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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Rhomboids on November 25, 2012, 04:13:20 PM
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I think the answer is an emphatic YES. To be honest though, real talk here, I don't mind giving a girl a gift or cash money seeing as i don't place much value in the paper. But the truth is though i wouldn't be opposed to it, i'm old enough to know that any girl or woman would quickly lose respect for you soon as you start doing that.
I was watching a porn and they were interviewing this 18yr whore. She was saying she would jerk off her high school coach and make out with him. She said he got weird because he would want to buy her things and give her money. I found it interesting that she labeled him as wierd when he started to do that.
I know that the guy that is fucking a girl (not a boyfriend though) is not the same guy who buys her things too. Women assign men to certain roles; you're either the alpha that's fucking them, or the beta that's trying to fuck them so you give them gifts.
I'd still have no problems paying a girl's cell phone for some head though. Even at this learned age is hard to shake off the residue of being a nice guy.
What say you getbiggers?
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No it's when you stop nimrod.
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if you give her money for sex you save a lot of time
no one in modern world respects anything due to TV and net
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Bone married women, then some other asshole is paying for their shit.
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I think the answer is an emphatic YES. To be honest though, real talk here, I don't mind giving a girl a gift or cash money seeing as i don't place much value in the paper. But the truth is though i wouldn't be opposed to it, i'm old enough to know that any girl or woman would quickly lose respect for you soon as you start doing that.
I was watching a porn and they were interviewing this 18yr whore. She was saying she would jerk off her high school coach and make out with him. She said he got weird because he would want to buy her things and give her money. I found it interesting that she labeled him as wierd when he started to do that.
I know that the guy that is fucking a girl (not a boyfriend though) is not the same guy who buys her things too. Women assign men to certain roles; you're either the alpha that's fucking them, or the beta that's trying to fuck them so you give them gifts.
I'd still have no problems paying a girl's cell phone for some head though. Even at this learned age is hard to shake off the residue of being a nice guy.
What say you getbiggers?
I would never pay a chicks cellphone bill, unless it was my wife and she didn't work and took care of the kids. Buying dinner is one thing, paying bills for whores is fucking dumb in my opinion.
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It depends on what your goal is for said woman.
Whore? Friend? Girlfriend? Friend w/ benefits?
Can't add wife 'cause what's hers is hers and what's your's is hers...lol
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It depends on what your goal is for said woman.
Whore? Friend? Girlfriend? Friend w/ benefits?
Can't add wife 'cause what's hers is hers and what's your's is hers...lol
Hey Chocolate Mousse.....this thread involves a discussion about money, you should leave quietly.
Pigfucker! ;D
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I wouldnt spend a penny on a person unless they were begging for money (in which case I always oblige so long as I have some money to give), or unless I already developed a close relationship with the person. Friends, family, significant other.. I am very generous and will spend all of my money on spending time doing fun things with these people. But otherwise, FUCK NO. I wont even buy a drink/a meal for a woman on a first date. She can buy herself that stuff.
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It depends on what your goal is for said woman.
Whore? Friend? Girlfriend? Friend w/ benefits?
Can't add wife 'cause what's hers is hers and what's your's is hers...lol
I believe the question was more aimed at folks who actually have a job, chief.
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i give my wife shit
at least once a day
it's good for our
sex life
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I wouldnt spend a penny on a person unless they were begging for money (in which case I always oblige so long as I have some money to give), or unless I already developed a close relationship with the person. Friends, family, significant other.. I am very generous and will spend all of my money on spending time doing fun things with these people. But otherwise, FUCK NO. I wont even buy a drink/a meal for a woman on a first date. She can buy herself that stuff.
as if your broke gay ass even had a choice in the first place
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I wouldnt spend a penny on a person unless they were begging for money (in which case I always oblige so long as I have some money to give), or unless I already developed a close relationship with the person. Friends, family, significant other.. I am very generous and will spend all of my money on spending time doing fun things with these people. But otherwise, FUCK NO. I wont even buy a drink/a meal for a woman on a first date. She can buy herself that stuff.
mighty generous of you to share your (non-existent) funds with your family. it's not like you owe them because you stole thousands of dollars from them or anything like that, yetibombz.
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I wouldnt spend a penny on a person unless they were begging for money (in which case I always oblige so long as I have some money to give), or unless I already developed a close relationship with the person. Friends, family, significant other.. I am very generous and will spend all of my money on spending time doing fun things with these people. But otherwise, FUCK NO. I wont even buy a drink/a meal for a woman on a first date. She can buy herself that stuff.
This...
Like Wiggs said too, it depends what your goals are for her.
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to sum up:
1 the woman had 0 respect b4 and after
2 money is all a woman wants since by walkign around she gets 50 dick offers a day in our sex starved modern world
3 I am joining the conspiracy to keep women poor
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3 I am joining the conspiracy to keep women poor
Love it! Count me in too, except for family, etc....
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i know stories when many rich rich business man payed a girl above 20k a month only to not work!
yes you heard it right they paid above 20k not to work!
the thing is,these mans are earning millions and millions and they arent so youg,and they got in love with a younger chick,so they get pretty jelaous...so the pay them not to work!
i know the case when the girl from italy whos 39 divorced from a husband of 80y,and she wants 100k euros a month from him,and she said i could ask for more cause our lifestyle was much more than 100k a month!
but again these are rich industrials who are worth millions and sometimes around a billion!
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very very interesting topic.
say you take her out to eat(even though she should be cooking at home), should the bill be share 50-50?
What's messed up is that if a guy did decide that you both should pay for your own meals, he is seen as a loser or someone who cares too much about money, etc. It's a messed up society we live in.
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What's messed up is that if a guy did decide that you both should pay for your own meals, he is seen as a loser or someone who cares too much about money, etc. It's a messed up society we live in.
If you have a good solid build, are handsome and have a personality, buying the first drink or two means absolutely nothing unless you are flat ass broke. In fact, slapping a ten down right off the bat for drinks just gets the waitress out of your hair faster. The vast majority of women will offer to pay by the second or third drink if they are into you. From that point on just continue to have a fun time until you eventuality take her to your mattress.
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read this, and then read it again, and again, and again
This applies to partners, too. If I'm compatible with someone, then our relationship will be effortless. We'll appreciate each other, just as we are. The less compatible we are, the more power struggles may show up, or the more a dominant/submissive connection may result. The problem with much of humanity is that we believe "nobody's perfect," and "all relationships require effort." As a result, we willfully enter into relationships that look exactly how we believe they should! We then sacrifice, compromise, and struggle (or giving up begrudgingly), believing that's just the way things are. And that's the life we live :(
I also believe happiness is more important than "sticking together" with a partner. Many people believe that sticking together will "make them" happy, even though they live a life of compromise, power-struggle, and sacrifice...all with the hope that this will "make them" happy. Howzat workin' for ya?
When I love someone, I do it *freely*, not with chains. I don't want her to do something she doesn't want to, nor do I want her not to do something she wants to. I say, be yourself. Live genuinely and fully, rather than meekly for fear of losing an (incompatible) partner.
A spouse that says to their partner, "If you get your dream car, then I'm outa here," (or some other ultimatum) is really saying, "I need you to behave according to my expectations, otherwise I can't feel good about you." Fair enough. Anyone can ask for what they want. But it requires the partner to *agree* to that, likely out of some fearful motivation, and sacrifice their own happiness to appease their (incompatible) partner. Put in simple terms, it takes one person to build the jail and hold the door open, and the other to agree to enter into it and live in it. Don't blame your partner for your decisions. Be accountable for your thinking, decisions, and actions.
I say to the women in my life, if you like me and I you, then we can walk together, for as long as we *both* enjoy it. But if you don't like me, that's okay too! You can always walk the other way. I'm sure I'll find company who'll likes me and share my passions with me. That'll be a hell of a lot more fun than trying to make someone happy.
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very very interesting topic.
say you take her out to eat(even though she should be cooking at home), should the bill be share 50-50?
I think there should be a combination of both. A man should take the woman out occasionally and she should also be looking after her man by cooking for him and taking care of him. If you love someone you want to make them happy...you want to cook a good meal for your man. But obviously I am not taking into consideration that some women are terrible cooks and or don't know how to cook. But I just feel that everybody should learn the basics when it comes to cooking as you can't live on take outs and eating out all the time.
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"Soon as he buy that wine, I just creep up from behind..."
Notorious BIG
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read this, and then read it again, and again, and again
This applies to partners, too. If I'm compatible with someone, then our relationship will be effortless. We'll appreciate each other, just as we are. The less compatible we are, the more power struggles may show up, or the more a dominant/submissive connection may result. The problem with much of humanity is that we believe "nobody's perfect," and "all relationships require effort." As a result, we willfully enter into relationships that look exactly how we believe they should! We then sacrifice, compromise, and struggle (or giving up begrudgingly), believing that's just the way things are. And that's the life we live :(
I also believe happiness is more important than "sticking together" with a partner. Many people believe that sticking together will "make them" happy, even though they live a life of compromise, power-struggle, and sacrifice...all with the hope that this will "make them" happy. Howzat workin' for ya?
When I love someone, I do it *freely*, not with chains. I don't want her to do something she doesn't want to, nor do I want her not to do something she wants to. I say, be yourself. Live genuinely and fully, rather than meekly for fear of losing an (incompatible) partner.
A spouse that says to their partner, "If you get your dream car, then I'm outa here," (or some other ultimatum) is really saying, "I need you to behave according to my expectations, otherwise I can't feel good about you." Fair enough. Anyone can ask for what they want. But it requires the partner to *agree* to that, likely out of some fearful motivation, and sacrifice their own happiness to appease their (incompatible) partner. Put in simple terms, it takes one person to build the jail and hold the door open, and the other to agree to enter into it and live in it. Don't blame your partner for your decisions. Be accountable for your thinking, decisions, and actions.
I say to the women in my life, if you like me and I you, then we can walk together, for as long as we *both* enjoy it. But if you don't like me, that's okay too! You can always walk the other way. I'm sure I'll find company who'll likes me and share my passions with me. That'll be a hell of a lot more fun than trying to make someone happy.
DJ bringing wisdom.
This is exactly what I did when I first met my wife. Got sick of relationships not working out because I compromised (or forced the other party to compromise, making them unhappy), so I told her up-front what it would be like. That I would not accept interference with my hobbies, that I liked my sex a certain way and frequency, that I would never want children. Then she said "fine", and gave me a list of her own immutable rules. We could both live with each other's requirements, so it was a go from then on. 3 hours later my peepee was in her bunghole. ;D
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"Soon as he buy that wine, I just creep up come rolling up quietly in my fat-person Rascal from behind..."
Notorious BIG
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DJ bringing wisdom.
This is exactly what I did when I first met my wife. Got sick of relationships not working out because I compromised (or forced the other party to compromise, making them unhappy), so I told her up-front what it would be like. That I would not accept interference with my hobbies, that I liked my sex a certain way and frequency, that I would never want children. Then she said "fine", and gave me a list of her own immutable rules. We could both live with each other's requirements, so it was a go from then on. 3 hours later my peepee was in her bunghole. ;D
I had posted that from some guy on a auto forum...don't give dj credit for it...
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I had posted that from some guy on a auto forum...don't give dj credit for it...
never said that it was my quote dude
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If you are too available, in any way, you lose value. This is true in all relationships and on many different levels.
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so many dumb fucks in this thread, if you want to fuck a hot girl you are going to pay one way or the other and there is no way around it. now if like fucking plain looking women then that is a different thing. the only way you fuck a hot girl without paying is if you are famous because it will be good for her profile to be seen with you.
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mighty generous of you to share your (non-existent) funds with your family. it's not like you owe them because you stole thousands of dollars from them or anything like that, yetibombz.
;)
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I wouldnt spend a penny on a person unless they were begging for money (in which case I always oblige so long as I have some money to give), or unless I already developed a close relationship with the person. Friends, family, significant other.. I am very generous and will spend all of my money on spending time doing fun things with these people. But otherwise, FUCK NO. I wont even buy a drink/a meal for a woman on a first date. She can buy herself that stuff.
Shut the fuck up. You don't have money to begin with. How can you think of spending it on other people when you're broke?
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Shut the fuck up. You don't have money to begin with. How can you think of spending it on other people when you're broke?
without adressing my personal financial situation, i would simply submit that X% of ones wealth is equal to X% of another's wealth. said another way= its not the results of charity that determine altruism, its the intention and relative sacrifice. in an even different manner= 5 dollars out of 10 dollars is more charitable than 4,999 dollars out of 10,000. said even differently, taking a friend out to dinner and a movie for me is better than a wealthy man buying his friend a mansion. :) ;) 8)
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kinda agree.but a woman who cant cook is no woman, is a dumb bimbo.
a woman who choses not to cook is a disgusting filthy whore.
That's a bit general, if not completely wrong. Most young women are absolutely clueless and truly lesser mental beings than most men but whether they choose to cook or not doesn't weigh much on that decision, IMO.
In my eyes, a good partner is someone where they don't necessarily have to do X or Y. They have strong morals and a good heart - so whatever they do is based on those actions. A slut is a slut. Someone only good for sex can be thrown out and they are - happens every weekend around the world. Someone that's more than that... a real person... a good soul... they're the ones that aren't just for sex or cooking or some stupid things like that. Those people are there for life, no matter what happens.
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Guys i was just referring to the average girl that you meet with intentions of fucking. Not your future wife. Not a hooker either though. If you start giving 'gifts' to a girl before you've fucked her, she'll think you a sucker and never give you ass. I know plenty of women like this. However i will be offering an ipad to this 20yr old i'm trying to fuck. That wont burn a hole in my pocket though so i don't give a fuck.
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However i will be offering an ipad to this 20yr old i'm trying to fuck. That wont burn a hole in my pocket though so i don't give a fuck.
my kinda guy ;D
18-23 year olds FTW 8)
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Guys i was just referring to the average girl that you meet with intentions of fucking. Not your future wife. Not a hooker either though. If you start giving 'gifts' to a girl before you've fucked her, she'll think you a sucker and never give you ass. I know plenty of women like this. However i will be offering an ipad to this 20yr old i'm trying to fuck. That wont burn a hole in my pocket though so i don't give a fuck.
in your opinion, does the ipad improve your chances of fucking her?
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my kinda guy ;D
18-23 year olds FTW 8)
how about you get laid THIS YEAR and then talk
PS aren't you pushing 40 you creepy fuck?
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Guys i was just referring to the average girl that you meet with intentions of fucking. Not your future wife. Not a hooker either though. If you start giving 'gifts' to a girl before you've fucked her, she'll think you a sucker and never give you ass. I know plenty of women like this. However i will be offering an ipad to this 20yr old i'm trying to fuck. That wont burn a hole in my pocket though so i don't give a fuck.
Take her out and show her a good time and then fuck her. Why spend several hundred dollars on an iPad?
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in your opinion, does the ipad improve your chances of fucking her?
Thats what i'm hoping. She's loaded from her parents but it's personally broke. What girl that's 20 doesn't want an ipad? Can't hurt i figure. I'll report back.
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Take her out and show her a good time and then fuck her. Why spend several hundred dollars on an iPad?
We've done a few lunch dates and stuff, but it's a complicated situation. Im in my 30s and we are friends, not really dating. I always treat her like we're in a date whenever we hang though. I'm trying to get her to a bar for some drinks. Trust me though, it's complicated. Hoping the iPad might cloud her judgement when I stick my tongue down her mouth.
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We've done a few lunch dates and stuff, but it's a complicated situation. Im in my 30s and we are friends, not really dating. I always treat her like we're in a date whenever we hang though. I'm trying to get her to a bar for some drinks. Trust me though, it's complicated. Hoping the iPad might cloud her judgement when I stick my tongue down her mouth.
think you're overthinking it. can't you tell if there's "chemistry" or not?
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Yes, they won't respect you as soon as you start giving $$$... they wont even be grateful either, Specially those that smoke weed younger ones (18 to 28).... they will always need money and will never look for you to share anything they have with you..... yes friendly and slutty but no respect .
WOOOSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHH
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I wouldnt spend a penny on a person unless they were begging for money (in which case I always oblige so long as I have some money to give), or unless I already developed a close relationship with the person. Friends, family, significant other.. I am very generous and will spend all of my money on spending time doing fun things with these people. But otherwise, FUCK NO. I wont even buy a drink/a meal for a woman on a first date. She can buy herself that stuff.
Best answer so far!!!
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My fiancé & I split everything down the middle. He offers all the time. But then I feel like i owe him and I don't like to owe anyone shit. So 95% of the time I decline his offers. However it's nice to know the man as a stable job and can pamper a girl from time to time. IMO I feel that a man can pay for small stuff like dinner and movies, that's acceptable. But paying a cell bill or rent when
that's not even wifey or a serious relationship.... That's when she loses respect for you cuz she will only use you for you money and play you like a sucker! I feel u should Play hard but treat her like a lady without having to buy her everything or subconsciously buying her affection or love. That will get you nowhere but broke and eventually alone.
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my this new gf isnt shy of paying for stuff, when were out she even pays more than i do as of now.
but she expects a man to be able to pay some of the stuff.
shes not entirely clear on the issue.
i dont want do this shared bills when in restaurant stuff, think its stupid.
she should always pay instead ;D
it depends, if both work and no kids, theres no way i would pay for anything but maybe her food.
if married with kids and she dont work then its different.
let them machinegun their own feet if they pretend and choose to be a modern emanzipated woman and all that.
I agree. There is a mutual respect in this case:-)
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My fiancé & I split everything down the middle. He offers all the time. But then I feel like i owe him and I don't like to owe anyone shit. So 95% of the time I decline his offers. However it's nice to know the man as a stable job and can pamper a girl from time to time. IMO I feel that a man can pay for small stuff like dinner and movies, that's acceptable. But paying a cell bill or rent when
that's not even wifey or a serious relationship.... That's when she loses respect for you cuz she will only use you for you money and play you like a sucker! I feel u should Play hard but treat her like a lady without having to buy her everything or subconsciously buying her affection or love. That will get you nowhere but broke and eventually alone.
that's a GREAT setup right there!
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Guys i was just referring to the average girl that you meet with intentions of fucking. Not your future wife. Not a hooker either though. If you start giving 'gifts' to a girl before you've fucked her, she'll think you a sucker and never give you ass. I know plenty of women like this. However i will be offering an ipad to this 20yr old i'm trying to fuck. That wont burn a hole in my pocket though so i don't give a fuck.
So u haven't hit it yet?? And u feel like buying her an ipad will get u the p$&sy??okay fair enough.. So you buy her the iPad, in return u get sex, ok let say You want to hit it again? Are u trying to spend that kind of money everytime you smash?!?! Seriously??!! Think about it, your starting with an iPad. Don't you think things will get bigger and bigger especially if she has the bombass p$&@y! It'll be like a drug. I mean to each his own but if you wanna hit, I'd start smaller than an iPad. Get her a kindle or something like that lmfao!!
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so many dumb fucks in this thread, if you want to fuck a hot girl you are going to pay one way or the other and there is no way around it. now if like fucking plain looking women then that is a different thing. the only way you fuck a hot girl without paying is if you are famous because it will be good for her profile to be seen with you.
Exactly. Hot ass chicks don't date good-looking, buff guys if they don't have money. Maybe they fuck them once or twice, but for the most part they date (and fuck) fat, old, rich dudes. Go to any club in LA and the hottest chick there is always with an old dude (or as you said someone famous.)
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Guys i was just referring to the average girl that you meet with intentions of fucking. Not your future wife. Not a hooker either though. If you start giving 'gifts' to a girl before you've fucked her, she'll think you a sucker and never give you ass. I know plenty of women like this. However i will be offering an ipad to this 20yr old i'm trying to fuck. That wont burn a hole in my pocket though so i don't give a fuck.
let her *borrow* it.
The trade-off can be a subtle one. When the fun times end, you gonna need to collect that ipad.
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so you are saying women are whores? ;D
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let her *borrow* it.
The trade-off can be a subtle one. When the fun times end, you gonna need to collect that ipad.
Yeah... but make sure you get the iPad back before you end things or expect it to be mysteriously lost or broken when she hears the news.
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I have a bad habbit of always paying even if i just date the girl, not bills and shit but dinner etc, i have to stop with that, even if i can afford it.