Life is pointless.
We just are.
Just rock out and roll on.
I don't think you are far off in a general sense. But then, breaking it down into the "My life" category, it gets complex
It gets complex because we have made it complex
Breathe
Eat
Drink
Hunt
Fuck
Go to the loo
Explore
Fight / attack
Dominate
Invent
Warmth
Safety
Learn
Die
Our basic instincts
Not to complex
If only it was still that simple.
I picture myself on my death bed, if I am lucky enough to have that option, and wonder about some things. Not all things. But some things.. and wonder if at that point I will look back and think I should have done something different
If your that lucky on your death bed
Do you not look back now and wonder what if ?
Just between you and me... I don't really regret much of my life. My what if's aren't that major. I fell into a job I loved, and invested during my time with that job and I was fortunate to retire at 53. But I am in a relationship that I am not all that happy with. Don't get me wrong, there are some good times and good memories, but I am so limited with what I can do or where I can go based on whether she can find a dog sitter (That's right, a dog sitter) for our yorkie. I can't tell you how many events or trips I have had to cancel or not even go on because of a dog. I've been retired 2 years and haven't been to Europe yet because she can't be without our dog for 10 days. So I wonder, if at the end of my life, I will look back and say "Yeah, you sacrificed for a happy marriage" or "What the fuck were you thinking?!"
Just between you and me... I don't really regret much of my life. My what if's aren't that major. I fell into a job I loved, and invested during my time with that job and I was fortunate to retire at 53. But I am in a relationship that I am not all that happy with. Don't get me wrong, there are some good times and good memories, but I am so limited with what I can do or where I can go based on whether she can find a dog sitter (That's right, a dog sitter) for our yorkie. I can't tell you how many events or trips I have had to cancel or not even go on because of a dog. I've been retired 2 years and haven't been to Europe yet because she can't be without our dog for 10 days. So I wonder, if at the end of my life, I will look back and say "Yeah, you sacrificed for a happy marriage" or "What the fuck were you thinking?!"
Not a very nice thing to do, but you could always put something in the food ofasaiddogwife ::)
Does dieng mean the same thing as dying?
Just between you and me... I don't really regret much of my life. My what if's aren't that major. I fell into a job I loved, and invested during my time with that job and I was fortunate to retire at 53. But I am in a relationship that I am not all that happy with. Don't get me wrong, there are some good times and good memories, but I am so limited with what I can do or where I can go based on whether she can find a dog sitter (That's right, a dog sitter) for our yorkie. I can't tell you how many events or trips I have had to cancel or not even go on because of a dog. I've been retired 2 years and haven't been to Europe yet because she can't be without our dog for 10 days. So I wonder, if at the end of my life, I will look back and say "Yeah, you sacrificed for a happy marriage" or "What the fuck were you thinking?!"
Nothing to understand, just like a flower, we grow and then wither.
while it is possible to ask stupid questions it is also possible (but harder) to give intelligent answers
Nothing to understand, just like a flower, we grow and then wither.
We are all Systems Programs.
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Anyone asking too many questions about the meaning of life, digging too deep, knowing too much, etc. will end up getting pulled from the simulation by those who put us here in the first place.
Yes- that damn simulation. Why just yesterday I noticed there was a pause in the simulation but it was so fast I almost missed it. ::)
life is its on reason to live every thing else is an extraSurvival is the primary goal of all living things.
Anyone asking too many questions about the meaning of life, digging too deep, knowing too much, etc. will end up getting pulled from the simulation by those who put us here in the first place.
i watched that trilogy 2 months ago
useless, but admittedly mildly entertaining
Anyone asking too many questions about the meaning of life, digging too deep, knowing too much, etc. will end up getting pulled from the simulation by those who put us here in the first place.
OH dear Agnostic
Are you being ruled by A Dog or a Dog = Wife( apols thats in poor taste )
Who wears the trousers ?
Seriously though all in all you sound like you've done well for yourself
and enjoyed life - up until you retired.
How old is the dog as he not going to last forever
And depends if you can / want to put up with this situation.
That's completely, absolutely, unequivocally fooked up. Life is too short, and retirement even shorter. Get some marital counseling ASAP. There will come a time, and it will be here before you know it, when neither one of you will be able to travel any longer, because of age and/or health issues. Your time to do what you want and go where you want is now.
It's not the dog's fault. it's your wife's fault, and I think you know that. Her unhealthy relationship with this dog, making your life revolve around the dog, running your life, etc. is ruining your life and relationship. She has got to understand and put her husband and her marriage first, over the darn dog. Good luck!
It's weird. When I met her she had 2 dogs. She can't have kids so her dogs are like her kids. They were a package deal. I didn't mind too much as I was still working, and the dogs were yorkies. Hypo allergenic, and don't shed. Fast forward 4 years and one of them dies suddenly from a brain tumor. So I'm thinking 1 down, 1 to go. He's 8 now, so I got 7 years max to go. But nooooooo, Idiot me gives into the Misses whining that he's lonely and needs another partner etc etc. So I think I'm being smart and agree with the condition we get a dog of the same age. I'm not about to start the clock over. So we adopt an 8 year old rescue Yorkie that turns out to really be 6.. But ok.. close enough. Now, the original dog passed away at 13 last year and I'm stuck with this one... She's about 12 and seems to be in good health. I'm not anti dog, in fact, I love dogs, I just don't put them in the same category as humans and I don't think life revolves around their schedule like she does. When we do travel, it's because we hire a friggin sitter to stay in our house for $40 a day since there isn't a boarding place that exists that meets her approval. It's getting old. I'm getting old :)
Definitely not the dogs fault. Dogs just happy to be around us.
When I met her she had 2 dogs. the dogs were yorkies. Fast forward 4 years and one of them dies suddenly from a brain tumor. So I'm thinking 1 down, 1 to go.
It's weird. When I met her she had 2 dogs. She can't have kids so her dogs are like her kids. They were a package deal. I didn't mind too much as I was still working, and the dogs were yorkies. Hypo allergenic, and don't shed. Fast forward 4 years and one of them dies suddenly from a brain tumor. So I'm thinking 1 down, 1 to go. He's 8 now, so I got 7 years max to go. But nooooooo, Idiot me gives into the Misses whining that he's lonely and needs another partner etc etc. So I think I'm being smart and agree with the condition we get a dog of the same age. I'm not about to start the clock over. So we adopt an 8 year old rescue Yorkie that turns out to really be 6.. But ok.. close enough. Now, the original dog passed away at 13 last year and I'm stuck with this one... She's about 12 and seems to be in good health. I'm not anti dog, in fact, I love dogs, I just don't put them in the same category as humans and I don't think life revolves around their schedule like she does. When we do travel, it's because we hire a friggin sitter to stay in our house for $40 a day since there isn't a boarding place that exists that meets her approval. It's getting old. I'm getting old :)she must have some killer pussy . The problem iv found is some hoes know they got top shelf pussy and only put out here n there
Last night vewy tired i closed my eyes and repeated' iam me i am me ,i am this thing, god show me the way'......i almost felt like i was in that inbetween state where i was kinda awake , eyes shut, maybe something strange might happen
I just gave you one more thing to regret on your death bed, not getting marital or relationship counseling as soon as loco suggested you do. :D
I don't need a stranger to tell me what's wrong. I know :)
Maybe, but your woman needs a stranger to tell her what's wrong. She won't listen to you, but she might listen to a counselor. This stranger will likely have tips, tricks, suggestions for both of you on how to deal with the problem.
BTW, your response is typical of people who turn down help they desperately need, because they are too proud to admit they need it.
That is true. The part about her needing a stranger to tell her. I suspect she knows it already.
On the last part, you couldn't be further from the truth.
It's actually a pretty good question and my answer is that I don't really know. I want to think I understand it, but something tells me that when I am on my death bed, that's when it will all come clear and I will know if I wasted years in a relationship that doesn't matter. If I achieved my full potential of happiness. And then, I may realize it's too late. I constantly wonder, since I believe when you die it's over, that I may not be getting the most out of life that I could.. but then, I wonder if it does not matter what you have or who your with, will you ever be completely happy..
I picture myself on my death bed, if I am lucky enough to have that option, and wonder about some things. Not all things. But some things.. and wonder if at that point I will look back and think I should have done something differentLive each day to the fullest of your capability and there's no need to second guess your choices.
Just between you and me... I don't really regret much of my life. My what if's aren't that major. I fell into a job I loved, and invested during my time with that job and I was fortunate to retire at 53. But I am in a relationship that I am not all that happy with. Don't get me wrong, there are some good times and good memories, but I am so limited with what I can do or where I can go based on whether she can find a dog sitter (That's right, a dog sitter) for our yorkie. I can't tell you how many events or trips I have had to cancel or not even go on because of a dog. I've been retired 2 years and haven't been to Europe yet because she can't be without our dog for 10 days. So I wonder, if at the end of my life, I will look back and say "Yeah, you sacrificed for a happy marriage" or "What the fuck were you thinking?!"
110% of Getbiggers don't have a proper education and therefore they can't sppel good. The other 5% do.
Last night vewy tired i closed my eyes and repeated' iam me i am me ,i am this thing, god show me the way'......i almost felt like i was in that inbetween state where i was kinda awake , eyes shut, maybe something strange might happenMaybe God wants you to figure out your way on your own. In the state between wake and sleep, it is possible to have an out-of-body experience. Should this happen, go with it. It can be very freeing.
Then drifted off to sleep
It's weird. When I met her she had 2 dogs. She can't have kids so her dogs are like her kids. They were a package deal. I didn't mind too much as I was still working, and the dogs were yorkies. Hypo allergenic, and don't shed. Fast forward 4 years and one of them dies suddenly from a brain tumor. So I'm thinking 1 down, 1 to go. He's 8 now, so I got 7 years max to go. But nooooooo, Idiot me gives into the Misses whining that he's lonely and needs another partner etc etc. So I think I'm being smart and agree with the condition we get a dog of the same age. I'm not about to start the clock over. So we adopt an 8 year old rescue Yorkie that turns out to really be 6.. But ok.. close enough. Now, the original dog passed away at 13 last year and I'm stuck with this one... She's about 12 and seems to be in good health. I'm not anti dog, in fact, I love dogs, I just don't put them in the same category as humans and I don't think life revolves around their schedule like she does. When we do travel, it's because we hire a friggin sitter to stay in our house for $40 a day since there isn't a boarding place that exists that meets her approval. It's getting old. I'm getting old :)
Maybe God wants you to figure out your way on your own. In the state between wake and sleep, it is possible to have an out-of-body experience. Should this happen, go with it. It can be very freeing.You can have an out of body experience totally awake and conscious.
Primemuscle u always seem to maintain a positive outlook maybe you need to go vegan to feel bad
The math doesn't work. 95% of Getbiggers may not have a proper education. The other 5% do.
That ain't right. The number nine in 95% should be capitalized.
Trying to understand other's lives sometimes helps us to understand and appreciate our own better. This is a recent Facebook post from my sister's ex-husband and my friend of 25 years. Burt is a hemophiliac. He is not gay.good for him. It is said your blood type can change spontaneously in medical reports
"Sorry about my outburst concerning World AIDS Day earlier. Education about this disease far exceeds the need for specific political agendas. I forget that unfortunately, this disease was attached to misinformed political posturing many years ago and maybe people need to be informed of that. All I know is, I had three surgeries as a child. I was given whole blood and Factor 9 to aid in clotting so I didn't bleed to death. I was an athlete. I returned home with a type of pneumonia I should have never had.
The rest is history. My life became a nightmare. I couldn't talk about it. The fear of being called “gay” and blamed for having HIV combined with what I watched them do to Ryan White kept me silent. The suggestions of isolating us, killing us, blaming us was more than I could deal with. Suicide was not in my vocabulary, so I wore a self induced cloak made of cocaine and alcohol.
The day I walked into my first NA meeting I’ll never forget feeling so helpless. I’ll never forget carrying the weight of my secret into relapse after relapse. It finally took someone telling me “it’s an outside issue, you can’t talk about it in a meeting” for me to come out and take the chance of standing alone and I did. I almost died clean twice, but got back up and kept fighting. I would not die allowing people to think my name is AIDS. It is not. It is Burt.
The last couple years I have gained some important ground. I’m no longer detectable. I no longer have to live in fear of declining health. I fought for this peace. I fought to stay alive long enough to feel “OK.” My anger today reminds me, some pain of feeling oppressed and hated for something I played no part in causing, still follows me."
good for him. It is said your blood type can change spontaneously in medical reports