Is marrying a woman your age a huge mistake?

[Amerian Muscle]

Thanks - guess my post could have used a smiley to flag it as an attempt at humour

I figured that Mike Mentzer plagiarized mein kampf for his pathetic HIT pamphlets and wanted to promptly set the record straight

[pamith]

probably a mix of desperation and coercion

Bro...

[Earl1972]

When it comes to marriage choose wisely.  I forgot what comedian said it but he said next time I date a woman I'm just going to buy her house, it will be cheaper than marrying her.

Women make out like bandits. They get the house, kids, child support and alimony.  The husband gets a shitty apartment and is broke with half his income. The wife gets to date and play the field. She has a house, money coming in and her little job that she doesn't even need. Pretty soon some guy is sitting in your favorite chair watching the big screen tv you saved for drinking your top shelf liquor from your liquor closet that you forgot to take. The wife suddenly is fond of swallowing and giving him her ass now.

You are dating women from your dating app but the decent women have little interest in a guy that lives in an apartment and never seems to have money to do stuff.  You wake up depressed every day and your ex wife wakes up with a big smile with a sore ass.

most guys at least in 2024 thanks to dating apps and social media don't have the options to choose wisely, they just marry the best of the few options they have

no guy should ever marry a woman unless he is 100% certain she has burning desire for him

i am 100% certain this is the main reason women divorce men, she married a guy that she thinks is less than her ex

if she has burning desire everything will be easy and mostly free, women do not play games or test guys they have burning desire for, she will regularly initiate sex and will follow your lead rather than start arguments

some guys say they like the chase, these guys are idiots, you will not have to chase a woman that wants you and you will never have to ask yourself if she wants you it will be totally obvious

every woman has simped for a man giving him everything while making every other guy move mountains to please her, if she didn't simp for you don't marry her, she will dwell on the guy she simped for forever while resenting you for not being him

E

[Van_Bilderass]

Who is "kaka"? I don't know but...

[Amerian Muscle]

Who is "kaka"? I don't know but...

what a piece of trash whore. She should be stoned

[MAXX]

most guys at least in 2024 thanks to dating apps and social media don't have the options to choose wisely, they just marry the best of the few options they have

no guy should ever marry a woman unless he is 100% certain she has burning desire for him

i am 100% certain this is the main reason women divorce men, she married a guy that she thinks is less than her ex

if she has burning desire everything will be easy and mostly free, women do not play games or test guys they have burning desire for, she will regularly initiate sex and will follow your lead rather than start arguments

some guys say they like the chase, these guys are idiots, you will not have to chase a woman that wants you and you will never have to ask yourself if she wants you it will be totally obvious

every woman has simped for a man giving him everything while making every other guy move mountains to please her, if she didn't simp for you don't marry her, she will dwell on the guy she simped for forever while resenting you for not being him

E

Earl gets it.

This is also the reason why marriage is never a good idea in west. Not only the marriage laws being against the breadwinner/high asset holder and against the male. There is also the issue of female psychology as Earl points out.

Because decently attractive women in the west at the point where she wants to settle and marry(around 30y old) has a notch count of 50+ men. The chance of the poor sap she settles for being equivalent or better than the alpha that she had in the past is slim. When she is with a guy she will always "in the primitive brain" compare him to the best she ever had. This is basic female psychology. Us males don't work the same way. We can be fine with living with a "worse" woman then we had in the past as long as we are served with sex, affection and agreeableness on a regular basis.

This is why marriage in the west is terrible. In short.
1. Laws against us.
2. Female promiscuity at an all time high beacause of tech and no checks for bad behaviour( religion for example)
3. Female nature in general.

The odds of a successfull(happy and/or continual) marriage in the west are extremly low.

[Humble Narcissist]

Who is "kaka"? I don't know but...

You cannot win with the modern woman. Even being perfect is flawed.

[1Patrick]

Who is "kaka"? I don't know but...

One of the best world soccer players Brazil produced.Dude was huge talent .
When you are young , famous and rich all you do is chasing  ass and living life , however this guy was focusing on humanitarian work and helping fight hunger in poor countries .His wife was his childhood sweetheart maybe that’s why she wanted out of marriage and get different action and more sausage.

[Flexacon]

most guys at least in 2024 thanks to dating apps and social media don't have the options to choose wisely, they just marry the best of the few options they have

no guy should ever marry a woman unless he is 100% certain she has burning desire for him

i am 100% certain this is the main reason women divorce men, she married a guy that she thinks is less than her ex

if she has burning desire everything will be easy and mostly free, women do not play games or test guys they have burning desire for, she will regularly initiate sex and will follow your lead rather than start arguments

some guys say they like the chase, these guys are idiots, you will not have to chase a woman that wants you and you will never have to ask yourself if she wants you it will be totally obvious

every woman has simped for a man giving him everything while making every other guy move mountains to please her, if she didn't simp for you don't marry her, she will dwell on the guy she simped for forever while resenting you for not being him

E

Good advice here.

I'll make it even simpler. Just give a woman a taste of the pimp hand early on. She'll either stay or you won't hear from her again. Either way you know where things stand and you save yourself a lot time and energy.

[bhank]

most guys at least in 2024 thanks to dating apps and social media don't have the options to choose wisely, they just marry the best of the few options they have

no guy should ever marry a woman unless he is 100% certain she has burning desire for him

i am 100% certain this is the main reason women divorce men, she married a guy that she thinks is less than her ex

if she has burning desire everything will be easy and mostly free, women do not play games or test guys they have burning desire for, she will regularly initiate sex and will follow your lead rather than start arguments

some guys say they like the chase, these guys are idiots, you will not have to chase a woman that wants you and you will never have to ask yourself if she wants you it will be totally obvious

every woman has simped for a man giving him everything while making every other guy move mountains to please her, if she didn't simp for you don't marry her, she will dwell on the guy she simped for forever while resenting you for not being him

E

Facts guys always talk about what they want in a woman and how to get them. You should be looking for the woman that wants you. A woman that wants you will do anything for you. A women who doesn't never will no matter what you do. That is why I laugh at these idiots with women who clearly are not into them.

[joswift]

Facts guys always talk about what they want in a woman and how to get them. You should be looking for the woman that wants your house. A woman that wants your house will do anything for you. A women who doesn't never will no matter what you do. That is why I empathise at these idiots with women who clearly are not into them.

fixed

[BBSSchlemiel]

most guys at least in 2024 thanks to dating apps and social media don't have the options to choose wisely, they just marry the best of the few options they have

no guy should ever marry a woman unless he is 100% certain she has burning desire for him

i am 100% certain this is the main reason women divorce men, she married a guy that she thinks is less than her ex

if she has burning desire everything will be easy and mostly free, women do not play games or test guys they have burning desire for, she will regularly initiate sex and will follow your lead rather than start arguments

some guys say they like the chase, these guys are idiots, you will not have to chase a woman that wants you and you will never have to ask yourself if she wants you it will be totally obvious

every woman has simped for a man giving him everything while making every other guy move mountains to please her, if she didn't simp for you don't marry her, she will dwell on the guy she simped for forever while resenting you for not being him

E

Do ya think the wives of Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, and Will Smith, all who have been dumped and publicly punked by their wives, once had burning desire for these men?


 

[Amerian Muscle]

Us males don't work the same way. We can be fine with living with a "worse" woman then we had in the past as long as we are served with sex, affection and agreeableness on a regular basis.

Disagree. I feel like I downgraded and need to upgrade again

[Taffin]

I figured that Mike Mentzer plagiarized mein kampf for his pathetic HIT pamphlets and wanted to promptly set the record straight

To be fair, Hitler was a pretty high intensity kind of fella...

HighIntensity Hitler!

[BBSSchlemiel]

Disagree. I feel like I downgraded and need to upgrade again

Do you have children?

[illuminati]

Do you have children?

Hmmmm I doubt his ManGina can reproduce   

[Amerian Muscle]

Do you have children?

No but maybe this month it will all change. 

[BBSSchlemiel]

Hmmmm I doubt his ManGina can reproduce   

Good!

[BBSSchlemiel]

No but maybe this month it will all change. 

So you might soon have kids with a woman you intend to leave.

And people wonder why there are so many weird and screwed up young people.

[Theoak*]

Having sex with a woman is literally physically conquering her. You don't get conquered over and over again, and come out the other end of that being the same person you were beforehand ESPECIALLY if you were conquered by men who didn't really love you or care about you and were just using you for your body. In fact, realising this only makes the short-lived repetitive masochistic pleasure she enjoyed even worse for her spirit in the long run.

Moral of the story, don't marry a woman who has  been conquered by other men.

[Earl1972]

Do ya think the wives of Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, and Will Smith, all who have been dumped and publicly punked by their wives, once had burning desire for these men?

yes at one time but another thing about today's women is they eventually get bored, there is nothing women hate more than being bored

their fame, money and success becomes "normal" to them, they also see the human side of these guys while living with them like morning breath and smelling their shit in the bathroom... so the aura and mystique of these guys go away

also bad idea to marry celebrity women, these women are as entitled as it gets and probably always think they can upgrade no matter what, i bet if they married non famous women their marriages would've lasted longer because non famous woman knows she will never meet a richer or more famous guy to marry her

E

[Earl1972]

Good advice here.

I'll make it even simpler. Just give a woman a taste of the pimp hand early on. She'll either stay or you won't hear from her again. Either way you know where things stand and you save yourself a lot time and energy.

yes women have all tolerated the worse behavior from certain men, guys that they thought were too hot to let go

they allow some guys to disrespect and even cheat and abuse them

then other guys get away with nothing, she'll dump him for wearing the wrong shirt or saying something she thought was slightly uncool

if she dumped you over nothing, you never had a chance with her to begin with

E

[obsidian]

yes women have all tolerated the worse behavior from certain men, guys that they thought were too hot to let go

they allow some guys to disrespect and even cheat and abuse them

then other guys get away with nothing, she'll dump him for wearing the wrong shirt or saying something she thought was slightly uncool

if she dumped you over nothing, you never had a chance with her to begin with

E

This. Eventually robotics and AI will improve to the point where real, "hot" women will be less desirable. Same probably goes for male robots.

Many men already opted out of the marriage thing with the MGTOW movement.

[Humble Narcissist]

Having sex with a woman is literally physically conquering her. You don't get conquered over and over again, and come out the other end of that being the same person you were beforehand ESPECIALLY if you were conquered by men who didn't really love you or care about you and were just using you for your body. In fact, realising this only makes the short-lived repetitive masochistic pleasure she enjoyed even worse for her spirit in the long run.

Moral of the story, don't marry a woman who has  been conquered by other men.

You are not finding a virgin unless you date junior high girls.

[Amerian Muscle]

You are not finding a virgin unless you date junior high girls.

very sad but true