i need some help

[Primemuscle]

thank you this is actually pretty helpful

do you have any advise though on how to stop going to the strip clubs?
my wife moved out to live with her sister for awhile and it gets lonely i miss having the company of a woman so i go to the club but its so expensive especially since i dont really make alot of money

I am not sure how going to a strip club would make you feel any less lonely. In fact, I would think it would make you all the lonelier. These women aren't dating you. If you don’t hit them up with some cash, they won't even dance for you, much less make conversation.

If you are simply looking for a little visual stimulation, buy a couple of girly magazines or rent or buy some porn videos. This should provide some distraction and perhaps a little sexual stimulation too.

Make some guy friends to hang with sometimes. A couple of beers and a football game or even a low stakes game of poker is bound to be cheaper then hitting the strip clubs.

Call your (estranged?) wife and see if you can take her to the movies, dinner or just go for a drive with her and talk. If you miss her so much that you are truly lonely for her company and you tell her so, she’ll appreciate that, unless she has a heart of stone.

[ThaRealist]

If you have life insurance, than your best option in life is to off yourself and make it look like an accident...Just sayin...

[marty31672]

I am not sure how going to a strip club would make you feel any less lonely. In fact, I would think it would make you all the lonelier. These women aren't dating you. If you don’t hit them up with some cash, they won't even dance for you, much less make conversation.

your so right but the problem is its like a drug
when i was in california i used to smoke them sometimes
it feels great while your doing it but when its over you feel even worse than before
i never felt so low in my life as when i walk out of that smelly club

If you are simply looking for a little visual stimulation, buy a couple of girly magazines or rent or buy some porn videos. This should provide some distraction and perhaps a little sexual stimulation too.

problem is i cant talk to them or touch them its not the same believe me i tried 

Make some guy friends to hang with sometimes. A couple of beers and a football game or even a low stakes game of poker is bound to be cheaper then hitting the strip clubs.

Call your (estranged?) wife and see if you can take her to the movies, dinner or just go for a drive with her and talk. If you miss her so much that you are truly lonely for her company and you tell her so, she’ll appreciate that, unless she has a heart of stone.

i will try these two things thank you again primemuscle

[Primemuscle]

problem is i cant talk to them or touch them its not the same believe me i tried 

I get that a photo or a video isn't the same as a real live person. And when you talk to them, you probably delude yourself into thinking they care about you in some way. Of course they really don't. What they care about is you spending some of your cash on them. That's how they make their living.

Any physical release you get obviously comes later after your home. You probably work up a fantasy in your head that helps you to get that release. That fantasy is no more real than the videos or magazines are. Your still using your imagination.

Ever though about joining a sex addiction group? Bet you are not the only lonely fella around who turns to strangers who don't give a shit about them for comfort.

[wes]

What a stupid fucking gimmick!!