AJ & LUV - You guys need to find women that are either supportive of your BBing, or a athlete/ competitor of some kind.
If your single and no kids, and BBing is pretty all-consuming - SO WHAT?
Most PPL get wrapped up in many NEGATIVE things. BBing is NOT.
A single guy might put a lot of time & Money into Cycles, boats, Gambling, Bars... or lot of other pursuits..
Nobody much says critical things. A BBer kind of wears their pursuit is the thing, and the public is pretty clueless about BBing.
Yes, if you start to raise a family things need to change a bit. But allowing any woman to totally control a relationship and stop you from what you've done for years is a major mistake...
Yes, you can bet I don't get to consider a months long HGH run... There's a lot of other places that cash has to go. But everyone in a family needs respect and time for themself.
AS far as eating, Its abnormal, time consuming, and makes for more work and stress, even at a casual level. My wife said right away - "You dont eat like a normal person. You eat a lot and much more often. Its a lot of work...". She was/ is totally accepting of that. I need be carefull saying theres something I'd like to eat, she might drop what shes doing and start to cook it at 10pm.
Its also healthier and better for the body to eat more meals IMO.
In The USA - "NORMAL" is being a Fat waddling Pig. No Thanks!
Let a women take total control and you WILL have a failed relationship.
If she cant accept what you do, I'd keep looking. Plenty will.