Can you please provide a short list?
None.
I am a big girl and smart enough to know that my life is driven by the choices I make.
I don't blame anybody else for bad things, nor do I reward others if things go well.
I only have bad feelings for two men, but both of those are liars and cheaters, so gender isn't the issue.
But keep phishing for the answer you are searching for...
You would think you would get the hint when I don't answer your PM's about the same topic.