Fellas, let me tell you something, the BEST lawyer anyone can get in a divorce/custody case is this:
When a judge sees this, you are immediately, subconsciously, guilty of whatever crime she decides to blame you for.
In some European countries, mothers have accumulated so much political clout that they are basically considered an endangered species. In some of these countries, if a women were to accuse you of domestic violence she will get the entire state apparatus at her disposal (free lawyer, automatic restraining order, fast pass to judicial inquiry,
et cetera,) while the male is left helpless and in need to proof his innocence.
In some countries it is becoming such an issue that local governments are now rolling back legislation because they have found out that women WILL and DO take advantage of it.
In some European countries, only 5-10% of all domestic violence cases make it to court. Meaning in 95% of the remaining cases there isn't any proof at all (no disinterested neighbor, no bruises, no recordings of verbal violence, no prior restraining orders, no prior DV case,
et cetera).
