes well. Sometimes things don't work out the way we think they should.
For every single mom, there is also a single dad. The main difference is that the moms generally are the ones taking care of their children.
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My little sister is a single Mom.
She owns a home and drives a new Ford.
My nephew has a scholarship to a prestigious school.
What are you up to, El Numero Uno?
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Single moms = Horny with low self esteem. Like shooting fish in a barrell.
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The thread says what my opinion is on
Single mothers, my opinion is very low.
Get over it.
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My little sister is a single Mom.
She owns a home and drives a new Ford.
My nephew has a scholarship to a prestigious school.
What are you up to, El Numero Uno?
Read this again.
Do you own a home?
Do you have a new car?
Does your child have a scholarship to a $19,000 a year high school?
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My little sister is a single Mom.
She owns a home and drives a new Ford.
My nephew has a scholarship to a prestigious school.
What are you up to, El Numero Uno?
Thank you (on behalf of single moms everywhere) for posting this.
Being a single parent cannot be easy whether it is as a single mom or a single dad. I think when they do well, as you sister has, it is an amazing feat.
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Read this again.
Do you own a home?
Do you have a new car?
Does your child have a scholarship to a $19,000 a year high school?
What are you trying to prove here? That single moms can be successful? Of course they can!
Read my very first post, where I said some of them are def worthy, but most of them (and this is just my opinion) are not. Btw I'm talking about getting involved with them in serious relationships, cause it sucks if you are a young fella. If you're 30+ then dating a girl with a kid it's pretty much a given.
Now about me. I'm 26, I have an engineering degree, looking towards a scholarship for a masters since I have a solid GPA and I'd do well on the TOEFL. No, don't own a house nor a car.
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Single moms of peace.
If more brothers stuck around and took their responsibilities, affirmative action would not ne brought up.
ObamoSloness. Biggest failure in us history.
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Single moms of peace.
If more brothers stuck around and took their responsibilities, affirmative action would not ne brought up.
ObamoSloness. Biggest failure in us history.
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The thread says what my opinion is on
Single mothers, my opinion is very low.
Get over it.
Way over it. You seem like a world class fucktard, though. Best of luck.
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I'm not sure what buttholes you guys who say "dating a woman older than 30 = she will have a kid" are living in. Go to nearly any large city in America and there are tons of 30+ year olds with no kids.
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...Now about me. I'm 26, I have an engineering degree, looking towards a scholarship for a masters since I have a solid GPA and I'll do well on the TOEFL. No, don't own a house nor car.
Hmmmmmm...............26 and no car.
26 and no real job.
26 and no property.
You sound a lot like the guy my sister divorced.
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I'm not sure what buttholes you guys who say "dating a woman older than 30 = she will have a kid" are living in. Go to nearly any large city in America and there are tons of 30+ year olds with no kids.
Because I'm not from America ???
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Because I'm not from America ???
I'm very confident the situation is similar in large cities worldwide unless you're in some backwater Indian or Arab shithole.
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Hmmmmmm...............26 and no car.
26 and no real job.
26 and no property.
You sound a lot like the guy my sister divorced.
Yawn. In real life most people who finish college are 23-25 (not sure about the avg for the US). Buying your own house and car 1-2 years after being a broke ass college student? :D And I have a job, thou not sure what do you mean by real ???
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just ended my "relationship" with a single mom. Not sure I'm gonna go for this again. I need too much attention, lol... They're busy and I understand that, kids got homework, just never ends...
Plus, she smoked cigarettes. When I woke up Sunday and could smell that shit in the sheets, was really grossed out. I smoke green so hard to be judgemental, or find chicks who aren't ugly hippies who accept that type of habbit.
Basically, I'm fucked.
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Yawn. In real life most people who finish college are 23-25 (not sure about the avg for the US). Buying your own house and car 1-2 years after being a broke ass college student? :D And I have a job, thou not sure what do you mean by real ???
My sister, the single mother, is a success.
Her son is on his way to success.
What have you done, man?
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just ended my "relationship" with a single mom. Not sure I'm gonna go for this again. I need too much attention, lol... They're busy and I understand that, kids got homework, just never ends...
Plus, she smoked cigarettes. When I woke up Sunday and could smell that shit in the sheets, was really grossed out. I smoke green so hard to be judgemental, or find chicks who aren't ugly hippies who accept that type of habbit.
Basically, I'm fucked.
Single mothers are wretched.
She sounds gross, they all do. I would run over a single mom if I knew I would get away with it.
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Single mothers are wretched.
She sounds gross, they all do. I would run over a single mom if I knew I would get away with it.
Not gross at all, lol! Had a very nice pussy, tasted good too. Very important for me... Sucked a mean ass dick as well. She's just way to independant and I don't like that. Plus... She has a kid, lol! What a deal breaker from now on...
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Single mothers are wretched.
She sounds gross, they all do. I would run over a single mom if I knew I would get away with it.
Loserville.
Let's see your car?
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QB is cracking me up here lol :D
Single moms are hideous to behold.
An abomination against God.
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didnt you say your father killed himself?
didnt it condition your..."choice" to not have kids? It's pretty common in families where suicide runs rampant to have kids and grandkids who dont "want" to have kids or commit suicide too.
Fact is there is no "choice", we re all heavily influenced by what happened in our past. Our current system of belief is the continuation of our mentors thought processes. Just like a lesbian who was raised by a feminist single mom will tell you she "made the choice" to live and have sex with women instead of men... Please. Has nothing to do with a "choice".
To be honnest... choice is an illusion.
We just follow what we ve been conditionned to do blindly and egocentrically label it as a "choice" to make ourselves artificially look strong.
Just like when a star or athlete or rich kid says "i got there thanks to work (and/or god)"on TV when the cold truth is it's a random mix of luck, connexions , money, genetics, inherited talent AND maybe also work that got them where they are.
I got everything that I have by hard work and wise decisions.. Took tons of risks and had my share of failures - but if you bust your ass and believe in your goals it's a 100% guarantee that you will reach them... That's a fact.. If you don't reach them you didn't try enough times
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They have a term I recall being "baby mama"... white "folks" with value simply call it a family.
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Loserville.
Let's see your car?
:D
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QB is cracking me up here lol :D
Single moms are hideous to behold.
An abomination against God.
Single moms are experts on facebook.
They team up with other dirty slut single mothers and organise play group for their filthy ass kid.
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Single moms are experts on facebook.
They team up with other dirty slut single mothers and organise play group for their filthy ass kid.
Sounds like your dick inefficiency has been pointed out and laughed at by several "single mom"
What's up with the frustration?
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My common sense nor my bank account want me raising another man's kid.
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My little sister is a single Mom.
She owns a home and drives a new Ford.
You talked me into it. I'll fuck your sister.
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I saw a single mom for a few months. I knew her for a few years and she was one of those girls that everyone was praying for a divorce. Incredibly hot and just had this sexy feminine way to her, and 5 years younger then me. Ran into her and found out her husband left her and got a drug problem. Girl was fucking awesome. Never really met the kids as I would typically go to her house once they went to bed, or she'd get a babysitter. But once I met one the kids I bounced. Babysitter got sick and brought the 2 yr old back to her house. Destructive little bastard that never stopped crying. The end.
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A 2 year old???
oufff, no thanks...
Only one person in my relationship gets to act like a two year old and that's me!!!
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whores are whores even when they have kids. If you don't want to have the burden of the child then fuck and leave but don't start a relationship.
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LMAO! :D
(http://i1289.photobucket.com/albums/b516/searchq8/TOPICS/aug-30/singlemom_zpsc9bd6f76.jpg)
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LMAO! :D
(http://i1289.photobucket.com/albums/b516/searchq8/TOPICS/aug-30/singlemom_zpsc9bd6f76.jpg)
Her super power is the one that makes men disappear, lol!
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Her super power is the one that makes men disappear, lol!
I guess so, cause getting knocked up by douchebags is hardly a superpower. ;D
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Unless the husband died due to natural causes, single moms are defective items of the entire items society can product. A single mom is a woman that couldn't keep a man around. She is useless and has no future and doesn't deserve any man future.
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Unless the husband died due to natural causes, single moms are defective items of the entire items society can product. A single mom is a woman that couldn't keep a man around. She is useless and has no future and doesn't deserve any man future.
Agreed.
Single mothers should pay extra taxes and not be allowed to catch public transport.
They are single mothers cause they fucked up. Simple.
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Unless the husband died due to natural causes, single moms are defective items of the entire items society can product. A single mom is a woman that couldn't keep a man around. She is useless and has no future and doesn't deserve any man future.
Agreed. A woman who's husband dies and she is left to raise the kid I don't even count as a single mother. She's a widow parent. Single mothers are completely different scum and are responsible for most of society's ills today. Fact!
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Many truths in these last few posts.
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Agreed.
Single mothers should pay extra taxes and not be allowed to catch public transport.
They are single mothers cause they fucked up. Simple.
:D
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Many truths in these last few posts.
Agreed.
Single mothers should pay extra taxes and not be allowed to catch public transport.
They are single mothers cause they fucked up. Simple.
;D ;D ;D
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I saw a single mom for a few months. I knew her for a few years and she was one of those girls that everyone was praying for a divorce. Incredibly hot and just had this sexy feminine way to her, and 5 years younger then me. Ran into her and found out her husband left her and got a drug problem. Girl was fucking awesome. Never really met the kids as I would typically go to her house once they went to bed, or she'd get a babysitter. But once I met one the kids I bounced. Babysitter got sick and brought the 2 yr old back to her house. Destructive little bastard that never stopped crying. The end.
Aw damn, I just laughed like a mofo over this.
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The consensus is that single moms should be thrown of buildings like ISIS throws Gays of buildings.
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single moms, can't live with them.....
yeah
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Christ on a cracker what a bunch of fucking clueless morons......hahahahaahaa a
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Christ on a cracker what a bunch of fucking clueless morons......hahahahaahaa a
What's the proper view on single moms? I honestly don't know. I'm naturally leery of them but I imagine my opinion would change if I became single.
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Soooooo completely transparent trolling is considered funny these days?
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Positive opinions about single moms can only comes from an adult who has been raised by a single mom, so, without a father figure. The adult, still not mature enough to hold an honest opinion, which can be explainable because of the way he grew up and the misery of education he got, will try to make feel others superior peers that had a father in their house, that they got nothing more than him. He will try, without success, to be in an equal position as his peers, raised by a father and a mother, by suppressing the importance of the father figure.
Not only he will carry false opinions but will dive into more delusions, to outdo his inferiority complex, always omnipresent, in his adulthood. The adult, who's unconsciously hating his mother for not keeping his father around, will in fact show unconditional love and support to his mother and her decisions. The quest may go further than this and this time to prove his manhood. He would start lifting weight and even taking steroids to have this delusional shield and disguise of a man. To him, this is the only way to keep a women around because as influenced by his mother talks, his dad wasn't good and was "weak".
When the adult goes through experiences with other women, that are doomed to fails by logic, he comes to the conclusion that his muscles aren't enough and that he was wrong. Not wrong about why his father didn't keep his mother around and that the contrary operation must happen ( The mother should keep the man around) but about his vision about how a man must be. Another time, he will embrace another delusion and again, most of the time focused on his body ( Tattoo, MMA lessons).
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Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.
Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
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Soooooo completely transparent trolling is considered funny these days?
Apparently Shizz.
wer'e supposed to be getting "mad" LOL
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Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.
Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
This really says it all.
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Soooooo completely transparent trolling is considered funny these days?
some of the stuff was corny funny you gotta admit. Would've been funnyer when I first joined this place tho.
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some of the stuff was corny funny you gotta admit. Would've been funnyer when I first joined this place tho.
They reeled in Primemuscle and El Numero Uno like Mississippi catfish though :D
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Ted Bundy - raised by a single mom.
Charles Manson - raised by a single mom.
Do I need to say more?
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Oh brother, I see this everyday, a good looking girl dates some douchebag, gets knocked up and then dates a "good guy" who even takes care of the kid at times.
But I gotta be honest, I dated one 2 years ago lol, for seven months, but I will pass if another single mom wants something serious. Of course, I would still go out with and bang a single mom, but that's it.
I'm not putting down guys who do it, I know when you're 30+ years old that's pretty much the norm. Also, some single moms are definitely worthy of course, but I feel a lot of them are not. A good man should not pay for their irresponsability, because dating guys who happen to look good but drink twice a week, have no education, cheat on them and still got them pregant is that, irresponsability.
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not a good idea at all! just hold out and find a girl who hasn't had any kids. I have respect for those guys who do marry single moms with children but it's nothing I would do.
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Ted Bundy - raised by a single mom.
Charles Manson - raised by a single mom.
Do I need to say more?
bundy's mom had him when she was like 12, he was raised by his grandma and was led to believe that his mom was his older sister and his grandma was his mom
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Moral of the story is non traditional families are less than ideal. Always exceptions but true for the majority.
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Moral of the story is non traditional families are less than ideal. Always exceptions but true for the majority.
Yes it's sort of like when you tell a simpleton "You're more likely to make a higher lifetime income with a completed college degree" and they rebut with "Oh yeah well tell that to Bill Gates hahahaha ::)"
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Yes it's sort of like when you tell a simpleton "You're more likely to make a higher lifetime income with a completed college degree" and they rebut with "Oh yeah well tell that to Bill Gates hahahaha ::)"
Exactly.
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Yes it's sort of like when you tell a simpleton "You're more likely to make a higher lifetime income with a completed college degree" and they rebut with "Oh yeah well tell that to Bill Gates hahahaha ::)"
Too bad those morons dont realize that 99.9% of people with or without a college degree will never amount to a Bill Gates.
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didn't bill gates drop out of harvard?
if you get accepted into harvard you are already smarter than 99% of people, you don't need the degree
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Oh brother, I see this everyday, a good looking girl dates some douchebag, gets knocked up and then dates a "good guy" who even takes care of the kid at times.
But I gotta be honest, I dated one 2 years ago lol, for seven months, but I will pass if another single mom wants something serious. Of course, I would still go out with and bang a single mom, but that's it.
I'm not putting down guys who do it, I know when you're 30+ years old that's pretty much the norm. Also, some single moms are definitely worthy of course, but I feel a lot of them are not. A good man should not pay for their irresponsability, because dating guys who happen to look good but drink twice a week, have no education, cheat on them and still got them pregant is that, irresponsability.
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TBH it's all about where you are as a person. If I were single and I met a single mom I'd ask ?'s about the situation. WTF happened? Were you guys in a serious relationship? Was this a bad decision that ended up resulting in a pregnancy? What is he doing for his child? Is he crazy? If he was such as asshole, why'd you give up the P? ..list goes on.
It's no different then when I had to answer questions about why I divorced my ex. It was like I fucked up...not her (when she fucked up).
If you are a level headed dude, you can weed out the bullshit pretty fast. If you are a sucker for love, haven't had pussy in forever, square..etc ..You'll end up being new baby daddy.
Please keep in mind, females pick their daddies. I have at-least 5 stories where my boys ended up NOT being the father and they were in a relationship....and i'm talking about quality stand up guys.
I got on friend right now to this day who has a kid that he even knows potentially is not his, but he's too afraid to find out via DNA.
Guys are fucking cowards imo. Suck it up and be a fucking man and say how you feel instead of trying to be a "good guy" and get run over.
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Moral of the story is non traditional families are less than ideal. Always exceptions but true for the majority.
well people who come from dysfunctional families are weaker and have shittier odds of survival than people coming from strong stable families.
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well people who come from dysfunctional families are weaker and have shittier odds of survival than people coming from strong stable families.
I know, I've read your thesis on girls and sons. 8)
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well people who come from dysfunctional families are weaker and have shittier odds of survival than people coming from strong stable families.
Perhaps some people who experience challenges while growing up are actually emotionally stronger than those of you who had Ozzie and Harriet as parents. I credit my crazy mixed up childhood for giving me strength and a better understanding of how to deal with life as an adult. I am not a victim. I am a survivor.
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Single mothers are a psychotic bunch, they all love to get together for coffee and talk about how men are duds.
yet they yearn for a man every single day, they act like they can do everything alone, they cannot, they know this, they meltdown. Everyone knows the truth, you need both parents.
Ever speak to a single fucken mom?? they all sound deranged and always blame the father. You will never hear a single fuck mom say "It was my fault, I shouldn't have yelled at him so much"
Well bitch you picked a bad boy, now deal with it slut. Enjoy "coffee with the girls" AKA coffee with the other destined to be losers forever single mother-fuckers.
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Single mothers are a psychotic bunch, they all love to get together for coffee and talk about how men are duds.
yet they yearn for a man every single day, they act like they can do everything alone, they cannot, they know this, they meltdown. Everyone knows the truth, you need both parents.
Ever speak to a single fucken mom?? they all sound deranged and always blame the father. You will never hear a single fuck mom say "It was my fault, I shouldn't have yelled at him so much"
Well bitch you picked a bad boy, now deal with it slut. Enjoy "coffee with the girls" AKA coffee with the other destined to be losers forever single mother-fuckers.
irrefutable evidence in this post
every single mother on the planet is exactly like this
end of thread ;D
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don't be surprised if some boy that was raised by a single mom wants to wear a dress sometime later in his life, boys raised by single moms get too feminime and girls wind up being attracted to assholes and probably get knocked up by one in their teens and the cycle continues
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don't be surprised if some boy that was raised by a single mom wants to wear a dress sometime later in his life, boys raised by single moms get too feminime and girls wind up being attracted to assholes and probably get knocked up by one in their teens and the cycle continues
At what age did your dad bolt?
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At what age did your dad bolt?
he's still around, no way in hell they'll ever divorce, they're both cristians ;D
btw I've sen things i posted above happen ;)
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Quickerblade is dominating this thread.
Pulling down his $900 tailored Armani suitpants and taking a sloppy shit all over the chests of single moms everywhere.
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Quickerblade is dominating this thread.
Pulling down his $900 tailored Armani suitpants and taking a sloppy shit all over the chests of single moms everywhere.
Single moms really boil my piss.
They get together for their tri-weekly coffee with the other miserable lonely loser sluts.
"Men are pigs"
"He was such a loser" -why did you marry him bitch.
"I'm so happy without him" - contemplates suicide every minute
"I love little johnny" - she really wants to strangle little johnny and regrets having him.
Single motherfucken mothers love to act brave and act like they do not want him in thier fucked up lives,
Truth is the bitch is jealous cause Her ex is free and fucking fresh pussy while she cleans shit and collects discount vouchers every day.
A successful day for a single mom is when she gets a free coffee, she sips it slowly while looking at her dirty ass kid and regretting the day she had him. While she sips on the free coffee she makes sure to use the cafes FREE WIFI to see what the other single moms are doing facebook.
They are all miserable, they have frizzy hair, uneven skin tone, poor hygeine, they know they are ugly and vile when they pass the shopfront windows in the street and see their pathetic reflection.
The kid looks like a loser cause his surrounded by negativity (that being other single mothers).
I smile when I'm in the mall and see a single mom looking miserable knowing she can't afford anything.
She forced this life on herself.
Fuck single mothers, next time you see one, look at her and you will see how tormented they are.
This is my 10,000th post.
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Single moms really boil my piss.
They get together for their tri-weekly coffee with the other miserable lonely loser sluts.
"Men are pigs"
"He was such a loser" -why did you marry him bitch.
"I'm so happy without him" - contemplates suicide every minute
"I love little johnny" - she really wants to strangle little johnny and regrets having him.
Single motherfucken mothers love to act brave and act like they do not want him in thier fucked up lives,
Truth is the bitch is jealous cause Her ex is free and fucking fresh pussy while she cleans shit and collects discount vouchers every day.
A successful day for a single mom is when she gets a free coffee, she sips it slowly while looking at her dirty ass kid and regretting the day she had him. While she sips on the free coffee she makes sure to use the cafes FREE WIFI to see what the other single moms are doing facebook.
They are all miserable, they have frizzy hair, uneven skin tone, poor hygeine, they know they are ugly and vile when they pass the shopfront windows in the street and see their pathetic reflection.
The kid looks like a loser cause his surrounded by negativity (that being other single mothers).
I smile when I'm in the mall and see a single mom looking miserable knowing she can't afford anything.
She forced this life on herself.
Fuck single mothers, next time you see one, look at her and you will see how tormented they are.
This is my 10,000th post.
Epic 10 00th.
It's just to complicated with them, relationships are hard enough to make work as is.
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Single moms really boil my piss.
They get together for their tri-weekly coffee with the other miserable lonely loser sluts.
"Men are pigs"
"He was such a loser" -why did you marry him bitch.
"I'm so happy without him" - contemplates suicide every minute
"I love little johnny" - she really wants to strangle little johnny and regrets having him.
Single motherfucken mothers love to act brave and act like they do not want him in thier fucked up lives,
Truth is the bitch is jealous cause Her ex is free and fucking fresh pussy while she cleans shit and collects discount vouchers every day.
A successful day for a single mom is when she gets a free coffee, she sips it slowly while looking at her dirty ass kid and regretting the day she had him. While she sips on the free coffee she makes sure to use the cafes FREE WIFI to see what the other single moms are doing facebook.
They are all miserable, they have frizzy hair, uneven skin tone, poor hygeine, they know they are ugly and vile when they pass the shopfront windows in the street and see their pathetic reflection.
The kid looks like a loser cause his surrounded by negativity (that being other single mothers).
I smile when I'm in the mall and see a single mom looking miserable knowing she can't afford anything.
She forced this life on herself.
Fuck single mothers, next time you see one, look at her and you will see how tormented they are.
This is my 10,000th post.
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Quickerblade must have been left with blue balls from a neighborhood single mother.
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Single moms really boil my piss.
They get together for their tri-weekly coffee with the other miserable lonely loser sluts.
"Men are pigs"
"He was such a loser" -why did you marry him bitch.
"I'm so happy without him" - contemplates suicide every minute
"I love little johnny" - she really wants to strangle little johnny and regrets having him.
Single motherfucken mothers love to act brave and act like they do not want him in thier fucked up lives,
Truth is the bitch is jealous cause Her ex is free and fucking fresh pussy while she cleans shit and collects discount vouchers every day.
A successful day for a single mom is when she gets a free coffee, she sips it slowly while looking at her dirty ass kid and regretting the day she had him. While she sips on the free coffee she makes sure to use the cafes FREE WIFI to see what the other single moms are doing facebook.
They are all miserable, they have frizzy hair, uneven skin tone, poor hygeine, they know they are ugly and vile when they pass the shopfront windows in the street and see their pathetic reflection.
The kid looks like a loser cause his surrounded by negativity (that being other single mothers).
I smile when I'm in the mall and see a single mom looking miserable knowing she can't afford anything.
She forced this life on herself.
Fuck single mothers, next time you see one, look at her and you will see how tormented they are.
This is my 10,000th post.
Yo QB, what about this one...on dating websites in their profile they say something like "I have a 3 year old son and he is the world to me". Bwahaha! If the kid was so important to you then you would have FIRST married a great guy, then got pregnant with the kid and do everything you can do to be good to him and keep him around to raise the kid properly and provide for him.
I'm tempted to go quote some of these single whores with brood and prove how many have this dillusion. Yes my kid is the most important thing to me but first let me troll plenty of fish for cock. Oh brother.
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Yo QB, what about this one...on dating websites in their profile they say something like "I have a 3 year old son and he is the world to me". Bwahaha! If the kid was so important to you then you would have FIRST married a great guy, then got pregnant with the kid and do everything you can do to be good to him and keep him around to raise the kid properly and provide for him.
'm tempted to go quote some of these single whores with brood and prove how many have this dillusion. Yes my kid is the most important thing to me but first let me troll plenty of fish for cock. Oh brother.
I just shat my pants laughing.
I wonder what goes thru these morons minds when they browse other women profiles and realize they wrote the exact same things as them?
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Yo QB, what about this one...on dating websites in their profile they say something like "I have a 3 year old son and he is the world to me". Bwahaha! If the kid was so important to you then you would have FIRST married a great guy, then got pregnant with the kid and do everything you can do to be good to him and keep him around to raise the kid properly and provide for him.
I'm tempted to go quote some of these single whores with brood and prove how many have this dillusion. Yes my kid is the most important thing to me but first let me troll plenty of fish for cock. Oh brother.
Spot on
Whores, the lot of them.
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Single mothers are a psychotic bunch, they all love to get together for coffee and talk about how men are duds.
yet they yearn for a man every single day, they act like they can do everything alone, they cannot, they know this, they meltdown. Everyone knows the truth, you need both parents.
Ever speak to a single fucken mom?? they all sound deranged and always blame the father. You will never hear a single fuck mom say "It was my fault, I shouldn't have yelled at him so much"
Well bitch you picked a bad boy, now deal with it slut. Enjoy "coffee with the girls" AKA coffee with the other destined to be losers forever single mother-fuckers.
BOOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sneak over after the kids are asleep and before they wake you will be fine 8)
Also single moms are good at making samiches after even cut it half diagonal
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Single moms really boil my piss.
They get together for their tri-weekly coffee with the other miserable lonely loser sluts.
"Men are pigs"
"He was such a loser" -why did you marry him bitch.
"I'm so happy without him" - contemplates suicide every minute
"I love little johnny" - she really wants to strangle little johnny and regrets having him.
Single motherfucken mothers love to act brave and act like they do not want him in thier fucked up lives,
Truth is the bitch is jealous cause Her ex is free and fucking fresh pussy while she cleans shit and collects discount vouchers every day.
A successful day for a single mom is when she gets a free coffee, she sips it slowly while looking at her dirty ass kid and regretting the day she had him. While she sips on the free coffee she makes sure to use the cafes FREE WIFI to see what the other single moms are doing facebook.
They are all miserable, they have frizzy hair, uneven skin tone, poor hygeine, they know they are ugly and vile when they pass the shopfront windows in the street and see their pathetic reflection.
The kid looks like a loser cause his surrounded by negativity (that being other single mothers).
I smile when I'm in the mall and see a single mom looking miserable knowing she can't afford anything.
She forced this life on herself.
Fuck single mothers, next time you see one, look at her and you will see how tormented they are.
This is my 10,000th post.
Current leader for Getbig Quote of the Year.
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Had to bump this. One of the best posts in the history of getbig!
Hmmm, and to think some wonder why I never had any ankle bitters .
It warms my heart whenever I re-read it.
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Had to bump this. One of the best posts in the history of getbig!
Hmmm, and to think some wonder why I never had any ankle bitters .
That post is sig worthy. All of it.
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The average MILF won't recover after reading this wonderful & truthful thread..
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I feel sorry for the kids.
Imagine how terrible it must be for the kids?
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Some of these moms actually post pics of their kids on their dating profiles. How sick and delusional, nobody gives a fuck about your kid, not even you! :D
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Some of these moms actually post pics of their kids on their dating profiles. How sick and delusional, nobody gives a fuck about your kid, not even you! :D
Works like a reverse magnet to me :-X
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Had to bump this. One of the best posts in the history of getbig!
Hmmm, and to think some wonder why I never had any ankle bitters .
Agreed. QB is is just putting down and tell truth in this thread. Funny as shit.
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I feel sorry for the kids.
Imagine how terrible it must be for the kids?
Exactly.
My parents separated before I was 4 years old. For the next four years, I lived with every relative I had and lived all over the world. Although I have good memories of this time, some of my family have told me they thought I was pretty much an orphan. Glad that wasn't what I was feeling.
When my mom and my step-dad got together, my mom had her dad kidnap me from my cousins where I was then living. It was quite the adventure. We took the train from Michigan back to New Jersey and then I got on a plane with my aunt and flew to California where I spent the remainder of my childhood.
My step-dad was a great guy. I was lucky to have him in my life. I didn't realize this at first and I treated him with disrespect. He just blew it off. As I go older, we became good friends.
My tale is no tale of woe. A lot of kids from broken homes have really terrible lives. I feel bad for them. They did nothing to deserve the lost or neglected childhood they endure.
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For the record my rant on single moms is not on single widowed moms.
Its directed at the women who open their legs to random men. Men that they know dont have any money nor does the bitch.
Now when the man runs away, I blame the fucken slutty lady, men will be men, a fucken women
should know better.
single moms are single because they have poor judgement. Joining the local church, Hillsong, the local playgroup is not going to help. Ranting to your other single mother friends just makes it worse, keep drinking that caramel creme frappe (3022calories) let that sugar rush give you the only excitement in your miserable life, call the local council to remove that tree or add a stop sign, cause you are a miserable fucken loser.
Looking at the kid makes you depressed, cause he resembles the guy you fucked in the park and now you must raise ernie all by your lonesome hahhahahah. You keep saying you love your kid but if killing him wasnt a crime you would do it in a heart beat so you can go to the club on a Wed night.
Single fucken moms are the #1 cause of broken homes.
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I know a couple single moms on FB and they're always posting pictures that say things like 'wheres my prince charming' I just want to say sorry bitch should have that about him when you were getting knocked up at 20. Prince charming aint coming.
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For the record my rant on single moms is not on single widowed moms.
Its directed at the women who open their legs to random men. Men that they know dont have any money nor does the bitch.
Now when the man runs away, I blame the fucken slutty lady, men will be men, a fucken women
should know better.
single moms are single because they have poor judgement. Joining the local church, Hillsong, the local playgroup is not going to help. Ranting to your other single mother friends just makes it worse, keep drinking that caramel creme frappe (3022calories) let that sugar rush give you the only excitement in your miserable life, call the local council to remove that tree or add a stop sign, cause you are a miserable fucken loser.
Looking at the kid makes you depressed, cause he resembles the guy you fucked in the park and now you must raise ernie all by your lonesome hahhahahah. You keep saying you love your kid but if killing him wasnt a crime you would do it in a heart beat so you can go to the club on a Wed night.
Single fucken moms are the #1 cause of broken homes.
Another outstanding post bringing the truth.
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How it ends for good women
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How it ends for a single mom
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I've only dated one single mom in my entire life. The original plan when I met her was to pump and dump the bitch, I would never get involved with, let alone raise another man's seed thats beta as fuck. But this girl just grew on me and we dated for a while, keep in mind these hot single moms are used to being pumped and dumped by guys they know they're going to need more than their looks to keep a man around cause of their kid. So they learn how to manipulate men. And you won't even realize its happening either until it's too late and your already in a relationship.
Mine knew she couldn't get away with telling me what to do, so she stroked my ego, used to tell me how great in bed I was etc. She would do anything in the sack, every time I was ready to walk away from her and that fucking child she'd reel me right back in with some bomb road head. IT was really crazy on how she was able to pick up on what made me tick sexually, little things shed do without me even telling her. Crazy manipulative bitch
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For the record my rant on single moms is not on single widowed moms.
Its directed at the women who open their legs to random men. Men that they know dont have any money nor does the bitch.
Now when the man runs away, I blame the fucken slutty lady, men will be men, a fucken women
should know better.
single moms are single because they have poor judgement. Joining the local church, Hillsong, the local playgroup is not going to help. Ranting to your other single mother friends just makes it worse, keep drinking that caramel creme frappe (3022calories) let that sugar rush give you the only excitement in your miserable life, call the local council to remove that tree or add a stop sign, cause you are a miserable fucken loser.
Looking at the kid makes you depressed, cause he resembles the guy you fucked in the park and now you must raise ernie all by your lonesome hahhahahah. You keep saying you love your kid but if killing him wasnt a crime you would do it in a heart beat so you can go to the club on a Wed night.
Single fucken moms are the #1 cause of broken homes.
Trolling mutherfucker.
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Getbiggers should pledge to speak the truth when people mention helping out a single mother or making her sound like a victim. Was her choice 100%.
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The average MILF won't recover after reading this wonderful & truthful thread..
average milf believes that everything written about single moms applies only to her friends and other people and not to her, she is gods gift to all of humanity, after all, all kinds of young rich men are chasing her in clubs and online, surely they are looking for a long term relationship
guys going after single moms for anything long term are fools, let the single dads deal with single moms
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i was out clubbing with my friend this Friday. A female trainer i know from a gym i used to go to ( also a single mom with fake lips and tan) walks by me and greets me by grabbing my right arm. i look at her, lean over and say: ''Who's babysitting tonight''? You could see she wasn't pleased with my question but replied that it was her ex's turn and kept on walking ...
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I've only dated one single mom in my entire life. The original plan when I met her was to pump and dump the bitch, I would never get involved with, let alone raise another man's seed thats beta as fuck. But this girl just grew on me and we dated for a while, keep in mind these hot single moms are used to being pumped and dumped by guys they know they're going to need more than their looks to keep a man around cause of their kid. So they learn how to manipulate men. And you won't even realize its happening either until it's too late and your already in a relationship.
Mine knew she couldn't get away with telling me what to do, so she stroked my ego, used to tell me how great in bed I was etc. She would do anything in the sack, every time I was ready to walk away from her and that fucking child she'd reel me right back in with some bomb road head. IT was really crazy on how she was able to pick up on what made me tick sexually, little things shed do without me even telling her. Crazy manipulative bitch
If you care for the mother and child, raising another man's child is not "beta as fuck".
Begging for money for a truck on the internet is, however.
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If you care for the mother and child, raising another man's child is not "beta as fuck".
Begging for money for a truck on the internet is, however.
Once again the emotional liar talk that should remain on FB and twitter seemed to have spilled over to getbig.
When a guy dates a single mom he has his dick in mind not the mom and the child, cut the BS. If he cares about the mom and child let him write some checks
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Once again the emotional liar talk that should remain on FB and twitter seemed to have spilled over to getbig.
When a guy dates a single mom he has his dick in mind not the mom and the child, cut the BS. If he cares about the mom and child let him write some checks
Wasn't commenting on the dating period in general, which was obvious - was referring to a specific comment. Feel free to debate within that context.
But, it's getting old hearing what's alpha and beta from people who have no clue about anything.
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Wasn't commenting on the dating period in general, which was obvious - was referring to a specific comment. Feel free to debate within that context.
But, it's getting old hearing what's alpha and beta from people who have no clue about anything.
nothing to debate, a single guy with no kids and no drama has no business getting involved with a single mom, end of story this case is closed
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nothing to debate, a single guy with no kids and no drama has no business getting involved with a single mom, end of story this case is closed
If that's your opinion, that's fine. But it's not even remotely within the context of what I was commenting on.
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If that's your opinion, that's fine. But it's not even remotely within the context of what I was commenting on.
Meh, just agree with him and move on, lol...
Yeah man, those stupid bitches, ahhh, make me so mad as well, freaking out just thinking of them...
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QB speaking the truth!
All the single moms i know are just like that. They are bitter and think they are so tough and strong willed. Yet half of them hate life and the other half stick an iPad in their kid's hand so they can drink wine while watching the bachelor, thinking one day they could find a man like this douchebag. Always posting lame ass pics on FB about how awesome single moms are. They constantly talk about how busy they are and their demanding schedule because of the kid(s). Somewhere deep inside they want to believe they are strong because they tackle the burden alone, when in reality they would give a kidney to have someone else take care of their child(ren).
Sure most of them are good mothers who care about their kid(s) above all else, but they just never shut up about it. I dated a chick who had a 3 year old and she was cool, but fuck all she talked about was her fucking kid and not it a cool way, i learned way too much about this little heathen and his "deadbeat" father. After a few dates and marathon sex sessions, all she did was talk about how amazing her son was. So one day i meet her at the park with her kid, and he's a wild fucking terror. She had a harness and dog leash type thing on him and he was out of control screaming, running around and throwing a fit. She was nice to me so i didn't want to be a complete asshole so i just put up with it for about 15 minutes. After that she put him in the car and came over to talk to me, she actually apologized for his wild actions because I'm sure she could tell i was annoyed and had been down the road before. Later on she came over alone and fucked my brains out. I called her the next day and told her i couldn't have a relationship with her, she knew why, i didn't have to say anything.
I just can't see myself taking on that kind of responsibility if it's not mine. Maybe I'm selfish, but I've met a lot of single moms and they are great for dating. They know how to suck, fuck, cook and be quiet; they understand how to please a man. They KNOW they carry this black flag of terror with them so they will do anything to get into a relationship with a successful guy. Another chick i dated would come over almost every evening, suck my dick and then make dinner for me while i did whatever i wanted. Then we'd have a glass of wine together and talk, then fuck like wild rabbits for a hour or two. She would go home and not even call me wanting to talk about shit, just a text around 3pm every afternoon asking if she needed a "sitter" or not. Not once did she complain, she was probably the sweetest chick i ever dated, but i KNEW it was an act and i could see it in her eyes. The longer it went on the more she hinted about me coming to her place; we had a lot of fun together and it was a somewhat distant relationship. She never talked about her child other than telling me she had one, but the one time i mentioned it, her face lit up like i had never seen, i had finally asked about what she so badly wanted to speak about. She held back but told me all about her daughter, the good things, nothing bad and nothing about the ex. After a few months i had to bail, couldn't do it anymore and felt bad. Our last conversation ended with her telling me that i was the only man she could imagine being a father to her daughter. Fuck, it made me feel bad, but we split on good terms and she never contacted me again.
2 years ago i saw her at HEB alone with her kid and no wedding ring. She smiled at me and turned to walk the other way.
I wonder if she made a facebook post about me?
Oddly enough, the 3 girls I've dated who were raised by a single mother were fucking batshit crazy. Go figure.
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most single mothers are fat and ugly and hate men, their sons will become homos. Lots of homos in the making. Lots lots lots of them. Daughters will become lesbian or twisted workaholics. Goes without saying, it s mostly the white race that is concerned. They ll get crushed by family oriented muslims in europe and by christian latinos in north america.
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Not gross at all, lol! Had a very nice pussy, tasted good too. Very important for me... Sucked a mean ass dick as well. She's just way to independant and I don't like that. Plus... She has a kid, lol! What a deal breaker from now on...
Sounds like you have issues too my friend. Needing 'attention' and someone more 'dependant' on you?
99.999999% of girls hoover up your time and energy like fuck, you find one that's willing to do her own thing and let her go exactly for that reason??
Only on Getbig.
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Sure most of them are good mothers who care about their kid(s) above all else, but they just never shut up about it. I dated a chick who had a 3 year old and she was cool, but fuck all she talked about was her fucking kid and not it a cool way, i learned way too much about this little heathen and his "deadbeat" father. After a few dates and marathon sex sessions, all she did was talk about how amazing her son was. So one day i meet her at the park with her kid, and he's a wild fucking terror. She had a harness and dog leash type thing on him and he was out of control screaming, running around and throwing a fit. She was nice to me so i didn't want to be a complete asshole so i just put up with it for about 15 minutes. After that she put him in the car and came over to talk to me, she actually apologized for his wild actions because I'm sure she could tell i was annoyed and had been down the road before. Later on she came over alone and fucked my brains out. I called her the next day and told her i couldn't have a relationship with her, she knew why, i didn't have to say anything.
Kids dont want another father, they often want their real father, not some dude that comes from nowhere. If they had the choice they d pick their own genetical father in all cases.
All these kids will become problematic adults with deep rooted issues toward relationships betwen men and women. Either depressed, cynical gays, or lesbians. Most of them wont want to have kids either. White race is doomed. It all started with the abandonning or judeo christianity and it being replaced by atheism. These individuals only focus on making money, working, and superficial stuff.
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Kids dont want another father, they often want their real father, not some dude that comes from nowhere. If they had the choice they d pick their own genetical father in all cases.
All these kids will become problematic adults with deep rooted issues toward relationships betwen men and women. Either depressed, cynical gays, or lesbians. Most of them wont want to have kids either. White race is doomed. It all started with the abandonning or judeo christianity and it being replaced by atheism. These individuals only focus on making money, working, and superficial stuff.
Aren't you also an atheist now?
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I wouldnt be too suprised to learn most posters in this thread had a single mom and uses this thread to secretly lash out at them lol
There are many sons who had troubles finding their place in the male world as a result of their mother driving their fathers out of the household and hold tons of subcsoncious grudge against them and women in general.
James; I m more of a nihilist than an atheist at this point.
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nothing to debate, a single guy with no kids and no drama has no business getting involved with a single mom, end of story this case is closed
a good looking, financially set single man would be dumb to date a single mom.
BUT, many 30 yo average looking guys, with average financial situations , mostly virgin / porn addicts, might be tricked into dating and settling with single moms.
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Id compare dating a single mom to riding a scooter, they're fun to ride just not fun to be seen on one
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And in the end they win, because they have what you want.
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And in the end they win, because they have what you want.
Yup, women lead men. Most men simply want to empty their balls without consequences, women want..to give birth to lives they can control.
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A friend of mine is marrying a single mom in a few months. My buddy is 28 really good looking owns a business has the world by the nuts. He is marrying a chick with four year older daughter. I just think to myself what a chump. Why he would let himself fall in love with her I will never understand. I mean she is cute and everything but no super model. No way in hell would I do that. I never did more than bang single moms.
I had another dipshit friend who lived with one and her 3 little shit head kids. A lot of guys are straight up fools.
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most single mothers are fat and ugly and hate men, their sons will become homos. Lots of homos in the making. Lots lots lots of them. Daughters will become lesbian or twisted workaholics. Goes without saying, it s mostly the white race that is concerned. They ll get crushed by family oriented muslims in europe and by christian latinos in north america.
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A friend of mine is marrying a single mom in a few months. My buddy is 28 really good looking owns a business has the world by the nuts. He is marrying a chick with four year older daughter. I just think to myself what a chump. Why he would let himself fall in love with her I will never understand. I mean she is cute and everything but no super model. No way in hell would I do that. I never did more than bang single moms.
I had another dipshit friend who lived with one and her 3 little shit head kids. A lot of guys are straight up fools.
This is going to end in tragedy. What a absolute moron.
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QB speaking the truth!
All the single moms i know are just like that. They are bitter and think they are so tough and strong willed. Yet half of them hate life and the other half stick an iPad in their kid's hand so they can drink wine while watching the bachelor, thinking one day they could find a man like this douchebag. Always posting lame ass pics on FB about how awesome single moms are. They constantly talk about how busy they are and their demanding schedule because of the kid(s). Somewhere deep inside they want to believe they are strong because they tackle the burden alone, when in reality they would give a kidney to have someone else take care of their child(ren).
Sure most of them are good mothers who care about their kid(s) above all else, but they just never shut up about it. I dated a chick who had a 3 year old and she was cool, but fuck all she talked about was her fucking kid and not it a cool way, i learned way too much about this little heathen and his "deadbeat" father. After a few dates and marathon sex sessions, all she did was talk about how amazing her son was. So one day i meet her at the park with her kid, and he's a wild fucking terror. She had a harness and dog leash type thing on him and he was out of control screaming, running around and throwing a fit. She was nice to me so i didn't want to be a complete asshole so i just put up with it for about 15 minutes. After that she put him in the car and came over to talk to me, she actually apologized for his wild actions because I'm sure she could tell i was annoyed and had been down the road before. Later on she came over alone and fucked my brains out. I called her the next day and told her i couldn't have a relationship with her, she knew why, i didn't have to say anything.
I just can't see myself taking on that kind of responsibility if it's not mine. Maybe I'm selfish, but I've met a lot of single moms and they are great for dating. They know how to suck, fuck, cook and be quiet; they understand how to please a man. They KNOW they carry this black flag of terror with them so they will do anything to get into a relationship with a successful guy. Another chick i dated would come over almost every evening, suck my dick and then make dinner for me while i did whatever i wanted. Then we'd have a glass of wine together and talk, then fuck like wild rabbits for a hour or two. She would go home and not even call me wanting to talk about shit, just a text around 3pm every afternoon asking if she needed a "sitter" or not. Not once did she complain, she was probably the sweetest chick i ever dated, but i KNEW it was an act and i could see it in her eyes. The longer it went on the more she hinted about me coming to her place; we had a lot of fun together and it was a somewhat distant relationship. She never talked about her child other than telling me she had one, but the one time i mentioned it, her face lit up like i had never seen, i had finally asked about what she so badly wanted to speak about. She held back but told me all about her daughter, the good things, nothing bad and nothing about the ex. After a few months i had to bail, couldn't do it anymore and felt bad. Our last conversation ended with her telling me that i was the only man she could imagine being a father to her daughter. Fuck, it made me feel bad, but we split on good terms and she never contacted me again.
2 years ago i saw her at HEB alone with her kid and no wedding ring. She smiled at me and turned to walk the other way.
I wonder if she made a facebook post about me?
Oddly enough, the 3 girls I've dated who were raised by a single mother were fucking batshit crazy. Go figure.
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Amazing, tears were streaming down my face reading this.
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And in the end they win, because they have what you want.
a kid?
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Shoot, I was raised by a single mom. Wonderfully loving woman, great provider. Treated me like God's gift, and she wasn't even sure I was hers.
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a kid?
Multiple orifices to penetrate.
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Shoot, I was raised by a single mom. Wonderfully loving woman, great provider. Treated me like God's gift, and she wasn't even sure I was hers.
Just curious, how does your mom not know if you were hers?
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Multiple orifices to penetrate.
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that was bad, even for getbig, lol...
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It was hard enough getting use to my fiances miniature dogs! Couldn't imagine children hell no! I would be out the door who cares how good the pussy is! There are millions of women out there.
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Just curious, how does your mom not know if you were hers?
Well, you know. 60s, Prime, wild times. Coulda been anyone's.
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I urge all getbiggers to Support Dolce and Gabbana.
They think like getbiggers and believe a true family is a father, mother and kids.
not the bullshit the media is pushing to the masses.
(http://famouslogos.net/images/dolce-gabbana-logo.jpg)
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I urge all getbiggers to Support Dolce and Gabbana.
They think like getbiggers and believe a true family is a father, mother and kids.
not the bullshit the media is pushing to the masses.
(http://famouslogos.net/images/dolce-gabbana-logo.jpg)
It only took me to notice his eyes to know he is gay. Still, the only project that goodrum didn't invest into with vissy, it would have been a successful one.
(http://www.cpp-luxury.com/gallery_main/domenico-dolce-and-stefano-gabbana_2202.jpg)
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What's up with that dudes teeth in your avatar brother.
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What's up with that dudes teeth in your avatar brother.
He is a guinea pig. We made him drink Deca, back in our bro science days, and this is what happened to him.
(http://khofo.weebly.com/uploads/4/7/0/5/4705937/9737574.jpg?876)
Check out his training sessions.
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xczsto_deuxieme-jour-kobaye-musculation-me_sport
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Some single moms are desperate enough to perform disgusting acts, especially as they begin to age.
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Don't date a single mother who has superior forearm development than you. Her child will ridicule you.
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I know single moms that like to be naked and suck their tits. But sure, the husband was the problem in their breaking up.
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I know single moms that like to be naked and suck their tits. But sure, the husband was the problem in their breaking up.
Booty hahahaha
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they r gud to fuck
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He is a guinea pig. We made him drink Deca, back in our bro science days, and this is what happened to him.
(http://khofo.weebly.com/uploads/4/7/0/5/4705937/9737574.jpg?876)
Check out his training sessions.
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xczsto_deuxieme-jour-kobaye-musculation-me_sport
He needs crest whitening strips or veneers.
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So much ignorance in this thread. I can't even bother debating. To lump all single mom's as the same is ridiculous. I'm proud of being a single mom. My daughter is my amazing .
Haha. Yea sure you're 'proud'. Stop being a fucking cliche please. You're devalueing a devalued word even more. You're hardly 'proud', you accepted the hand you were dealt. No more, no less.
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Haha. Yea sure you're 'proud'. Stop being a fucking cliche please. You're devalueing a devalued word even more. You're hardly 'proud', you accepted the hand you were dealt. No more, no less.
Id say that goes for most of us, accepting the hand we are dealt. Obviously, some hands are better than others.
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Id say that goes for most of us, accepting the hand we are dealt. Obviously, some hands are better than others.
And that's fine. But calling yourself 'proud' of popping out a shithead kid and getting yourself dumped isn't really an achievement.
Or maybe it is for her standard. Who knows.
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Well, you know. 60s, Prime, wild times. Coulda been anyone's.
You are a funny man. Believe me when I tell you that a woman knows when she pops out a baby. Maybe there was a baby exchange at the commune or something. But hey, it is not always about who gives you life, it is more about who sustains it by raising you up. I say your mom rules!
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So much ignorance in this thread. I can't even bother debating. To lump all single mom's as the same is ridiculous. I'm proud of being a single mom. My daughter is my amazing .
Is this sarcasm?
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So much ignorance in this thread. I can't even bother debating. To lump all single mom's as the same is ridiculous. I'm proud of being a single mom. My daughter is my amazing .
I could not agree with you more. There was a time when my mom was a single mom after she and my dad separated. She wasn't real good at being a mom, single or otherwise. But like she'd tell me later on, she was the only mom I had.
She passed over 30 years ago. I miss that crazy woman to this day.
My real father did the best he could when he was a single dad. I appreciate that he tried his best to take care of me when my mom could not.
My mom met my stepfather, who was the best dad any son could ever hope for. He was more than a dad, he was my best friend too.
Speaking as a long ago grownup kid whose childhood was clearly not the stuff of Ozzie and Harriet, I am very grateful for all the adults who cared enough to make sure I had a good childhood.
The juveniles here who scorn single moms, some of whom they may have made single moms, are a pathetic bunch of jerks. To them I say, get over yourselves. You aren't all that.
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I could not agree with you more. There was a time when my mom was a single mom after she and my dad separated. She wasn't real good at being a mom, single or otherwise. But like she'd tell me later on, she was the only mom I had.
She passed over 30 years ago. I miss that crazy woman to this day.
My real father did the best he could when he was a single dad. I appreciate that he tried his best to take care of me when my mom could not.
My mom met my stepfather, who was the best dad any son could ever hope for. He was more than a dad, he was my best friend too.
Speaking as a long ago grownup kid whose childhood was clearly not the stuff of Ozzie and Harriet, I am very grateful for all the adults who cared enough to make sure I had a goof childhood.
The juveniles here who scorn single moms, some of whom they may have made single moms, are a pathetic bunch of jerks. To them I say, get over yourselves. You aren't all that.
I think you are missing our main thesis.
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I think you are missing our main thesis.
Perhaps you are right. I just want to give folks here a little bit of perspective from the child's viewpoint.
I get that hooking up with a woman who has children by another man can be problematical. Thank goodness some men are willing to take on this responsibility though.
In the beginning, I was a total asshole to my stepfather. I was an 8 year old spoiled brat who treated him like shit. He deserves much recognition for the fact that he didn't take a hike because of me.
It is just amazing to me that some guys still think getting pregnant is the fault of the woman. With a few exceptions, such as artificial insemination, a guy was involved in creating the child of a single mom.
Men who abandon that responsibility are the scum of the earth, not the mothers who raise their offspring.
Perhaps someone should start a thread asking what folks opinions are of men who abandon their children, leaving the woman to raise them as a single mom.
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Perhaps you are right. I just want to give folks here a little bit of perspective from the child's viewpoint.
I get that hooking up with a woman who has children by another man can be problematical. Thank goodness some men are willing to take on this responsibility though.
In the beginning, I was a total asshole to my stepfather. I was an 8 year old spoiled brat who treated him like shit. He deserves much recognition for the fact that he didn't take a hike because of me.
It is just amazing to me that some guys still think getting pregnant is the fault of the woman. With a few exceptions, such as artificial insemination, a guy was involved in creating the child of a single mom.
Men who abandon that responsibility are the scum of the earth, not the mothers who raise their offspring.
Perhaps someone should start a thread asking what folks opinions are of men who abandon their children, leaving the woman to raise them as a single mom.
Yes the dads who abandon their child and "baby mama" are scum that should already be well known. And of course it's the woman's fault she gets pregnant unless of course she is raped.
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So much ignorance in this thread. I can't even bother debating. To lump all single mom's as the same is ridiculous. I'm proud of being a single mom. My daughter is my amazing .
My daughter is my amazing?
A single mom called Bigtoughguy?
English, do you speak it?
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so much hostility in one thread
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Yes the dads who abandon their child and "baby mama" are scum that should already be well known. And of course it's the woman's fault she gets pregnant unless of course she is raped.
So the bottom line is that the child whose parents are fucked up is also fucked up....got it!
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My daughter is my amazing?
A single mom called Bigtoughguy?
English, do you speak it?
Yeah, it is a bit weird. Weirder thing have happened on Getbig.
It does peak one's imagination though, doesn't it?
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Yes the dads who abandon their child and "baby mama" are scum that should already be well known. And of course it's the woman's fault she gets pregnant unless of course she is raped.
I also want to add, that is seems like it is okay if a man has a libido that he satisfies, but if a woman is horny she's just a slut.
Really, I get that there are some ignorant women who try to trap even more ignorant men into a relationship by getting pregnant. What I don't buy is blaming this all on the woman/slut.
What is more, this thread speaks to the aftermath. There are many reasons why children are stuck with a single mom. Sometimes it is because the dad abandoned them. It can also be because the courts favor giving custody to the mom as opposed to the dad.
I've known some awesome single dads.
It might be interesting to know whether these dads had issues finding women who would have a relationship with them, considering there baggage. I suspect women are even less forgiving then men in these situations. Don't know why I believe this, but it I do. Discuss....
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You are a funny man. Believe me when I tell you that a woman knows when she pops out a baby. Maybe there was a baby exchange at the commune or something. But hey, it is not always about who gives you life, it is more about who sustains it by raising you up. I say your mom rules!
Only messing, Pop's been there the whole time. Great parents, both.
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As I stated in one of my messages before. Only a boy raised by a single mother will defend single mothers. In fact, he hates his mother unconsciously even if he defends her.
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As I stated in one of my messages before. Only a boy raised by a single mother will defend single mothers. In fact, he hates his mother unconsciously even if he defends her.
depends, some worship their mothers, others hate them. It all depend of said mother's control over him. There are 40 yo virgins who still live in their mom's basement.
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If you care for the mother and child, raising another man's child is not "beta as fuck".
Begging for money for a truck on the internet is, however.
Ok , how bad is it to be begging for a new truck to go out and screw single mom's?
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My daughter is my amazing .
At what?
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My daughter is my amazing .
Ah, sweet. Mine was my amazing abortion.
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So much ignorance in this thread. I can't even bother debating. To lump all single mom's as the same is ridiculous. I'm proud of being a single mom. My daughter is my amazing .
She is a loser, Your daughter will be a slut, no questions asked, its guaranteed.
She will be the type to never let her pussy breathe, their will have to be a dick in there every day or at least 4 times a week.
she will crave attention, she will crave cock. your daughter will be or is a meth addict.
Happy Mother's Day.
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They are more desperate, may are insecure (because of that failure). I know one who managed to get married quite fast after her first divorce to a very solid man, but she was still about 25, good looking and from a rich family. Most other cases are quite sad to begin with. Plenty of my friends are dating single moms, they are mostly divorced too already or just not exactly the largest fishes in the pool (not the richest, best looking, etc..), some have various addictions, and single moms are good at being tolerant to that stuff.
There's no way I'd take these females seriously given the fact that I'm decent looking, have money and not much issues in my life. Plenty of young and eager girls out there, why bother. If she would still be young, VERY hot and I'd like her for many reasons, I could consider it, but then it should be a girl that she has, not a boy. I could not stand a boy from a different man, girl, somewhy, would be ok.
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I also want to add, that is seems like it is okay if a man has a libido that he satisfies, but if a woman is horny she's just a slut.
Let me educate you a bit. WOMEN are more likely to call other WOMEN a slut than a man is. The problem is the lies that women tell and the act they put on. Much respect for women who respect other women and don't walk around bashing women based on their dress-code or number of men they have.
Women also have the incredible ability to do things themselves while making fun of another women that is doing the same thing. I remember hearing a story where this guy goes to a club and ends up leaving with some girl he met. The next morning she tells him that she must quickly call her girlfriend to make sure she is ok, she proceeds to tell him that her girlfriend "tends to meet random strangers in clubs and she just goes home with them". Many here know full well what I am talking about.
When the women stop with their lies, their lives will be way better, as long as they want to act as is they are moraly better than all other women they will continue to age and bitter up while jumping from guy to guy.
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I'm proud of being a single mom. My daughter is my amazing .
You just proved our point. ;D
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If a man is a true alpha, his wife doesn't have to spend half her life commuting to a shitty job.
Single moms are pathetic.
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Da vinci brought up an interesting point, single moms are great at tolerating your bullshit. I liked knowing that the chick was at home friday and saturday nights watching her kid, least I could keep a leash on her and knew she wasn't grinding up on random guys dicks at the club. She was also easy as fuck to entertain, a night out at the club and a romantic dinner was huge to her. I was her entire life, that bitch called me every fucking day during the 5 months we dated, i liked it.
The girl Im seeing now is the complete opposite, no kids, makes 100k a year and actually has a life. But she's way too focused on herself, all she cares about is making money and taking care of her parents. I already told her Im not gonna tolerate it.
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Da vinci brought up an interesting point, single moms are great at tolerating your bullshit. I liked knowing that the chick was at home friday and saturday nights watching her kid, least I could keep a leash on her and knew she wasn't grinding up on random guys dicks at the club. She was also easy as fuck to entertain, a night out at the club and a romantic dinner was huge to her. I was her entire life, that bitch called me every fucking day during the 5 months we dated, i liked it.
The girl Im seeing now is the complete opposite, no kids, makes 100k a year and actually has a life. But she's way too focused on herself, all she cares about is making money and taking care of her parents. I already told her Im not gonna tolerate it.
very true. They're very busy so not much time to fuck around and when you do see them, not much time is wasted in getting naked...
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Da vinci brought up an interesting point, single moms are great at tolerating your bullshit. I liked knowing that the chick was at home friday and saturday nights watching her kid, least I could keep a leash on her and knew she wasn't grinding up on random guys dicks at the club. She was also easy as fuck to entertain, a night out at the club and a romantic dinner was huge to her. I was her entire life, that bitch called me every fucking day during the 5 months we dated, i liked it.
The girl Im seeing now is the complete opposite, no kids, makes 100k a year and actually has a life. But she's way too focused on herself, all she cares about is making money and taking care of her parents. I already told her Im not gonna tolerate it.
it s actually very interesting, there are parents who condition their daughter or son to become rich then take care of...them when they re old. Maybe they even tell their kids to not have kids and to only focus on having money/fun and pay them shit...We are the product our parents wanted us to be. Their creature. Still better than having parents who abandon/ignore you or regret giving you birth or destroy you willingly so they can see you die before they do. We dont choose to exist, we exist because other people wanted us to exist and because it somehow gave a meaning to their own lives. Well until they get bored of it.
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For god, for country, for family, most horrible crimes happens with smiles on victims faces.
Still, I would love to give back the affection, good moments, money to my parents.
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Perhaps you are right. I just want to give folks here a little bit of perspective from the child's viewpoint.
I get that hooking up with a woman who has children by another man can be problematical. Thank goodness some men are willing to take on this responsibility though.
In the beginning, I was a total asshole to my stepfather. I was an 8 year old spoiled brat who treated him like shit. He deserves much recognition for the fact that he didn't take a hike because of me.
It is just amazing to me that some guys still think getting pregnant is the fault of the woman. With a few exceptions, such as artificial insemination, a guy was involved in creating the child of a single mom.
Men who abandon that responsibility are the scum of the earth, not the mothers who raise their offspring.
Perhaps someone should start a thread asking what folks opinions are of men who abandon their children, leaving the woman to raise them as a single mom.
I am with a single mom for two years and it seems her 8 yr old is causing her and I some issues-I have two daughters of my own-maybe you can help me understand what to do -can I PM you thx
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I am with a single mom for two years and it seems her 8 yr old is causing her and I some issues-I have two daughters of my own-maybe you can help me understand what to do -can I PM you thx
Get out of the relationship now, cease all communications and move on.
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I am with a single mom for two years and it seems her 8 yr old is causing her and I some issues-I have two daughters of my own-maybe you can help me understand what to do -can I PM you thx
PM me.
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Get out of the relationship now, cease all communications and move on.
easier said then done and Im not with them full time
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it s actually very interesting, there are parents who condition their daughter or son to become rich then take care of...them when they re old. Maybe they even tell their kids to not have kids and to only focus on having money/fun and pay them shit...We are the product our parents wanted us to be. Their creature. Still better than having parents who abandon/ignore you or regret giving you birth or destroy you willingly so they can see you die before they do. We dont choose to exist, we exist because other people wanted us to exist and because it somehow gave a meaning to their own lives. Well until they get bored of it.
This is very common in Vietnamese culture. I dated a girl from Vietnam who came to the US when she was 16. Her entire family eventually made it over. The whole family circle revolved around taking care of the parents. The kids stayed at home with their parents until they got married. The parents had small jobs and didn't make much money, but they conditioned the kids to take their education to the highest level. If you weren't a Doctor or Lawyer, you weren't anything. They looked down on normal degrees and even engineering.
By the time the kids were in their 30's, only 1 out of 5 had kids and was married. The others were all very successful and lived at home with the parents or at least in the same subdivision. It was interesting how everything revolved around the parents and not the kids. The mother didn't drive anywhere or pat for anything, all of her earnings she kept in a savings account.
Two of the brothers had their own dentist offices and made big money. The other brother is a financial planner for a big time investment company in New York and he fly's down to Houston almost every weekend.
On one side i think they are brain washed and on the other it actually makes sense. They take care of their parents and it's a disgrace not to.
No single mothers in the entire family unit either. They would probably remove them from the family.
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Single moms are easy to fuck but not relationship material. End of story
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Single moms are easy to fuck but not relationship material. End of story
Really says it all, spot on KTK.
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Single moms are easy to fuck but not relationship material. End of story
X2.
I know Ill be trashed for saying this but if you want wife material ...
start going to church on sunday mornings and get invioved in their outdoor activities to collect money for charitires etc.
Wooosssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Thank you! They're amazing in bed but honestly who the fuck wants to deal with a kid that's not theirs? Also if she's dumb enough to get knocked up and end up getting divorced or break up wih her boyfriend is that really the type of woman you want to get into a relationship with??
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Single moms are easy to fuck but not relationship material. End of story
Yep. It pretty much sums it up.
X2.
I know Ill be trashed for saying this but if you want wife material ...
start going to church on sanday mornings and get invioved in their outdoor activities to collect money for charitires etc.
Wooosssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Honestly, sounds like a good idea to me.
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I am with a single mom for two years and it seems her 8 yr old is causing her and I some issues-I have two daughters of my own-maybe you can help me understand what to do -can I PM you thx
You may PM me if you like.
Having raised a son and a daughter, I can safely say boys are a lot different then girls to bring up. Both my kids are wonderful adults. When our daughter was a teenager, she was a handful, our son, not so much.
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X2.
I know Ill be trashed for saying this but if you want wife material ...
start going to church on sunday mornings and get invioved in their outdoor activities to collect money for charitires etc.
Wooosssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
There was a guy here from NC who was smashing a married woman who sang in her Church Choir.
He had posted pics as well.
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In this thread can we also discuss the psychology of single women who are really into their pet dog?
Would be particularly interested in the assessments of Quickerblade and NaturalMan.
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see... an 8 year old SHOULD be taught to treat ALL adults with respect.
When an 8 year old is told "this person is very special to me and thus deserves a higher level of respect, he/she DOES it.
All this shit about "I can't stop my 8 year old from saying mean things to this person" is silliness. You put their legoes in the blender if they try that shit. Then you put their Playmobile in the blender when they say it again. If you have to, you smash the iPad too. Soon, the kid will be playing with dirty laundry and empty water bottles, and will have learned to STFU and show respect to his elders.
I treat my 8 year old with complete respect, and I expect/get the same. If i was shagging a lady and he came up with "this bitch ain't my real mom, screw her", I'd be handing out his toys to his classmates, lol, the liittle shit :) seriously, he wuld want to be nice to her because she was important to me. Parents that can't control their kids dropped the ball along the way - you don't suddenly have an 8 year old that is out of control. He was out of control at 7, he got away with everything at 6, he was spoiled at 5, he was allowed to scream and hit at 4, etc etc.
IF a single mom has an out of control 8 year old, you know 2 things are true...
1) She is the problem, she let that happen
2) Kid will be out of CONTROL by age 12, he will be runnnig streets and doing crime and maybe even using steroids and meth, the 2 most dangerous compounds known to man.
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Single mothers are often depressed and destroy their kids very early;
Harv Rev Psychiatry. 2009;17(2):147-56. doi: 10.1080/10673220902899714.
Infants of depressed mothers.
Tronick E1, Reck C.
Author information
Abstract
Depression is the most frequent psychiatric disorder and has long-term, compromising effects on the mother-infant relationship and the child's development. The infant continuously faces a climate of negative affect that disrupts the interactive experience of the infant and the mother. This article presents findings on the impact of maternal depression on the infant affective state and the specific interactive patterns associated with infant affect regulation. Mother-infant interactions were studied using microanalytic, second-by-second methods in the laboratory and also by using naturalistic home observations. The empirical findings highlight the impact of maternal depression on the infant affective state and on the capacity for repairing states of miscoordination. The impact is seen not only in severely and acutely depressed mothers, but in mothers who have only high levels of depressive symptoms. These infants develop negative affective states that bias their interactions with others and exacerbate their affective problems. Further findings with regard to gender-specific effects show that male infants are more vulnerable than female infants to maternal depression. The findings point out the need for therapeutic interventions that focus on the mother-infant dyad and infant affective state in the treatment of maternal depression.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19373622
Z Psychosom Med Psychother. 2004;50(2):153-70.
[Infants' moods and the chronicity of depressive symptoms: the unique creative process of being together for good or ill. Part 2: The formation of negative moods in infants and children of depressed mothers].
[Article in German]
Tronick EZ1.
Author information
Abstract
In this second paper I present data on the effects of maternal depression on infant mood. Maternal depression is relatively stable and the infant continuously faces an affective climate characterized by negative affects. These negative affects disrupt the interactive experience of the infant and the mother. Positive affective matching is limited and reparation of mismatching states is infrequent. As a consequence infants develop a negative mood that biases their interactions with others and further exacerbates their affective problems.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15146392
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see... an 8 year old SHOULD be taught to treat ALL adults with respect.
When an 8 year old is told "this person is very special to me and thus deserves a higher level of respect, he/she DOES it.
All this shit about "I can't stop my 8 year old from saying mean things to this person" is silliness. You put their legoes in the blender if they try that shit. Then you put their Playmobile in the blender when they say it again. If you have to, you smash the iPad too. Soon, the kid will be playing with dirty laundry and empty water bottles, and will have learned to STFU and show respect to his elders.
I treat my 8 year old with complete respect, and I expect/get the same. If i was shagging a lady and he came up with "this bitch ain't my real mom, screw her", I'd be handing out his toys to his classmates, lol, the liittle shit :) seriously, he wuld want to be nice to her because she was important to me. Parents that can't control their kids dropped the ball along the way - you don't suddenly have an 8 year old that is out of control. He was out of control at 7, he got away with everything at 6, he was spoiled at 5, he was allowed to scream and hit at 4, etc etc.
IF a single mom has an out of control 8 year old, you know 2 things are true...
1) She is the problem, she let that happen
2) Kid will be out of CONTROL by age 12, he will be runnnig streets and doing crime and maybe even using steroids and meth, the 2 most dangerous compounds known to man.
Meltdown.
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In this thread can we also discuss the psychology of single women who are really into their pet dog?
Would be particularly interested in the assessments of Quickerblade and NaturalMan.
just like men who are really into their pet dogs, they simply consider them as perfect non threatening "pure" "friends" "parents". Failing to understand these animals just stick around because they are...feeding them. Just like with humans, pets stick around because of interests...major one being..being fed.
They also "love" them because...they can completely control them, and dont expect them to "backstab them", what a more complex animal like another man or woman could do. Pets cant fight back and do everything you want them to do, which is reassuring. And when they die you simply buy another one.
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In this thread can we also discuss the psychology of single women who are really into their pet dog?
Would be particularly interested in the assessments of Quickerblade and NaturalMan.
I've women who have more than one pet to be pain in the asses, more than normal.
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just like men who are really into their pet dogs, they simply consider them as perfect non threatening "pure" "friends" "parents". Failing to understand these animals just stick around because they are...feeding them. Just like with humans, pets stick around because of interests...major one being..being fed.
They also "love" them because...they can completely control them, and dont expect them to "backstab them", what a more complex animal like another man or woman could do. Pets cant fight back and do everything you want them to do, which is reassuring. And when they die you simply buy another one.
Why are humans and dogs so good at living together?
Domestic dogs are descended from wolves so recently that they remain wolves in all biological essentials, including their social behavior. Wolf packs have some intriguing parallels with human families:
They are territorial.
They hunt cooperatively.
Pack members are emotionally bonded and greet each other enthusiastically after they have been separated.
In a wolf pack, only the alpha male and female are sexually active even though other pack members are sexually mature.
The social adaptations of dogs and humans are similar enough that dogs can live perfectly happy lives surrounded by humans and vice versa. Dogs are pampered with the best of food and medical care, frequently sleeping in their owners' comfortable beds.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-human-beast/200904/why-are-humans-and-dogs-so-good-living-together
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just like men who are really into their pet dogs, they simply consider them as perfect non threatening "pure" "friends" "parents". Failing to understand these animals just stick around because they are...feeding them. Just like with humans, pets stick around because of interests...major one being..being fed.
They also "love" them because...they can completely control them, and dont expect them to "backstab them", what a more complex animal like another man or woman could do. Pets cant fight back and do everything you want them to do, which is reassuring. And when they die you simply buy another one.
I fart in my dogs face and they still love me. One did give me a nasty "silent but deadly" the other night with a rather smug attitude.
Oh well, she gave as good as she got.
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Da vinci brought up an interesting point, single moms are great at tolerating your bullshit. I liked knowing that the chick was at home friday and saturday nights watching her kid, least I could keep a leash on her and knew she wasn't grinding up on random guys dicks at the club. She was also easy as fuck to entertain, a night out at the club and a romantic dinner was huge to her. I was her entire life, that bitch called me every fucking day during the 5 months we dated, i liked it.
The girl Im seeing now is the complete opposite, no kids, makes 100k a year and actually has a life. But she's way too focused on herself, all she cares about is making money and taking care of her parents. I already told her Im not gonna tolerate it.
Hmmm, maybe she's afraid that you'll beg her to buy you a new truck. Just sayin' ;)
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Had to forward this from the "15 reasons to date a single mom" thread, this post has shock value. I literally got butterflies from it :-X
I dated a single mom, trust me I was more bitter about it than you are. I would refuse to let her take pictures of me with the kid in it, used to bite my tongue if she even asked me to buy the kid a bag of chips at subway. But all it took was a few weeks of dating a woman without kids to get quickly reminded of the bullshit that comes with dating a chick in her twenties with lots of freedom. With that single mom she was at home reading thomas the train books texting me while I was out at the club with my boys. Shed have dinner waiting for me, this was on a friday and saturday night. A normal girl is gonna be out at the bar or club with her five girlfriends grinding on some random guys dick. She can go out get trashed and wasted cause she can sleep till noon the next day, that single mom had to be up bright and early at 8 am for cartoons!
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just like men who are really into their pet dogs, they simply consider them as perfect non threatening "pure" "friends" "parents". Failing to understand these animals just stick around because they are...feeding them. Just like with humans, pets stick around because of interests...major one being..being fed.
They also "love" them because...they can completely control them, and dont expect them to "backstab them", what a more complex animal like another man or woman could do. Pets cant fight back and do everything you want them to do, which is reassuring. And when they die you simply buy another one.
how do you explain dogs being friendly and loving to people that don't feed them?
people control dogs? most don't take it any farther than making them crap and piss outside instead of in the house
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just like men who are really into their pet dogs, they simply consider them as perfect non threatening "pure" "friends" "parents". Failing to understand these animals just stick around because they are...feeding them. Just like with humans, pets stick around because of interests...major one being..being fed.
They also "love" them because...they can completely control them, and dont expect them to "backstab them", what a more complex animal like another man or woman could do. Pets cant fight back and do everything you want them to do, which is reassuring. And when they die you simply buy another one.
You either don't or probably should not own a dog.
There have been cases where dogs have traveled great distances on their own to find their owners.
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most single mothers are fat and ugly and hate men, their sons will become homos. Lots of homos in the making. Lots lots lots of them. Daughters will become lesbian or twisted workaholics. Goes without saying, it s mostly the white race that is concerned. They ll get crushed by family oriented muslims in europe and by christian latinos in north america.
I must concur, most are not male-friendly.
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BUMP to this thread, because platz missed it
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The easiest to fuck
I banged a hot 18 yo single mom last week. It was pretty easy.
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They pick losers. Otherwise they would not be single and a mother. One exception would be if they are widowed.
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I'm "enjoying" a single mom right now. She has a 2.5 year old boy. I went over this week for the first time, he woke up and started calling me "dad".
That broke my heart. She told me he says that to all the men he sees in public but still...
I told her before going there there's no way I would go into a relationship with her, it's just for sex, but she's already getting attached from having seen me twice.
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I'm "enjoying" a single mom right now. She has a 2.5 year old boy. I went over this week for the first time, he woke up and started calling me "dad".
That broke my heart. She told me he says that to all the men he sees in public but still...
I told her before going there there's no way I would go into a relationship with her, it's just for sex, but she's already getting attached from having seen me twice.
Her estimated weight please?
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Her estimated weight please?
She told me 210-215 but does not weight that much at 5'5. She wears if very well though. Love shaking/wobbling that fat/plump ass and pillowy thighs, she puts up with my fetish big time and likes it!
Has a nice peach pussy as well.
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She told me 210-215 but does not weight that much at 5'5. She wears if very well though. Love shaking/wobbling that fat/plump ass and pillowy thighs, she puts up with my fetish big time and likes it!
Has a nice peach pussy as well.
"let me just say: brother, I like your style"
-Mike Milligan
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"let me just say: brother, I like your style"
-Mike Milligan
Haha, thanks man! I may see her tomorrow but was telling me she's gonna have her period soon and if I wasen't going to go over, she understands.
I think by showing sympathy and actually goiung, it will win me 2 bj's. She knows I need to cum more than once when I'm over there, lol...
But I dated a very sexy 44 year old milf tonight and her kids are teens so that would have an actual chance of working out. She's not a heavy woman but seems to have a very nice body, trains 6x's/week and pilates 3x's!
More to come...
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A co worker is living with a single mom.
She's a psycho rigid bitch, controlling every aspect of the life of my friend. There a place for shoes, a place for clothes, a place for his bag when he come back from work. He's working at night and the bitch wake up when my friend come home, to check if everything is in the right place.
Her daughter is not allowed to eat in certain place of the house.
She got my friend with her pussy.
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Haha, thanks man! I may see her tomorrow but was telling me she's gonna have her period soon and if I wasen't going to go over, she understands.
I think by showing sympathy and actually goiung, it will win me 2 bj's. She knows I need to cum more than once when I'm over there, lol...
But I dated a very sexy 44 year old milf tonight and her kids are teens so that would have an actual chance of working out. She's not a heavy woman but seems to have a very nice body, trains 6x's/week and pilates 3x's!
More to come...
Lol...teens maybe the worst. Watch when they turn off your alarm, disrespect you (you are sleeping with their mom), and you can do nothing about it.
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A co worker is living with a single mom.
She's a psycho rigid bitch, controlling every aspect of the life of my friend. There a place for shoes, a place for clothes, a place for his bag when he come back from work. He's working at night and the bitch wake up when my friend come home, to check if everything is in the right place.
Her daughter is not allowed to eat in certain place of the house.
She got my friend with her pussy.
Gold plated and serving caviar?
Or what the fuck is going on here? Is he suicidal/self-hating?
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Lol...teens maybe the worst. Watch when they turn off your alarm, disrespect you (you are sleeping with their mom), and you can do nothing about it.
Haven't used one in years, lol!
Dated one with a teen. He thought my farting and "weight lifting" thing was cool so we talked easily. The guy before me beat the crap out of her, so was not hard to be liked.
The other woman two girls (teens) One of them was farting and burping (18yrs old) at the table, that was the biggest/odd moment lived. My ex was not happy, I didn't make a big deal of it. Was hoping a fart of my own would come up to hopefully be louder than hers to show her "I won"
Stupid girls.
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Haven't used one in years, lol!
Dated one with a teen. He thought my farting and "weight lifting" thing was cool so we talked easily. The guy before me beat the crap out of her, so was not hard to be liked.
The other woman two girls (teens) One of them was farting and burping (18yrs old) at the table, that was the biggest/odd moment lived. My ex was not happy, I didn't make a big deal of it. Was hoping a fart of my own would come up to hopefully be louder than hers to show her "I won"
Stupid girls.
I still haven't gave up on a dream to fuck a mother and her daughter. The ultimate win.
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A co worker is living with a single mom.
She's a psycho rigid bitch, controlling every aspect of the life of my friend. There a place for shoes, a place for clothes, a place for his bag when he come back from work. He's working at night and the bitch wake up when my friend come home, to check if everything is in the right place.
Her daughter is not allowed to eat in certain place of the house.
She got my friend with her pussy.
I have a similar friend dating a single mom. He doesn't have much time for friends, and had to quit pretty much everything that was once super important to him like his volunteer work. Worse thing is that every and I mean every facebook post he makes is about how great she is. It's weird. And she's only a 6/10. :-\
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I have a similar friend dating a single mom. He doesn't have much time for friends, and had to quit pretty much everything that was once super important to him like his volunteer work. Worse thing is that every and I mean every facebook post he makes is about how great she is. It's weird. And she's only a 6/10. :-\
Is his name Howard by chance?
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Trailer trash of peace.
She was a pharmacist you moron.
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Is his name Howard by chance?
No.
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Jesus ritch up your standards a little bit 210-215 at 5'5 and a kid. Disgusting!
I did the same gross shit a few years ago before I met my wife. I broke up with a long time gf.
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Jesus ritch up your standards a little bit 210-215 at 5'5 and a kid. Disgusting!
I did the same gross shit a few years ago before I met my wife. I broke up with a long time gf.
Not joking, she looks waaaayyy less than that but understand why you'd say that as those stats are frightening. I even told her I was worried when she told me that, lol!
It's super convenient as she's always home because of her kid and stays up late.
But she's already getting attached to me, shit! Just saw her twice, but that's what happens when the Ritchmeister casts his spell upon you, hahaha....
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Not joking, she looks waaaayyy less than that but understand why you'd say that as those stats are frightening. I even told her I was worried when she told me that, lol!
It's super convenient as she's always home because of her kid and stays up late.
But she's already getting attached to me, shit! Just saw her twice, but that's what happens when the Ritchmeister casts his spell upon you, hahaha....
Dude she must be way lighter than 210. A woman who weighs 210 at 5'5 is a friggin whale. An in-shape woman at 5'5 must be around 120-130 I think.
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Dude she must be way lighter than 210. A woman who weighs 210 at 5'5 is a friggin whale. An in-shape woman at 5'5 must be around 120-130 I think.
Shut up. ritch likes em plump
(http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Fat-Woman-11.jpeg)
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Shut up. ritch likes em plump
(http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Fat-Woman-11.jpeg)
Hahaha, trust me, she looks nothing like that, lol!!! Body nor face, no way, would never get it up, lol!!!
Put it this way, when I see fat arms, that is usually where I stop. But women with an extra 20-30lbs are just so soft and nice to cuddle, it's nuts!
When she sits on top of me, her flesh just presses against me all over, just love it!!!
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And off I go for some nice single mom sexy time!
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And off I go for some nice single mom sexy time!
Why is she a single mom? did he leave her?
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Why is she a single mom? did he leave her?
The guy wore a condom, she was taking the pill. She took it as a sign of destiny of sorts.
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In my honest opinion, a single person ought to avoid single moms or single dads. Reasoning is simple: you are their option b or c, which translates into your authority being put into question repeatedly, especially by the kid(s).
Think of it this way: for the single dad to end up as a single dad he probably had a shitty wife to begin with (which creates baaaad habits that are carried on to other relationship,) or she passed away. To end up as a single mon she probably tried nailing his ass to the ground with a child (the old good girl/bad boy adage) or she is a fucking pain to deal with altogether.
Either way, not the ideal start to a relationship. Unless you're just looking for pussy/dick miles, which you will most likely get. Now, if YOU think the kid doesn't come with the pussy/dick, you got another thing coming.
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In my honest opinion, a single person ought to avoid single moms or single dads. Reasoning is simple: you are their option b or c, which translates into your authority being put into question repeatedly, especially by the kid(s).
Think of it this way: for the single dad to end up as a single dad he probably had a shitty wife to begin with (which creates baaaad habits that are carried on to other relationship,) or she passed away. To end up as a single mon she probably tried nailing his ass to the ground with a child (the old good girl/bad boy adage) or she is a fucking pain to deal with altogether.
Either way, not the ideal start to a relationship. Unless you're just looking for pussy/dick miles, which you will most likely get. Now, if YOU think the kid doesn't come with the pussy/dick, you got another thing coming.
This is one possibility. There many other reasons people end up being single parents, one of which you only mention in passing.
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This thread deserves a bump for new stories to keep the getbiggers strong out there.
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This thread deserves a bump for new stories to keep the getbiggers strong out there.
The story is that moms are highly overrated, since children screw your sex life.
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Very important thread
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Even Peter Jackson had experience with the offspring of single moms - best part starts around the minute mark...
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It's bad enough coping with the demands of a woman without also having to tolerate some shitty kid who isn't even of your loins.
Look at Mr. Brady. Fucker became so scrambled dealing with Mrs. Brady and those dippy daughters he became a pole smoker to escape the nightmare!
Then he caught the AIDS and croaked! :o
Yeah, stay clear of single moms.
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Not my kid, not my problem. I'd have sex with her maybe even a casual relationship but I wouldn't assume a parental role with her child ever.
Good post, good sense = good life
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What about when they post stupid pics of the kid on facebook as if anyone gives a shit about the kid, including her!
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Single moms are great to fuck and hang out with once you drown and dispose of the kid.
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Single moms are great to fuck and hang out with once you drown and dispose of the kid.
Is you real name Christian Longo?
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Is you real name Christian Longo?
Mike Finkel.
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Single moms are great to fuck and hang out with once you drown and dispose of the kid.
So you better forget thos 'milfs' and put more focus on child-free women
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Single moms are the lowest form of human life.
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So you better forget thos 'milfs' and put more focus on child-free women
They're still milfs. Just moms of missing children.
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They're still milfs. Just moms of missing children.
Oedipus complex of peace :D
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She told me 210-215 but does not weight that much at 5'5. She wears if very well though. Love shaking/wobbling that fat/plump ass and pillowy thighs, she puts up with my fetish big time and likes it!
Has a nice peach pussy as well.
LMAO!!
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I see every one who posts on here has perfect women and can choose who they want in life ::) ::) ::) ::) .
Sorry people, but everyone is deluding themselves if they pretend they would reject a woman who has a kid/ kids LOL
Ive dated women with no kids and it went horribly, and also dated a few people who had kids who were great.
I was really the problem in them not working out, wanting to still fuck around.
The bullshit people on here talk is amazing. ;D
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I see every one who posts on here has perfect women and can choose who they want in life ::) ::) ::) ::) .
Sorry people, but everyone is deluding themselves if they pretend they would reject a woman who has a kid/ kids LOL
Ive dated women with no kids and it went horribly, and also dated a few people who had kids who were great.
I was really the problem in them not working out, wanting to still fuck around.
The bullshit people on here talk is amazing. ;D
Fun time OK, relationship no way
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I see every one who posts on here has perfect women and can choose who they want in life ::) ::) ::) ::) .
Sorry people, but everyone is deluding themselves if they pretend they would reject a woman who has a kid/ kids LOL
Ive dated women with no kids and it went horribly, and also dated a few people who had kids who were great.
I was really the problem in them not working out, wanting to still fuck around.
The bullshit people on here talk is amazing. ;D
You're deluding yourself if you think everyone here are so hopeless that single moms are their only option.
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I see every one who posts on here has perfect women and can choose who they want in life ::) ::) ::) ::) .
Sorry people, but everyone is deluding themselves if they pretend they would reject a woman who has a kid/ kids LOL
Ive dated women with no kids and it went horribly, and also dated a few people who had kids who were great.
I was really the problem in them not working out, wanting to still fuck around.
The bullshit people on here talk is amazing. ;D
Yes, 99% of what getbiggers say on here is all talk. It rarely ever translates into their real life. But there is nothing more manly than trying to appear manly to a bunch of people on a bodybuilding Internet forum. :D :D
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You're deluding yourself if you think everyone here are so hopeless that single moms are their only option.
And this..
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the "single mom" thing (in terms of whether to date them or not) really falls onto what type of man you are:
-if you're a scumbag- then it won't matter if they have a kid or not--you'll just fuck them and move on
-if you have a conscious of some sort then it no longer becomes about just merely "fucking" them; you start taking stock of the fact that they may want be looking for a man to be a husband and father to there kids...this also depends on the woman too btw
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women after birthing a child can rebound just as well as I can a basketball
I'm 5'7" and White.
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women after birthing a child can rebound just as well as I can a basketball
I'm 5'7" and White.
but using your logic, does that statement apply to women of all races or just women of some particular race?
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the big difference - at least as it should be - is that relationships with single moms will be based out of their house. Relationships with single chicks will be based out of bars, clubs, wherever you hang out.
Single moms are GROUNDED most of the time, so it tends to end out of boredom sooner for younger dudes who like to go out.
Kids are great, but you're entering a family unit when you go there.
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Yes, 99% of what getbiggers say on here is all talk. It rarely ever translates into their real life. But there is nothing more manly than trying to appear manly to a bunch of people on a bodybuilding Internet forum. :D :D
I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.
ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.
spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.
the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.
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All joking aside, for me, in most of the cases a single mom is a red flag. There's a reason why they're single. Also, their children's father may be still around, sometimes trying to bang her every once in a while. No men should tolerate such thing. So, if I wanted a serious relationship I'd go for the one without children. :)
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Kids are great, but you're entering a family unit when you go there.
Micheal Jackson believed this as well.
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All joking aside, for me, in most of the cases a single mom is a red flag. There's a reason why they're single. Also, their children's father may be still around, sometimes trying to bang her every once in a while. No men should tolerate such thing. So, if I wanted a serious relationship I'd go for the one without children. :)
That's automatically assuming that the women is to blame for the divorce/separation. In most cases of separation/divorce, its a 2-way street. No relationship exists in a vacuum. If you can say that being a single mom is a red flag, then being a single dad is also a red flag for single women without kids.
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All joking aside, for me, in most of the cases a single mom is a red flag. There's a reason why they're single. Also, their children's father may be still around, sometimes trying to bang her every once in a while. No men should tolerate such thing. So, if I wanted a serious relationship I'd go for the one without children. :)
Very accurate statement. Also it comes down to the fact that I don't want to raise another man's kid. It's fine if someone else wants to but it's not for me. Plus like you said there is extra drama which I do not like at all.
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Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.
Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
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Depends on the situation.
I have dated single moms with kids totally out of the picture and the moms were still girls.
I have dated single moms where they had kid one wk and not the other (that fling for me worked out pretty well)
I have dated single moms where the kid was actually a pretty cool as kid (this is very rare)
You actually can benefit from the situation its all on how you look at it. If your the pimp type you def will have some time for the side pieces.
I got no prob being a kids friend and hanging a lil if hes a neat kid otherwise i would leave the relationship at the door unless your desperate and will except to have that type of weight on shoulders
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That's automatically assuming that the women is to blame for the divorce/separation. In most cases of separation/divorce, its a 2-way street. No relationship exists in a vacuum. If you can say that being a single mom is a red flag, then being a single dad is also a red flag for single women without kids.
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Good point, but most of the single moms I know are not girlfriend material. Am I doing wrong by assuming they're all like that? Of course, but you know, better be safe than sorry. :D
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Good point, but most of the single moms I know are not girlfriend material. Am I doing wrong by assuming they're all like that? Of course, but you know, better be safe than sorry. :D
And many women without kids look at fathers who are divorced with kids and think they are not boyfriend material.
At the end of the day (cue Wes), it appears it has little do with sex (male or female), and more to do with the fact that either sex does not want to date someone who has been divorced with kids (especially with kids, since the person will still have to have contact with their ex's because of the kids).
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And many women without kids look at fathers who are divorced with kids and think they are not boyfriend material.
At the end of the day (cue Wes), it appears it has little do with sex (male or female), and more to do with the fact that either sex does not want to date someone who has been divorced with kids (especially with kids, since the person will still have to have contact with their ex's because of the kids).
I think that most people tend to look for a partner with a similar position in society (children, education, lifestyle, etc). A single mom/dad will prob be better off with a partner who has children as well, or at least someone with a child wish.
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Big difference between being a single mom over a divorce and some slut that got knocked up by a random dude. The girl with a kid that's never been married =run and warn your get big bro's..
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I think that most people tend to look for a partner with a similar position in society (children, education, lifestyle, etc). A single mom/dad will prob be better off with a partner who has children as well, or at least someone with a child wish.
Agreed, which is why I am saying its stupid to call out single moms, since dads who are divorced with kids also have a difficult time.
I know a guy who dated a women for about a year. He is divorced with 2 kids. She eventually dumped him, as she said she saw no future with him because of all the baggage he had (strained relationship with ex-wife and kids).
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Big difference between being a single mom over a divorce and some slut that got knocked up by a random dude. The girl with a kid that's never been married =run and warn your get big bro's..
Spot on. There's a huge difference betwee those 2 kind of women.
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Agreed, which is why I am saying its stupid to call out single moms, since dads who are divorced with kids also have a difficult time.
I know a guy who dated a women for about a year. He is divorced with 2 kids. She eventually dumped him, as she said she saw no future with him because of all the baggage he had (strained relationship with ex-wife and kids).
That sucks after dating for a year.. In this sense I was a jackass as well, but I learned my lesson :-[
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That sucks after dating for a year.. In this sense I was a jackass as well, but I learned my lesson :-[
Well, this guy "promised" this girl the world, but he couldn't deliver because of his ex, 2 kids, and child support. So, she left. Can't say I blame her. She wanted to get on with her life. She felt like he was holding her back.
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Vile disgusting creatures
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Vile disgusting creatures
Foul whores, the lot of them.
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Take away all the government funding and social programs for single moms and see how many new single moms there are. Women would be more apt to be responsible in both their sexual habits and choice of mate.
But hey, who would vote Liberal/Decmocrat then?
Fuck socialism.
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I will share something from my personal life
there is this GORGEOUS woman who wants to date me....TOO GORGEOUS actually
she's a walking barbie doll
Great Job
Not a Ho
she has two kids
.....there is no God
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I will share something from my personal life
there is this GORGEOUS woman who wants to date me....TOO GORGEOUS actually
she's a walking barbie doll
Great Job
Not a Ho
she has two kids
.....there is no God
Fuck her till you're bored and then run away
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Fuck her till you're bored and then run away
5 years ago-this would be the answer
now though--I grew this fucking "conscience" that is ruining my cock's life.....
...however, i should just ask her (straight up) if she just wants the dick or is looking for a dad
wait!!!--- i think I just answered my own question...Huzzah
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5 years ago-this would be the answer
now though--I grew this fucking "conscience" that is ruining my cock's life.....
...however, i should just ask her (straight up) if she just wants the dick or is looking for a dad
wait!!!--- i think I just answered my own question...Huzzah
Bingo, she wants both. Now ask yourself, do you want her pussy AND to become the 'father 2.0'?
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Bingo, she wants both. Now ask yourself, do you want her pussy AND to become the 'father 2.0'?
she's a lovely woman...honestly, besides being gorgeous she's actually very sweet.....but BY NO MEANS do I want to be a dad to any kids at this moment in my life
put it this way---If she didn't have kids, I wouldn't even be having this conversation....I would just date her like a normal chick
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she's a lovely woman...honestly, besides being gorgeous she's actually very sweet.....but BY NO MEANS do I want to be a dad to any kids at this moment in my life
put it this way---If she didn't have kids, I wouldn't even be having this conversation....I would just date her like a normal chick
Sounds like a tough dilemma, but I would suggest to be honest about your intentions in case you really care about her. Then it's up to her if she wants to start a LAT relationship or whatever.
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Sounds like a tough dilemma, but I would suggest to be honest about your intentions in case you really care about her. Then it's up to her if she wants to start a LAT relationship or whatever.
I bolded the most important word in your reply that will save both of us a lot of time and even though it will make for a awkward conversation between her and I (if I decide to go one with this whole thing that is )
just remember young men who read this conversation---just be honest....even if it makes for a "awkward" conversation it will save you a lot of time and win you a lot of respect
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is looking for a dad
Ya you've always come across as a real picket fencer, JohnnyMinivan.
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Ya you've always come across as a real picket fencer
......oh, absolutely ;D
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Last week I told my mother to do me a favor
I told her to remind me to NOT DATE:
- that hot Russian girl that wants to fuck me but I just haven't asked her out because she will kill me
- this "Barbie" with a twice used uterus
I asked her to do this because I KNOW that both of those situations are trouble to begin with (NOTE: btw guys--Russian women WILL kill you-it's not just a stereotype)....I KNOW!!!!....however even though I know that both of these situations are no good, my dick is still making me want to do dumb things
so, I have my mom remind me to not succumb....
again--I KNOW!!!
"Varys" is such a lucky man
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She already proved twice that she doesn't know how to use birth control. Don't become a daddy. Also think about how "hot" she will be in 20 years,
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I bolded the most important word in your reply that will save both of us a lot of time and even though it will make for a awkward conversation between her and I (if I decide to go one with this whole thing that is )
just remember young men who read this conversation---just be honest....even if it makes for a "awkward" conversation it will save you a lot of time and win you a lot of respect
There you go, and it saves you from a lot of stress as well since most women have a radar when a man isn't sincere.