everything else is great though.. it's just why doesn't she tell me? Ladies? Is she afraid i won't believe her that it's innocent perhaps? I just don't get it.
I'm sure she is done with the guy... i'm positive actually from reading emails about him to her friends..lol.... i know, i'm awful...
If she's done with him why would there be e-mails to friends?
You are getting played. She knows the e-mails are being read. This is all a game so you'll look like more of a jerk than she does when this finally blows up in your face. Instead of being the guy who booted a lying chick you'll end up whining about how it's all your fault for checking the e-mails.
Chicks are smarter about stuff like this than men.
I doubt there's a female here who believes she isn't on to your snooping. Reads to me like you're hooked up with a princess who is never 'wrong'. Maybe she just feels entitled to more attention than one guy can give so still talking with the ex seems relatively right
Boot her ass before it's too late.