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Title: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: GRACIE JIU-JITSU on September 26, 2014, 09:58:14 AM

 I suspect that barebacking is an effective way of inspiring people to follow the love of Christ.  ;D




Devout Christians looking to spread the word of God sometimes need to get creative about where they're preaching—after all, anywhere could be the right place to convert an unbeliever. So why not discuss Bible verses with the guy you've invited over to fuck your wife?

For Florida couple Dean and Christy Parave, their swingers' lifestyle doesn't conflict with their deeply-held Christian beliefs. Rather, it provides an outlet where they can share the gospel (along with sexual partners). "I'm getting to people that probably never even visited church," says Dean. "Hey, God's not gonna put a lion with a bunch of elephants, so what's he gonna do? He's gonna put a swinger with a bunch of swingers to spread his word."

Preach.

Christy is solidly on board: "I feel like right now, this is God's plan."

Married in 2007, the couple initially started swinging without intending to bring their faith into the picture, until Dean realized that they "could do a lot of good with this." Both avid gym-goers, they're also behind the site FitnessSwingers.com.

Dean believes deeply in his non-traditional missionary work: "If I can go to the next swinger's event and get 10 people to believe in Christ...my job is done."



 http://gawker.com/blessed-are-the-swingers-christian-couple-share-partne-1639309734

 
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DanielPaul on September 26, 2014, 10:02:30 AM
That's pretty sad.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: SF1900 on September 26, 2014, 10:03:34 AM
A very strange lifestyle. I am not too sure how people do it.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: the trainer on September 26, 2014, 10:04:24 AM
I have converted many bitches to christians when I am pounding their asshole they keep screaming jesus christ.

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Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: BigRo on September 26, 2014, 10:08:32 AM
I believe you lord trannor
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Army of One on September 26, 2014, 10:09:19 AM
I have converted many bitches to christians when I am pounding their asshole they keep screaming jesus christ.

Are these men angry with you after?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Simple Simon on September 26, 2014, 10:11:51 AM
Hi, welcome to our swingers party
Hi mate
Tell me, do you believe in God
Yep, now wheres your wife.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Kwon_2 on September 26, 2014, 10:18:57 AM
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Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: B_B_C on September 26, 2014, 10:20:46 AM
wasn't Jesus a virgin?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: The_Iron_Disciple on September 26, 2014, 10:22:47 AM
HAHAHAHA !!!!! WOW !!!!!!!
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on September 26, 2014, 10:24:56 AM
(http://i.imgur.com/lhDigUw.jpg)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: nasht5 on September 26, 2014, 10:25:50 AM
swingers for christ... ya can't make that up.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ChopperRider on September 26, 2014, 10:26:47 AM
I have converted many bitches to christians when I am pounding their asshole they keep screaming jesus christ.

Your mom?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Man of Steel on September 26, 2014, 10:30:39 AM
 ::)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: gracie bjj on September 26, 2014, 10:59:10 AM
like I said the other day,ive gotten more pussy going to church in my old neighborhood back in the day than I did in nightclubs,my church was packed with brasilian,argentina,portuguese ect and im a blonde hair,blue eyed white boy with a decent build,nothing great but a solid 190lb at 5,11 inches with abs.it was like a fuck festivle,believe it or not
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: MP on September 26, 2014, 11:26:02 AM
Odd to say the least.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Mr Anabolic on September 26, 2014, 11:26:42 AM
Most religious fanatics are mentally ill.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: chaos on September 26, 2014, 11:52:35 AM
 ;D
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Man of Steel on September 26, 2014, 12:14:37 PM
Most religious fanatics are mentally ill.

How do you define a "religious fanatic"?   

Someone that beliefs in a god, openly acknowledges their beliefs, attends a church/organized gathering and reads a holy book of some sort?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Man of Steel on September 26, 2014, 12:15:25 PM
swingers for christ... ya can't make that up.

Clearly they did so.......
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: FermiDirac on September 26, 2014, 12:18:11 PM
Cuckold of peace
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: el numero uno on September 26, 2014, 12:22:38 PM
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Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: True on September 26, 2014, 12:46:28 PM
Just looking and listening to these "people" makes my IQ hurt.... ::)

Its like they have a 5 year old mentality in a grown up body. Such clowns, such morons, such everything you do NOT want to be. :-X

God bless america. ;D
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: FermiDirac on September 26, 2014, 12:50:33 PM
Bareback for Jesus, eh?

Creampie for Jesus?

All internal for Jesus?

Going raw for Jesus?

No pullout for Jesus?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Mr Anabolic on September 26, 2014, 01:39:09 PM
How do you define a "religious fanatic"?  

Someone that beliefs in a god, openly acknowledges their beliefs, attends a church/organized gathering and reads a holy book of some sort?

Yes... your type.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Skeletor on September 26, 2014, 01:41:48 PM
I suspect that barebacking is an effective way of inspiring people to follow the love of Christ.  ;D

LOL
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DroppingPlates on September 26, 2014, 02:40:19 PM
A very strange lifestyle. I am not too sure how people do it.

The absence of possessiveness and jealousy. I can admire those qualities...
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: BigRo on September 26, 2014, 02:43:04 PM
it would take an absence of those indeed, is that a good thing though? Is it not 'good' to be possessive of the one you love?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DroppingPlates on September 26, 2014, 02:48:09 PM
it would take an absence of those indeed, is that a good thing though? Is it not 'good' to be possessive of the one you love?

If both partners are happy with this kind of open relationship/lifestyle, then more power to them.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: The Scott on September 26, 2014, 03:33:04 PM
Their chosen behavior is about as Christian as this:

Fuck those swinger buttwipes. 

Now then, having aptly demonstrated two types of non Christian behavior (i.e., "swinging" and saying, albeit with total honesty, about these two sluts "fuck those swinger buttwipes", I can also say this about the so-called "lifestyle".

How any Man can be such a cowardly cuckold as to "enjoy" watching another man or men so belittle his wife, the woman he claims to love is beyond me.  We had "swingers" across the street from us years ago and one day they dropped an invitation to join in.

Unfortunately for them two things were not goooood about this invite.  One, it was in person.  Two, it was to me and by association my wife.  I shall not go into detail but they ultimately moved from the area and whether or not my attitude toward them had anything to do with that move I can't say.

But I can say they never spoke to me again and with good reason.  I don't share and by that I mean I don't share my wife nor my self.  So long as it's not illegal I don't care what you do in your bedroom but if you go sticking your dick in my path (especially if you are trying to put it where it should never be, i.e. near my wife) I am going to stomp on it. 

So.  Behavior such as these two cretins have displayed is not of Christ and again so that you may better believe me (I am not going to lie to you) neither is my calling them fuckwit cuckolded scumbags (and they are) but what both of these displays of perversion (swinging) and creative writing (my thoughtful interpretation of said swingers) truly represents is this.

We are all human but we are not all true followers of the Christ.  Those two turds are more along the lines of Jim Baker.  Worthless.  Am I any better?  Damn right I am.  How do I know?  I acknowledge my sin.  That's not an excuse but neither is it a lie.

Be well.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: TrueGrit on September 26, 2014, 03:37:31 PM
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Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 03:40:19 PM
The absence of possessiveness and jealousy. I can admire those qualities...

It is possessive or jealous to watch your wife get reamed by strangers? Risk stds and pregnancy brought on by someone you won't see again? It isn't just emotional reasons that people have monogamous relationships, you want your kids to come out of the woman you are with.

I think all swingers are mentally ill unless they just got together for that purpose in which case the marriage is a fraud.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Voice of Doom on September 26, 2014, 03:43:50 PM
I imagine the religious "pitch" would be a bit of a buzz kill...especially if its after you've busted your nut in his wife.  You just want to kick back, smoke a cigar and have some Grand Marnier while this guy's going on about "being saved" and handing his wife wipes to soak up the cum drizzling from her pussy.

Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Wez on September 26, 2014, 03:56:40 PM
I need some purple hair dye and some more EQ
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Red Hook on September 26, 2014, 03:57:31 PM
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I wonder if that's the night that the he got "the sickness"
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 04:21:56 PM
I imagine the religious "pitch" would be a bit of a buzz kill...especially if its after you've busted your nut in his wife.  You just want to kick back, smoke a cigar and have some Grand Marnier while this guy's going on about "being saved" and handing his wife wipes to soak up the cum drizzling from her pussy.



My gf always wipes then bitches I don't make her pregnant. O/T but I had to vent it. I'm on hcg so defo shooting good ones.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DroppingPlates on September 26, 2014, 04:39:21 PM
It is possessive or jealous to watch your wife get reamed by strangers? Risk stds and pregnancy brought on by someone you won't see again? It isn't just emotional reasons that people have monogamous relationships, you want your kids to come out of the woman you are with.

I think all swingers are mentally ill unless they just got together for that purpose in which case the marriage is a fraud.

First off, I believe it's not up to us to judge; we can only choose what feels best for us.

I guess you don't know the swinger scene (based on your assumptions).
- Not just 'strangers'; they take the time to meet each others. In many cases all 4 need to insist, not just 2 or 3 of them.
- Many swingers don't have/want children and are aware of potential diseases, so you believe they have unprotected sex?  ::)
- On a psychological/philosophical note: is being monogamous a healthy and natural state, or are we just brainwashed by religions or afraid to be honest about our true desires?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 04:45:19 PM
First off, I believe it's not up to us to judge; we can only choose what feels best for us.

I guess you don't know the swinger scene (based on your assumptions).
- Not just 'strangers'; they take the time to meet each others. In many cases all 4 need to insist, not just 2 or 3 of them.
- Many swingers don't have/want children and are aware of potential diseases, so you believe they have unprotected sex?  ::)
- On a psychological/philosophical note: is being monogamous a healthy and natural state, or are we just brainwashed by religions or afraid to be honest about our true desires?


I know the swinger scene well. I knew since I was twelve and local priest said it in church and popularity of it soared. My gf also knows what it is like in brazil and Spain.

it is male instinct to fuck what you can, I agree. But it is sick to see your gf get fucked or be a cuckhold fagget. You aren't using brain if you can't see that. You do know where cuckhold comes from?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DroppingPlates on September 26, 2014, 04:58:15 PM

I know the swinger scene well. I knew since I was twelve and local priest said it in church and popularity of it soared. My gf also knows what it is like in brazil and Spain.

it is male instinct to fuck what you can, I agree. But it is sick to see your gf get fucked or be a cuckhold fagget. You aren't using brain if you can't see that. You do know where cuckhold comes from?

Not sure how well, since some of your assumptions are invalid. You think it's just a male-related instinct? Wrong again, women have these desires as well (but I never insisted  ;) )
You call it 'sick', simply because YOU mentally can't handle it, just like me BTW.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 26, 2014, 05:08:57 PM
The absence of possessiveness and jealousy. I can admire those qualities...
Oh, there are rules. You have ok it with your partner, have to have permission, give consent.
Furthermore, the reasoning for it, is that it's not cheating if the other person knows.
Also, many of the couples have issues within the relationship, and bringing other people is supposed to alleviate those issues. It does not, they still exist.
The men are not possessive because, well, many have an inferiority complex. Liking to see another man hitting off their significant other has a whiff of "beta" to it. And then encouraging said men to "get her done"?
Well, the women get theirs. But ask yourself, what type of man is that?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 05:10:55 PM
Not sure how well, since some of your assumptions are invalid. You think it's just a male-related instinct? Wrong again, women have these desires as well (but I never insisted  ;) )
You call it 'sick', simply because YOU mentally can't handle it, just like me BTW.

Then why get married?

That is the part I don't get. Marrying (a commitment to another person) implies fidelity. Fuck it, fidelity is expressly guaranteed and is a grounds for divorce. I know some women slut around I have fucked married and taken women. The idea of it being part of a relationship is fucked up.

As for female instincts and wants who needs fidelity more? Person who has kid or person who fucks her? Women need marriage more hence massive imbalance in wedding costs.

fuck it marriage is a sham if it costs more than you make in six months.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: wolfrittner on September 26, 2014, 05:14:06 PM
Your mom?
lol
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DroppingPlates on September 26, 2014, 05:29:16 PM
Oh, there are rules. You have ok it with your partner, have to have permission, give consent.
Furthermore, the reasoning for it, is that it's not cheating if the other person knows.
Also, many of the couples have issues within the relationship, and bringing other people is supposed to alleviate those issues. It does not, they still exist.
The men are not possessive because, well, many have an inferiority complex. Liking to see another man hitting off their significant other has a whiff of "beta" to it. And then encouraging said men to "get her done"?
Well, the women get theirs. But ask yourself, what type of man is that?

Both monogamous and polygamous couples have their issues, though they might vary.
Hard to say what's going on in a man's head (I only know/knew female swingers), but an inferiority complex sounds plausible to me.

Then why get married?

That is the part I don't get. Marrying (a commitment to another person) implies fidelity. Fuck it, fidelity is expressly guaranteed and is a grounds for divorce. I know some women slut around I have fucked married and taken women. The idea of it being part of a relationship is fucked up.

As for female instincts and wants who needs fidelity more? Person who has kid or person who fucks her? Women need marriage more hence massive imbalance in wedding costs.

fuck it marriage is a sham if it costs more than you make in six months.

Good question, "why get married?" I never truly understood this ;)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: TrueGrit on September 26, 2014, 05:34:45 PM
I cannot believed I receive no acknowledgement for my troubles in posting - for your conveniences - pictures of these swingers.

I am disappoint.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 05:35:36 PM
Both monogamous and polygamous couples have their issues, though they might vary.
Hard to say what's going on in a man's head (I only know/knew female swingers), but an inferiority complex sounds plausible to me.

Good question, "why get married?" I never truly understood this ;)


I would marry a woman I want to have my children as I believe a solid family unit (father and mother) is the best for raising a child. I want children (have one son to an ex) so that would be the best option. I would never marry a woman I thought would use me or leave me - my gf is devoutly religious (unlike me) so I believe I can trust her on that - plus she has been loyal to a fault with me.

I hate divorce laws, but they are just a continuation of the general discrimination against men in relationships. There are no pre nups here but that doesn't affect me (unfortunately). What does is the almost certain ruling that the mother is primary carer and father is an afterthought - a  luxury. That should be separate from marriage but it isn't unfortunately.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: DroppingPlates on September 26, 2014, 05:43:14 PM

I would marry a woman I want to have my children as I believe a solid family unit (father and mother) is the best for raising a child. I want children (have one son to an ex) so that would be the best option. I would never marry a woman I thought would use me or leave me - my gf is devoutly religious (unlike me) so I believe I can trust her on that - plus she has been loyal to a fault with me.

I hate divorce laws, but they are just a continuation of the general discrimination against men in relationships. There are no pre nups here but that doesn't affect me (unfortunately). What does is the almost certain ruling that the mother is primary carer and father is an afterthought - a  luxury. That should be separate from marriage but it isn't unfortunately.

Point taken. Well, than it's obvious that an open relationship isn't suited for both of you, all the best with your future wife :)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 05:47:10 PM
Point taken. Well, than it's obvious that an open relationship isn't suited for both of you, all the best with your future wife :)

Fuck don't say that I still walk over to ladies area to perv in gym.

the idea that it is ok to see your wife reamed or husband fuck is just alien to common decency. Maybe the french have it right. Have affairs but keep it quiet.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: GRACIE JIU-JITSU on September 26, 2014, 05:47:50 PM
 I have been in a lot of places " countries"... I like to travel.

 I had the oportunity of having sex with women from other countries.

 Brazilian and European women are into getting f*cked...by men.

 American women complains a lot about American men.

 White men only interrested in blow jobs, don't like to go down on a girl. don't like anal.

 Blacks like to have sex "intercourse", but most women do not like blacks, because of society.

 So most American women end up getting f*cked by Latin men.

 One more thing most American men, like the idea of having  sex with 2 girls, but they just want to watch the 2 girls having sex.
  So what's the point?

 I guess at the end of the day... some men are submissive by nature, or they do not know,or they know but... do not  want to admit.

 Source: American women.

 I do apologize for using the words whites and blacks . I'm not racist. please do not get me wrong.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 26, 2014, 05:48:06 PM
Both monogamous and polygamous couples have their issues, though they might vary.
Hard to say what's going on in a man's head (I only know/knew female swingers), but an inferiority complex sounds plausible to me.

Good question, "why get married?" I never truly understood this ;)
The issues I speak of are intimacy/sex/dominance. Dressed up as "spicing it up".
The swinging is used as a band aid to cover up said issues. Sure the woman gets hers, but there is loss of respect for the man. I've know swingers as well. The claim is that "the life" is great. But, underneath it all, you see that there are intimacy issues on various levels for both parties, and a ton of rules. In fact, it seems that monogamy is a whole lot simpler, in concept and in application. And on here there are few cuckholds, and "bulls". The number one thing  that the "bulls" say is that the "cucks" are submissive and that the wives are dominant. They get what they want, and the men, well their men, have no say.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 05:51:15 PM
The issues I speak of are intimacy/sex/dominance. Dressed up as "spicing it up".
The swinging is used as a band aid to cover up said issues. Sure the woman gets hers, but there is loss of respect for the man. I've know swingers as well. The claim is that "the life" is great. But, underneath it all, you see that there are intimacy issues on various levels for both parties, and a ton of rules. In fact, it seems that monogamy is a whole lot simpler, in concept and in application. And on here there are few cuckholds, and "bulls". The number one thing  that the "bulls" say is that the "cucks" are submissive and that the wives are dominant. They get what they want, and the men, well their men, have no say.

Saw a programme on it the other day. The wife was a black immigrant, husband was rich and held swinger parties. It was obvious she hated it but kept mouth shut cos it was a better life. That is just wrong. Yes she gains financially etc but it is your wife, you don't treat her like a whore, you treat women from a club or hookers like a whore. At least they know what they are getting into.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 26, 2014, 05:56:45 PM
I have been in a lot of places " countries"... I like to travel.

 I had the oportunity of having sex with women from other countries.

 Brazilian and European women are into getting f*cked...by men.

 American women complains a lot about American men.

 White men only interrested in blow jobs, don't like to go down on a girl. don't like anal.

 Blacks like to have sex "intercourse", but most women do not like blacks, because of society.

 So most American women end up getting f*cked by Latin men.

 One more thing most American men, like the idea of having  sex with 2 girls, but they just want to watch the 2 girls having sex.
  So what's the point?

 I guess at the end of the day... some men are submissive by nature, or they do not know,or they know but... do not  want to admit.

 Source: American women.

 I do apologize about for using the words whites and blacks . I'm not racist. please do not get me wrong.
The reason why American men are the way they are is because of American women.
Said women complain, yet pick the same men over and over again.
There is a emasculation of the American male, and the masculinization of the American female. This has help create a "disconnect" or a confusion amongst men and women. Women wonder why said men are overly "nice", and don't pick them, but are pissed off with the jerks, who are on the opposite end---these men that the women sleep with.
The men---they are mad because being overly nice doesn't get you laid, but being a jerk gets you laid, but you don't keep the woman---for long.
So what happens? Nobody is happy! And they all believe that each other is the enemy, when there is no real enemy.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 26, 2014, 06:01:13 PM
Saw a programme on it the other day. The wife was a black immigrant, husband was rich and held swinger parties. It was obvious she hated it but kept mouth shut cos it was a better life. That is just wrong. Yes she gains financially etc but it is your wife, you don't treat her like a whore, you treat women from a club or hookers like a whore. At least they know what they are getting into.
Exactly, and that's probably why he married her, because that is what he thought of her.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 06:01:30 PM
The reason why American men are the way they are is because of American women.
Said women complain, yet pick the same men over and over again.
There is a emasculation of the American male, and the masculinization of the American female. This has help create a "disconnect" or a confusion amongst men and women. Women wonder why said men are overly "nice", and don't pick them, but are pissed off with the jerks, who are on the opposite end---these men that they sleep with.
The men---they are mad because being overly nice doesn't get you laid, but being a jerk gets you laid, but you don't keep the woman---for long.
So what happens? Nobody is happy! And they all believe that each other is the enemy, when there is no real enemy.


I agree to an extent but men should be men and women should be women, what you cited are societal norms brought about by the media. We aren't equal, men aren't the same as women etc. Men are normally providers, women normally carers. Men normally seek women, women are normally sought by men. Sex and the City and general social momentum have tried to reverse this. Bullshit. Women like being courted, men like providing.

Women should be able to work and men shouldn't eschew advances by women but if you jumble the natural order expect unhappiness, depression and divorce.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: GRACIE JIU-JITSU on September 26, 2014, 06:05:35 PM
Exactly, and that's probably why he married her, because that is what he thought of her.

 Hold on a sec... everybody have their fantasies.. right? people wants to explore and stuff.

 Would you rather do it with your partner or some stranger? I'm not talking sharing your partner with other dude.

 Do you really want a saint in your bed? a woman can be classy, and be very open minded in bed.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 06:12:42 PM
Hold on a sec... everybody have their fantasies.. right? people wants to explore and stuff.

 Would you rather do it with your partner or some stranger? I'm not talking sharing your partner with other dude.

 Do you really want a saint in your bed? a woman can be classy, and be very open minded in bed.


I discussed threesomes with gf (she brought it up) involving another female but after a while realised it would cause more trouble than anything. What if she cheated in future (she never would) and used it against you? More likely how much tension would it cause. What was consentual would forever more be a problem.

Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 26, 2014, 06:14:57 PM
Hold on a sec... everybody have their fantasies.. right? people wants to explore and stuff.

 Would you rather do it with your partner or some stranger? I'm not talking sharing your partner with other dude.

 Do you really want a saint in your bed? a woman can be classy, and be very open minded in bed.
The problem with fantasies is that the reality doesn't always play out well. Especially if one sexualities the others race---what they are supposed to be in a fantasy world. Or if the fantasy are taboo or over the top.
It's been said that the greatest sex organ is the mind. And unfortunately, a twisted mind can twist sex into many different things.
And then there is the other issue of the partner. It may not be what that partner signed up for.
Furthermore, why have other men have sex your wife, isn't that what one is supposed to do yourself? That is your duty. So, by having other men do it for you, you are therefore saying without words that you are incapable of pleasing your wife....now let's to into the fantasy of having men have sex with your wife, who wants to really see that? Ask yourself, what type of man gets off on that? A man who secretly likes to be emasculated in private, but is powerful in public?

No saints, not even some of the saints were saintly.  ;)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: GRACIE JIU-JITSU on September 26, 2014, 06:15:35 PM

I discussed threesomes with gf (she brought it up) involving another female but after a while realised it would cause more trouble than anything. What if she cheated in future (she never would) and used it against you? More likely how much tension would it cause. What was consentual would forever more be a problem.



 Fuck both and then broke up with her. ;D
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 06:17:03 PM
Fuck both and then broke up with her. ;D

There's a reason I said french way of being private was better  ;D
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: GRACIE JIU-JITSU on September 26, 2014, 06:29:10 PM
The problem with fantasies is that the reality doesn't always play out well. Especially if one sexualities the others race---what they are supposed to be in a fantasy world. Or if the fantasy are taboo or over the top.
It's been said that the greatest sex organ is the mind. And unfortunately, a twisted mind can twist sex into many different things.
And then there is the other issue of the partner. It may not be what that partner signed up for.
Furthermore, why have other men have sex your wife, isn't that what one is supposed to do yourself? That is your duty. So, by having other men do it for you, you are therefore saying without words that you are incapable of pleasing your wife....now let's to into the fantasy of having men have sex with your wife, who wants to really see that? Ask yourself, what type of man gets off on that? A man who secretly likes to be emasculated in private, but is powerful in public?

No saints, not even some of the saints were saintly.  ;)


 Well there is fantasies, and fantasies. high heels short skirt no undies walking around the house, than tied her up... and fuck her in the both holes till she passed out. ;D. well,you got the idea.

 I don't want to see anybody f*cking my girl.

 But if she wants me to bang her girl friend? ;D

 

 
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 26, 2014, 06:42:21 PM

 Well there is fantasies, and fantasies. high heels short skirt no undies walking around the house, than tied her up and fuck her in the ass till she passed out. ;D. well,you got the idea.

 I don't want to see anybody f*cking my girl.

 But if she wants me to bang her girl friend? ;D

 

 
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My point exactly. This is feminism gone wrong. And I want to be able to get pussy while gf stays whipped. Nothing wrong there.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 27, 2014, 12:24:15 AM
I'm guessing swingers get married because they want the traditional values like kids, a shared home and a long term relationship along with an open exciting sex life. Or most just realized they're sexually bored in their marriage. In reality, I don't think it's possible to have all 4 without recurring issues. Luckily I don't want kids, because there's nothing better to me than being single with the option to do whatever the fuck you please. You can still form great relationships with women without being monogamous to each other and worrying about who else the other is fucking. I don't get why some have to put a label on it like 'open relationship'...shit just stay single. I have a vasectomy scheduled next month.

It's crazy how many male celebrities and athletes you see get married everyday when you know they are never going to give that flowing stream of pussy up. They always get divorced sooner or later and end up paying. All because they chased this cookie cutter dream that's not really meant for everybody.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: local hero on September 27, 2014, 01:26:57 AM
I would hold up on the vasectomy, things change as you get older, and no decent woman will stay with you without wanting a family one day...

I never realy wanted kids, but having them now makes me so happy.... I don't care what anyone says, but your missing bigtime out without them

Id hate to hit 50+  with no kids or wife, you will then know your going to grow old alone whilest your 'boring' friends will be surrounded with loving kids and grand kids
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 27, 2014, 05:41:33 AM
I'm having my sperm frozen incase of the doubtful event that I do change my mind. And no decent woman? That's a bold over generalization. Especially today, with so many single moms. A woman who wants kids or to add more to what she already has in the near future, is not the 1 for me. I don't buy the dying alone angle either. I have family, siblings, nieces and nephews that I can see anytime I want.

When im 50, i hope to be en vacances with a woman half my age, and I won't have to sneak around my nagging wife to do it  :) ;)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 27, 2014, 06:06:16 AM
I'm guessing swingers get married because they want the traditional values like kids, a shared home and a long term relationship along with an open exciting sex life. Or most just realized they're sexually bored in their marriage. In reality, I don't think it's possible to have all 4 without recurring issues. Luckily I don't want kids, because there's nothing better to me than being single with the option to do whatever the fuck you please. You can still form great relationships with women without being monogamous to each other and worrying about who else the other is fucking. I don't get why some have to put a label on it like 'open relationship'...shit just stay single. I have a vasectomy scheduled next month.

It's crazy how many male celebrities and athletes you see get married everyday when you know they are never going to give that flowing stream of pussy up. They always get divorced sooner or later and end up paying. All because they chased this cookie cutter dream that's not really meant for everybody.

Take a look at the "dictionary" part and the "where are they now"
 http://www.discoveryfitandhealth.com/tv-shows/secret-sex-lives-swingers/episode-guide.htm (http://www.discoveryfitandhealth.com/tv-shows/secret-sex-lives-swingers/episode-guide.htm)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 27, 2014, 06:18:49 AM
Take a look at the "dictionary" part and the "where are they now"
 http://www.discoveryfitandhealth.com/tv-shows/secret-sex-lives-swingers/episode-guide.htm (http://www.discoveryfitandhealth.com/tv-shows/secret-sex-lives-swingers/episode-guide.htm)

No surprises there
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Parker on September 27, 2014, 06:23:38 AM
No surprises there
rules and regulations, trust/lust/intimacy/other issues. All this coming in, and and the swinging is supposed to fix this? You get a high, but the issues still are there.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ProudVirgin69 on September 27, 2014, 07:12:08 AM
I'm having my sperm frozen incase of the doubtful event that I do change my mind. And no decent woman? That's a bold over generalization. Especially today, with so many single moms. A woman who wants kids or to add more to what she already has in the near future, is not the 1 for me. I don't buy the dying alone angle either. I have family, siblings, nieces and nephews that I can see anytime I want.

When im 50, i hope to be en vacances with a woman half my age, and I won't have to sneak around my nagging wife to do it  :) ;)



How old are you?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 27, 2014, 07:15:57 AM

How old are you?

26, I've had too many pregnancy scares
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ProudVirgin69 on September 27, 2014, 07:21:52 AM
26, I've had too many pregnancy scares

Ever considered, you know, condoms?   :D

On the one hand, a vasectomy is no joke.... on the other hand, so is an unplanned pregnancy.  Good luck
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 27, 2014, 07:33:48 AM
Ever considered, you know, condoms?   :D

On the one hand, a vasectomy is no joke.... on the other hand, so is an unplanned pregnancy.  Good luck

I use condoms with women I first meet, but I prefer going all out with my fuck buddies. This is going to be a big burden lifted for me.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on September 27, 2014, 07:35:01 AM
Ever considered, you know, condoms?   :D

On the one hand, a vasectomy is no joke.... on the other hand, so is an unplanned pregnancy.  Good luck

he is a Getbigger.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: _bruce_ on September 27, 2014, 08:04:59 AM
Poor Jebus - what trashy clowns.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Simple Simon on September 27, 2014, 08:30:30 AM
26, I've had too many pregnancy scares
Hate to be the one to tell you but you cant get pregnant, you're a man.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on September 27, 2014, 08:35:01 AM
(http://i.imgur.com/X89T6sA.jpg)





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Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 27, 2014, 08:39:07 AM
Hate to be the one to tell you but you cant get pregnant, you're a man.

Thanks Simon
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: nzmusclemonster on September 27, 2014, 04:00:52 PM
Tbumbz is quite the sex symbol.
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: Lustral on September 27, 2014, 05:27:48 PM
I'm guessing swingers get married because they want the traditional values like kids, a shared home and a long term relationship along with an open exciting sex life. Or most just realized they're sexually bored in their marriage. In reality, I don't think it's possible to have all 4 without recurring issues. Luckily I don't want kids, because there's nothing better to me than being single with the option to do whatever the fuck you please. You can still form great relationships with women without being monogamous to each other and worrying about who else the other is fucking. I don't get why some have to put a label on it like 'open relationship'...shit just stay single. I have a vasectomy scheduled next month.

It's crazy how many male celebrities and athletes you see get married everyday when you know they are never going to give that flowing stream of pussy up. They always get divorced sooner or later and end up paying. All because they chased this cookie cutter dream that's not really meant for everybody.

Had same argument with my best friend. Granted I was with a girl and fucking around constantly but I don't get how you can't want a kid. My son came a bit early in my life but he is my progeny, my dna lives in him and he gets my amazing brain  ;D and I get to bring him up and mould him. How can you not want to raise someone like you and teach him and guide him from the fuckups you made?
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: WillGrant on September 27, 2014, 07:21:23 PM
(http://i.imgur.com/4M13643.jpg)
Title: Re: Bareback for Jesus
Post by: ENZO on September 28, 2014, 02:20:08 AM
Had same argument with my best friend. Granted I was with a girl and fucking around constantly but I don't get how you can't want a kid. My son came a bit early in my life but he is my progeny, my dna lives in him and he gets my amazing brain  ;D and I get to bring him up and mould him. How can you not want to raise someone like you and teach him and guide him from the fuckups you made?

That is a nice aspect of having a kid, especially if you're lucky enough to have a son. But for me, all the responsibilities and trade offs aren't worth it. Watching my siblings start their families..I know how time, money and energy consuming kids can be. When you have a child unexpectedly, there's no turning back.. you're forced to dive in and make the best of it. I'm sure along the way you discover joys only a parent will know. I'm just making the conscious effort to never have to take that dive. I'm also a realist in the sense that none of my relationships will ever last forever and I don't want them to..life is too short to tie yourself to 1 woman. We all get caught up at times and it can give you some of life's most intense and powerful feelings..but babies and marriage don't ever need to enter the picture.