This is the difficult part of this argument...logically yes. But this is a new person's life we're talking about, the baby she got is not what she "payed for"...this is the bit we can't just apply consumer rights to freely.
Bottom line, the only loser in this equation is the baby, born into parents with reservations about her looks...lets not forget, we're talking about a very superficial matter, a skin color FFS, the baby is hardly black anyway, she's very light skin with curly hair...it's not even an Afro. Yet such a slight superficial difference is causing them so much grief, if this is not about race than I don't know what is.
Eh.... not exactly. They oicked out a donor just like theyd pick out a man at a bar, based on what theyre attracted to and what they want there kid to look like.
Lots of girls wont sleep with black guys/latin guys/asian guys and vice versa because they're not attracted to them and dont want mixed race children (and thats there perogative, beauty/attraction is in the eye of the beholder and we cant claim someone is racist because theyre not attracted to members of a different race).
If she was attracted to those features and wanted to pass that on, shed have dated a black girl and wouldn't care what race the baby is. But she didnt, shes dating a white woman, and they wanted a white baby, and they picked out a white baby daddy.
Now, because of their fuckup, this poor kid is going to be loved less than had the sperm bank just done their job and given the couple what they had requested and paid for.
Its absolutley about race on a certain level. Its also about preference, and choice. She had the choice of who the donor was, just like shed have the choice of who shed fuck to get pregnant if she wadnt a disgusting bulldyke. She chose, and they fucked her. Now the kid will suffer. This is on the sperm bank, period