sevatese
ypu get your ball busted here a lot....but i found this read rather interesting!
lucian
I never get my balls busted
I do se many talking shit because they can ...it's a message board ..in reallife people wouldn't dare saying shit like this to someone
it's a very interesting article
here's another one
I knew this willresonate with somepeople whileothers will think it's rubish
Can Money Buy Happiness?
04/28/09
How many times have you thought, "If I only had money for this or that everything would be okay? I could pay my bills, go where I want to go, take care of my friends and family, have money in the bank, etc., etc." Dreaming of having "enough" money is a fantasy world where many people live.
Dreaming of financial success is a wonderful place to put your energies. What most people do not realize is that if $100million fell in their laps, they would still be the same people that they are today with the same mind-pattern.
This means that if some part of you does not feel that you deserve a windfall, you will sabotage the outcome. One way or another, you will lose the money, fall prey to predators, open your heart up to the "wrong" people, fund projects that will fail, attract people who will use you and throw you away. All this and more can be yours! Then you will wonder why you ever had the money in the first place and you will dream about how much happier you were before you received the windfall!
If you manage to hold onto your money long enough to pay off all your debts, put money in the bank, and buy all the toys you want, you are going to find that you are bored What is your incentive now to get up and get going? Would you become selfish, inconsiderate, and demanding?
Who would be your friends? Would people be your friends because you have money or because they genuinely like you? Would they give you their real opinions or would you be surrounded by "yes men"? You can buy your "friends," you know. Throw your money around and all kinds of people come running. After awhile, this gets boring, too.
Would you help people? How would this happen? How would you know whom to help and why? If the people you choose to help have self-worth and sabotage issues, they are going to lose what you give them. So, what have you accomplished? If you "bail" people out of their life circumstances that on some level of awareness they set up in the first place you take their lessons away. Then you are responsible for their learning – do you want this on your shoulders?
When you have lived financially from day to day and all of a sudden you have enough funding to last a lifetime and beyond, how do you make this leap? For most people, it is more than they can handle. They do not have time to build the mind-pattern that allows them to keep the money, discern their friends, make correct investment decisions, help the people who are able to accept help.
Most people see money as the answer to their prayers. Like anything, money is an adjunct to the mind-pattern. Mind first, then money; not vice versa. You always take you with you wherever you go. You take all your current issues—past, current, and the future issues that you are now creating. "You" don't change just because you have money. "You" are the same, "you" just now have money. "You" in your current state would spend it according to your current mind-pattern.
If you cannot hold onto the little bit of money you have now, what makes you think you can hold onto more money? If you lose what you now have, your mind-pattern dictates that you are just going to lose more if you suddenly gain more. Then you are going to be even more depressed and upset because you will think about all the "could have's, would have's, and what if's."
If you cannot draw supportive friends to you now, why do you think that money would mean you would draw supportive friends? If you do not have a functional relationship now, how would money change this? Yes, you might meet more people, but of what caliber and character? Money does not change "YOU." "YOU" are still the same, only with more funds. Simply because people already have more money than you can imagine does not make them scrupulous, trustworthy, intelligent, and wonderful friends. Material wealth does not equate with anything else except material wealth. The bottom line is still, "So?"
Rather than focus on getting more money, focus on creating a better "YOU." As you develop a mind-pattern of high self-worth, release sabotage, and develop discernment, you automatically change the recipe of your auric field and mind-pattern. As the energy shifts and changes, it automatically develops into a money magnet. Money cannot NOT come to you. Your own internal recipe now automatically emits: "I now have lots and lots of money."
When money does come to you, you have high self-worth without sabotage, so you keep what comes to you. You have discernment in place, so you know how to spend and invest. A solid support structure with people whom you can trust automatically move to you. Friends who are supports and not takers rally to you. Personal relationships change and improve because of WHO you are, not because of what you can buy.
You know who to help and who not to help. As with all things, money is a result of your inner work. When YOU are in order, the money comes to you in the correct way for the correct reasons in the correct timing.
The more you work on YOU, the greater your chances of easily improving finances, automatically attracting money to you, and KEEPING and MULTIPLYING the funds that come your way.
Slow down, balance out yourself and your life. Pave the way for money to flow to you like water. Abundance of all things exists within God-Mind. It is up to you to decide in what area of your life you want abundance and then create the recipe to attract it. You have a lot of choices. Make the correct choice for the correct reason in the correct way, and watch your life automatically change for the better.
Janet Swerdlow
