so, is anyone else totally bitter towards "hot" women?

[SF1900]

JNN, I feel your pain, brah 

[Natural Man]

Men who cant settle with a woman are just reproducing what their fathers did. They often didnt find a woman to settle with either. Never satisfied, always talking about sex trying to impress others, and their own sons often. Yet they re individuals with a miserable sexual life and who werent loved by their own parents in the firstplace.
Sons are just walking in their steps, continuing their "legacy". While boys who had father who stuck with one woman will stick with one woman.

Maybe once your father is dead and you ll be free of his influence and legacy -when you ll have reached your 50s...- then you ll reconsider your goals and will settle with someone with a similar past, who wasnt loved by her own father...for the rest of the time still available.

[affeman]

Hot women are bitches. And ugly women would be bitches too if they were hot.

[tu_holmes]

Men who cant settle with a woman are just reproducing what their fathers did. They often didnt find a woman to settle with either. They re just walking in their steps, continuing their "legacy". While boys who had father who stuck with one woman will stick with one woman.

Maybe once your father is dead and you ll be free of his influence and legacy -when you ll have reached your 50s...- they you ll reconsider your goals and will settle with someone with a similar past, who wasnt loved by her own father...

My dad has been with my mom my entire life... I have not.

My own personal life blows your entire theory bro.

[johnnynoname]

But, I thought you once posted that you stripped for men. Didn't that pay well? ....You know, a buck at a time? Or do you have to go for the afterwork private party scene to get the big bucks?

that's what I mean

the pay was awesome.....but i'm stripping for men...you also, have to couple in the fact that you have to stay aroused and not be creeped out by other dudes touching your dick...i'm by no means a homophobe but i'm still heterosexual



also, I think what JasonH didn't alude to (but would have) is that it is WAY easier for a woman to make a living in straight porn while men have it way harder for way less pay......the only money in porn for men is gay porn and that is a well known fact

[johnnynoname]

What does the chica from POF look like? Break her down. What does she do? And what do her eyes say (look like)?

not a bad looking gal plus she is my age and we have alot in common....but she is a fitness chick and I have to deal with my insecurities with my dealings with fitness girls in my past

[affeman]

Men who cant settle with a woman are just reproducing what their fathers did. They often didnt find a woman to settle with either. They re just walking in their steps, continuing their "legacy". While boys who had father who stuck with one woman will stick with one woman.

Maybe once your father is dead and you ll be free of his influence and legacy -when you ll have reached your 50s...- they you ll reconsider your goals and will settle with someone with a similar past, who wasnt loved by her own father...

You always make it sound like one way is the right one and the other the wrong. Dude, it's simply not in the cards for everyone to "settle down", live the family life etc.

Everyone's different, why do you always come up with your psychological BS and try to find reasons etc., just let it go.

[JasonH]

that's what I mean

the pay was awesome.....but i'm stripping for men...you also, have to couple in the fact that you have to stay aroused and not be creeped out by other dudes touching your dick...i'm by no means a homophobe but i'm still heterosexual



also, I think what JasonH didn't alude to (but would have) is that it is WAY easier for a woman to make a living in straight porn while men have it way harder for way less pay......the only money in porn for men is gay porn and that is a well known fact

Correct - on both counts.

It's fucking annoying how men can't get off on making decent money from women and getting aroused at the same time. Women have got it so easy in that deprtment and yet for some reason feminists have a problem with it. Why? This is a profession that men would kill to have!!

[Natural Man]

My dad has been with my mom my entire life... I have not.

My own personal life blows your entire theory bro.

Maybe he didnt love her even if he stayed with her, maybe it was all about interests and there was no spirituality and complicity. Lot of relationships  like that and influence kids relationships later once adults, or prevent them from building one, fearing to reproduce what happened to their father / mother.
What has been seen and said influence our life, but also what we didnt see or what has not been said. Our subconscious is made of our genitors subconscious, a big part of it, they re both in our mind. Hence the importance to talk to them before they die...

[Primemuscle]

that's what I mean

the pay was awesome.....but i'm stripping for men...you also, have to couple in the fact that you have to stay aroused and not be creeped out by other dudes touching your dick...i'm by no means a homophobe but i'm still heterosexual



also, I think what JasonH didn't alude to (but would have) is that it is WAY easier for a woman to make a living in straight porn while men have it way harder for way less pay......the only money in porn for men is gay porn and that is a well known fact

I saw a show on television once which confirmed what you say about straight verses gay porn for men. Why do you suppose straight porn doesn't pay as well?

I have a question for you, if you are not into men, how do you stay aroused when it is men who are fondling you? Wouldn't that put a damper on your hard on? Anyway, I  have wondered how men stay hard when stripping regardless of their sexual orientation? They must use some artifical means of accomplishing this.

[johnnynoname]

Correct - on both counts.

It's fucking annoying how men can't get off on making decent money from women and getting aroused at the same time. Women have got it so easy in that deprtment and yet for some reason feminists have a problem with it. Why? This is a profession that men would kill to have!!

women just lay there and fake moaning and get paid MILLIONS and the man HAS TO GET/STAY HARD and he, maybe, gets 500-1500 (if they're lucky) a scene


also, a note about "G4P"- the producers who run it want to make money so don't think you can go in their with a nice set of abs and make all that money....again, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO GET/STAY HARD and if you are a straight man, it is very fucking difficult to do (even if you are doing a "solo" scene)

[Parker]

Beautiful women go for black guys all the time man open your eyes...does Doutzen kroes ring a bell?...shes married to a black guy because she loves him..not to fuck up your way of thinking...

Yes, the chica who only looks good with makeup on and has a bonerack body...
She doesn't love the dude, she is 26, she doesn't know what love is, yet...her ass got preggers, then married...if I am not mistaken.

[Natural Man]

You always make it sound like one way is the right one and the other the wrong. Dude, it's simply not in the cards for everyone to "settle down", live the family life etc.

Everyone's different, why do you always come up with your psychological BS and try to find reasons etc., just let it go.

Lol...because we re all the same. The path is the same for everyone. Some just reach steps others cant because of their upbringings, genes, education that define where you can go or cant in life.
But we re all here to contribute to the big thing that spawned us by working and creating a family. If you cant that's because you didnt have what was needed.

I wonder how these men and women who had a job and money but werent able to create a family end. Alone in a retirement house, still looking for the love of their life?

You re young, or ignorant, or badly advised , or all of the three.

[tu_holmes]

Maybe he didnt love her even if he stayed with her, maybe it was all about interests and there was no spirituality and complicity. Lot of relationships  like that and influence kids relationships later once adults, or prevent them from building one, fearing to reproduce what happened to their father / mother.
What has been seen and said influence our life, But also what we didnt see or what has not been said.

Now you're just making stuff up.

My parents have a very good relationship. 40 years and counting... The real thing is that people just aren't wired the same.

I've been with a lot of women and divorced... my best friend has never been married, been with lots of women and his parents have been married for over 42 years.

Everyone is just not built the same. Welcome to planet earth.

[johnnynoname]

I saw a show on television once which confirmed what you say about straight verses gay porn for men. Why do you suppose straight porn doesn't pay as well?

I have a question for you, if you are not into men, how do you stay aroused when it is men who are fondling you? Wouldn't that put a damper on your hard on? Anyway, I  have wondered how men stay hard when stripping regardless of their sexual orientation? They must use some artifical means of accomplishing this.

never got "hard"
it was all a illusion thanks to "tying off".  Also, wearing a brighter colored thong help add to that illusion

[Primemuscle]

Now you're just making stuff up.

My parents have a very good relationship. 40 years and counting... The real thing is that people just aren't wired the same.

I've been with a lot of women and divorced... my best friend has never been married, been with lots of women and his parents have been married for over 42 years.

Everyone is just not built the same. Welcome to planet earth.

My mom and dad separated before I was five. My mom had numerous boyfriends even while she was married to my step-dad. My wife and I have been married for almost 47 years. My wife was from a more stable background. Her mom died when she was fifteen. Her dad later married her step-mom. Both our kids married young and are still married to their original partners. So our family is going against the statistics.

[makaveli25]

Johhny I think you should find a nice church where you live. Start going to that church make sure you dress nice. You have a much better chance at meeting a good down to earth woman with some humility. It will also be great for your spiritual well being. You will meet some nice people.

[Natural Man]

just make sure to read or re-read the Bible before going to a church...

[Parker]

Now you're just making stuff up.

My parents have a very good relationship. 40 years and counting... The real thing is that people just aren't wired the same.

I've been with a lot of women and divorced... my best friend has never been married, been with lots of women and his parents have been married for over 42 years.

Everyone is just not built the same. Welcome to planet earth.

The variable is the women that you've (and friend) been with. Most people raised by baby boomers, especially women, have been "effed up" (their programming is scrambled)...dudes go with the flow...this has never been a man's world, it's an illusion. Women are the ones who really make the decisions..it's very covert.

[affeman]

For all the morons who think it's impossible to score a 10 smth to think about: The 10s need to get laid too. If u don't fuck em someone else is gonna do it, and most likely that person is nothing better than you. So go ahead and don't be shy.

[Natural Man]

My mom and dad separated before I was five. My mom had numerous boyfriends even while she was married to my step-dad. My wife and I have been married for almost 47 years. My wife was from a more stable background. Her mom died when she was fifteen. Her dad later married her step-mom. Both our kids married young and are still married to their original partners. So our family is going against the statistics.

because you learned from their mistakes instead of blindly reproducing them , because you werent sure if you could trust your father and mother advises... because basically, you had faith and a bit of education and thought there might be something above your own mother and father s sayings. That they, too, had to respond to something, someone, bigger than themselves.

[Primemuscle]

never got "hard"
it was all a illusion thanks to "tying off".  Also, wearing a brighter colored thong help add to that illusion

In Portland, OR, where I live, male strippers dance naked. So a bright colored thong wouldn't cut it. As for tying off, don't you risk doing some damage to yourself? Doesn't it hurt? I've seen videos of male strippers who appeared to actually be hard and not tied off. There must be some way they are able to do this.

[tu_holmes]

The variable is the women that you've (and friend) been with. Most people raised by baby boomers, especially women, have been "effed up" (their programming is scrambled)...dudes go with the flow...this has never been a man's world, it's an illusion. Women are the ones who really make the decisions..it's very covert.

Hmm... something to think about.

[johnnynoname]

In Portland, OR, where I live, male strippers dance naked. So a bright colored thong wouldn't cut it. As for tying off, don't you risk doing some damage to yourself? Doesn't it hurt? I've seen videos of male strippers who appeared to actually be hard and not tied off. There must be some way they are able to do this.

which is why I avoided doing it (and later, just stopped doing it completely) unless necessary

I could write a book about the woes regarding being a male stripper



again, it is soo much easier for women in that business as well

[Primemuscle]

because you learned from their mistakes instead of blindly reproducing them , because you werent sure if you could trust your father and mother advises... because basically, you had faith and a bit of education.

Or, I got lucky. I didn't see where my mom found happiness with her life choices which probably influenced what I did with my life. It helps that my wife is a gem among women. It takes two to make a relationship work. I'm not an easy guy to live with. She's put up with a lot over the years. On the other hand, my wife is rarely bitchy or any of the other things that I heard guys complaining about their wives or girlfriends being.

As for faith and education, I do know that no two people get along 100% of the time. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. We all have flaws. I suspect many people expect too much from their partners and relationships.