That's right, power and money. How many times do you see a good looking girl with a butt fuking ugly guy? ALL OF THE TIME. Girls don't care about looks. Power and money are the attraction. If you don't have those, you need to focus on other factors -- wit, intelligence, humor etc. These characteristics will make a guy appear good looking through attraction.
Those are the "safe guys"... Women care about looks, and many times the women will pick that ugly dude, because she knows he won't run away, he will shower her with attention,
and he will not take attention away from her in that relationship...basically she is a selfish bitch.
I remember a few yrs ago at work seeing this one ugly Ginge
dude who had a head gear, with this hot black chick...that leaves a big "WTF!", co-workers guessed that was his attorney...who knows...but, we've all seen those "WTF" couples, and if the woman is hot, and dude is not, it's usually money, or he puts up with her bullshit and she doesn't
want any competition. Believe you me, if she wanted a Brad Pitt or Tyson Beckford look alike, she'd probably could get it and probably prefer it...just look at that Kendra chick before she blew up, look at the troll in her sex tape, I bet the majority of dudes posting in this thread looked better than him...and I bet she liked him fo his money or his lack of looks---she was getting the benefits...