She conned him and broke his heart forever. Clearly, he is not over her. He probably never will be.
I find it interest that women lean on you for emotional support. Financial maybe, but not emotional.
Yes.
I find that in general, if you are not judgmental and have intelligent insight to give, people will literally become obsessed with talking to you, picking your brain, etc.
That said, since being completely RUINED by a woman in 2018, I am FAR from nonjudgmental - FAR from it. And I therefore, have very little patience with women who need me as a rock to lean on. Sorry - ain't happening.
So yeah, that's it.
Oh - and as for intelligent things to say: while I can still articulate an intelligent response to many issues, and even make good educated guesses or otherwise speak intelligently on topics I know nothing about, the bottom line is that I am no longer patient. I suffered too much in 2018, and with it, my patience for women disappeared.
I would say permanently.
I thought maybe I was just unlucky.
But looking around me, I must say that I see MANY men in relationships with women who cause them even more stress and depression/angst. It's no wonder the divorce rate is so high!!! Wow!
So yeah - not for me. But hey - to each their own! If any other Getbigger wants to be in a long-term relationship or marriage, I would say, good for them!