You're right and I'm wrong and I apologise if necessary. I've frequently been extremely rude and real, bordering on horrid here (and often sarcastic beyond anyones' comprehension) and perhaps deserved to be put in my place.
So I'm perhaps somewhat awe-struck by the huge support and love you've garnered by posting a blow-by-blow account of your struggle with (and defeat of?) a life-changing and -threatening health problem. I now realise that the love and support of your "Getbig Family" will surely have helped you during the most incredibly difficult times you've recently coped with.
Glad I logged back in to see what was happening here...
I just know that I would not be able to post a daily overview of a battle with cancer as I'd be too worried and screwed up obsessing, fearing I'd lose. But I haven't a clue really as I've fortunately never had to deal with anything half as scary... So Bravo ! I salute your enormous bravery.
I take my hat off to you and bow
You are the undisputed Queen and King of Getbigland...
xLinda
but ps: The only people who constantly spewed abuse and hatred at me without a sense of humour here were you and Mike, I thought I'd put that straight. flower/weed was hilarious, so I enjoyed her mad attacks. The rest, all the blokes, were just daft. And as for Ron, he's been simply splendid...
But that no longer matters, I now understand most if not all of the background, including the previous history. It now makes sense that you'd be horrid to me when I previously queried your fan club (and Mike's !!!, that one is even funnier). I guess I attempted to take up the challenge when you hurled abuse at me and I ended up instead taking the mickey... In future I'll try always to walk away, hopefully unharmed, when your family goes nasty and plays dirty.
Anyways, take care and relax if you are able. You are much loved and so many are praying for your speedy and complete recovery.
It was Arvilla that pissed me off, not you. I got seriously upset when (on top of everything you've had to cope with,) you had to stick up for his awful behaviour, that's all.
with mad love from London
